I m so scared of high school life, what should I do if I m afraid of high school life?

Updated on educate 2024-04-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't worry about this, after high school, it's a new environment where you can start over. Maybe you can't help but think about each other in the first year of high school, but when you go to the second year of high school, you won't miss that boy so much, you in the second year of high school, you will gradually enter maturity, coupled with the sense of oppression in learning, then you won't have time to think about him, you now feel that you will miss him very much when you go to high school, you can't stand it, it will affect your life, in fact, it's not like this, time will dilute everything.

    I wish you a great high school life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Life in high school is urgent, and I hope you can be rational about your future life.

    Feelings belong to feelings, and you must not let feelings affect your normal life.

    High school is hard and there is no room for slack.

    Hard work pays off. Maybe it's finding true happiness after graduation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be afraid, Acenathan is a person from the past.

    Although it is a bit unfamiliar to say that I have just arrived in high school.

    There are also high schools that are not the same as junior high schools, and many people's psychology has changed.

    Not as naïve as junior high school students, some may be compared.

    Uh, but it's okay, not everyone is so bad, it's just a few people.

    Students in the same dormitory may be very unfamiliar with each other at first.

    Over time, you will find that they will have the same expectations for this new environment.

    Well, high school life is no easier than when you come to junior high school, and you have to keep the people you like in your heart and study hard.

    Maybe you will be admitted to the same university at that time, which is also a kind of fate.

    Maybe you will have a new relationship in high school, but for most girls, it will affect their studies.

    may be because the grade is still young, and I don't have good control over my feelings, and girls have a lot of affection.

    I want to say to you that you can't touch your feelings, you can't love, and you will hurt yourself in the end.

    Since the high school entrance examination is not good, don't make the same mistake twice, so you have to work hard in the college entrance examination.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've had the same experience as you. When I was in high school, I couldn't go home once every three weeks because I was boarding, and I felt very lonely, bored, and I missed that person. After a while, I began to slowly adapt to high school life, and I had a lot of friends to play with and eat together.

    Forget about her too.,Anyway, it will take a while to get used to.。。 Don't worry, everyone is the same. If you really miss him, spend a lot of time on studying or giving it to the people around you, after all, learning is the first goal.

    Good luck.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People should look forward, and they will grow up without experiencing setbacks.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, people are always full of fear of the unknown environment, this is normal, don't be good after a week of classmates getting acquainted, don't worry about these problems, you must know that facing is not necessarily more painful than escaping, I can understand your feelings! I'm an introvert, I lived in the school for six years in middle school, and I was nervous every time school started, but really only a week or two will find that you are surrounded by acquaintances, take the initiative to talk to people, and the relationship will be cultivated quickly. The environment of high school is still very simple.

    It can be boring when you first start school, so take a book to read! Military training may also be hard, so be mentally prepared!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're afraid that you won't get along well with people, I tell you!! If you don't fit in with a collective, either you're crazy or which group is crazy!! Whose problem do you say is out of the big ???

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to be like this too, so much so that I had some insomnia since high school. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, entering a new stage of learning, expectation and fear are inevitable, I have these suggestions, just for reference:

    1.Adjust your mindset and relax. I just suffered a loss of mentality back then, Wu Lu had quite serious insomnia in high school (of course, this is just a personal problem), so don't think too much, the pressure of fear is imposed on you by yourself, so don't have this kind of thought, it's okay to guess about living as normal as before.

    2.Study hard and build your strength. It is very normal to look forward to high school life, after all, this is a new platform, and it is normal to be afraid, it is recommended to study hard, with a real omen in hand, you will have confidence, and you will not be afraid if you have confidence (unless someone threatens you, of course, this is not very possible).

    That's all there is to it, I hope it will be helpful to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is recommended to study in a technical school. If you are a boy you can consider learning auto repair, the prospect of auto repair development:

    From the current analysis of the entire social situation, the prospect of auto repair is still very good, as people's lives are getting better and better, the number of people who buy cars is gradually increasing, and the number of auto repair personnel has not increased, plus the sales of cars in the 21st century are becoming more and more popular, the automotive industry is also accelerating its rise, and the relevant education departments have also announced a report on the shortage of talents in the automotive industry this year, according to the relevant data survey, a car owner starts from the time of buying a new car, until the car is scrapped. Halfway through the car is about three times as much as a car purchase, and some cars are growing at almost 10% per year.

    It can be seen that the number of cars, of course, there are more and more cars that need to be regularly maintained and repaired, and the real auto repair talents have not gradually increased like cars, I believe that it will not take a few years, there will be a shortage of auto maintenance talents in recent years, and the positions with high salaries have become a matter of course. Is there a future for learning auto repair now? As long as you like this major, you can choose.

    At present, the development prospects of the auto repair industry are still very good, and the auto repair industry belongs to the sunrise industry.

    Now the number of cars in China is increasing, and cars have generally entered every family and become an indispensable means of transportation in our lives.

    After every car is purchased from people, it needs some maintenance and later repairs. From the pasting of the car solar film at the beginning, to the regular maintenance in the later stage, and the periodic fine washing of the car, if there is a special event, the car must be repaired. From car beauty maintenance, to car maintenance, to car modification, these are all just needed consumption by car owners.

    And these jobs are collectively known as car repair, or auto repair for short.

    In the auto repair industry, there is a shortage of talents and a large demand, so there is a large space for salary and later development.

    This industry, whether in terms of employment or entrepreneurship, can meet the needs of the public to choose the industry again.

    If you are interested in auto repair and want to engage in the auto repair industry, then you can hurry up But warm reminder, if you want to start from scratch, it is recommended to go to a professional school to study, excellent technology is the last word.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, the main question is to understand why you are afraid of high school life, whether you are afraid of contact with new classmates, or afraid of the pressure of going to higher school or other things.

    In fact, there is no need to be afraid of high school life, it's very simple, think about how you came to junior high school, high school and junior high school life are similar, more is the pressure of studying. Maybe you're worried about interpersonal interactions, but to be honest, there's no need to worry too much about it. As long as you are excellent, you are not afraid that others will not be friends with you.

    I feel like three years of high school is very short. The moment I walked out of the examination room after the college entrance examination, I felt amazing, I thought that the past three years had passed like this? Like a dream, the memories are still stuck in the military training of everyone in the first year of high school, and they are all stupid and simple.

    High school is really the best memory, and there is no need to be afraid. When you're facing it, you're going to smile and hug it. Subject, I hope you must persist in studying hard in the three years of high school, and you must not leave regrets.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    See Advice: It is generally recommended that you use psychological stress reduction** to make your study and life relaxed, happy, and stable in your learning situation, and no longer afraid of returning to the scumbag. Do you usually like to exercise? The doctor asked: Is your high school the focus?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In high school study and life, different students may encounter different problems of Zheng Zheyou, and everyone may have psychological pressure and various obstacles. Don't be afraid when you encounter problems, you must know that there are corresponding countermeasures if there are problems. When you encounter problems, don't be overwhelmed in psychology, but seek help from teachers and classmates in time, and believe that through everyone's unanimous efforts, we can overcome difficulties together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, everyone will enter this age stage, that is, high school life, although the pace of learning is faster than junior high school, and the pressure is greater than that of junior high school, but everyone is the same. It will be good to get used to it for a while! In short, try to be yourself, don't think too much, it's really unnecessary, you really put too much burden on yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't be afraid, you should go to class in the first year of high school, you should have fun, you haven't reached the third year of high school, you don't have to be so anxious, high school life is still very good.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm very introverted, and I'm also scared of high school life, and I'm very scared of Minglu, and I'm lonely.

    Later, I took advantage of this lonely time, I studied hard, Koko took the first place, many people began to worship me, make friends with me, ask me questions, criticize Huai, I became confident from then on, and my life in high school became interesting.

    So, life is fair, just do what you have to do at different ages, don't be afraid.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Actively adapt to high school life, there will be many excellent students in key high schools, high school is a very pure place to learn, concentrate on learning, and will be respected by other students.

    The competition is really fierce, I was also the best in the school when I was in junior high school, and I would have been uncomfortable when I entered high school, there were too many strong players, and there were also confusions, but through my own efforts, I also established myself to a certain level in high school.

    If you don't have a congenital disease that causes you to be unable to do physical exercise, then there is no need to be afraid of military training, it is a stage to exercise yourself, and you need to experience it.

    Regarding the cost issue, you should not spend money indiscriminately, live frugally, do not worry too much about the problem of tuition fees, and the school will also give appropriate subsidies to students whose family conditions are not very good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What we can only do is to choose our future life, that is, to choose a different major. Are we really choosing? One or two years have passed, do you want to look back and remember when I was just in high school, I had friends who stuck together every day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Just take it easy, do your best, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's nothing scary about high school life, as long as you use the right study methods to start out! Combining work and rest, exercising more, how can you adapt to the stressful life of high school if your physical fitness is not good? In fact, it is not possible to study well all the time, and it is most important to find a study method that suits you!!

    If you are admitted to a key high school with good grades, it means that your own study method should be suitable for you, but you should adjust it according to the actual situation of high school! I wish you a speedy admission to your dream university.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, so just do some necessary preparations and don't worry too much. If the family's economic conditions are not good, you can work for a month or two in the summer vacation to share the burden for the family. You have good grades, you don't have to worry about studying, just stick to your own good study methods.

    Just do your best and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Concentrate on your studies and work hard to get into university...

    If you take a free major, all the fees for high school will come back...

    The problem that money can solve is not the problem.

    Your family's finances aren't for you to worry about...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Tell yourself to let go of your baggage and remind yourself that I am who I am, a unique me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's simple, every new beginning will have a longing and yearning so.

    Don't worry, high school needs you to study hard but don't worry, you have a long time to adapt, it should be fine, you have to believe that you can do it well, don't worry · Military training is nothing, it's very simple

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Can I understand that your biggest problem right now is the word fear? From your description, there should be two aspects.

    The first one is academic. Because you are afraid that your grades will not keep up because you have not attended preparatory classes, and you also realize that your previous learning methods can no longer be applied to high school, in fact, your worries are enough to show that you are a good child who loves to learn, and this is enough, and having a motivated heart that loves to learn is more important than anything else. Many people go to tutorial classes just as a psychological comfort, in order to eliminate anxiety like you, like the phobia of the beginning of school, hehe, in fact, the summer vacation is very short compared to a semester, even if the study should not be very in-depth.

    In contrast, I think that the time of summer vacation should be reserved for students themselves, and the vacation should be a pure vacation, with good rest, good fun, and psychological preparation for high school life. As for the study method, you are already very smart to realize, so take your time in the upcoming high school study life, everyone needs to find a new way, this is not just your problem. And judging by your narrative, you should be a very smart student.

    The second is the interpersonal aspect. Keep a sincere and optimistic heart, communicate more with the people around you, convey the atmosphere that you are my good friend, naturally, you will attract your good friends to come, as long as you want, don't worry and be afraid, personal energy is very important, keep a positive force.

    Hope my words can help you.

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