Can two people who are strangers to each other be happy when they get married

First of all, what is happiness? My husband and I met on a blind date and got married a few months later. When we first started together, because of a lot of small things, we always quarreled, and I thought about breaking up, thinking that I couldn't go on.

But we are not separated, because we are all conservative people, and we don't have the courage. More than a year later, I became pregnant, he began to learn to care about me, I had a great reaction when I was pregnant, he didn't let me do anything, and he watched the store and cooked for me to eat. In order to get me to eat more, he thought of a lot of ways.

By the time I was six months old, I had become very well eaten, and sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night feeling hungry, and he would get up and put on my clothes and burrow into the cold wind. Now we've been together for six years and have two little babies. We are honest with each other, and there are no secrets that cannot be told.

The other day I asked him that stupid question that a lot of girls ask: Do you love me? He thought for a long time and said:

Honestly? I said yes. He said:

When we got married, we didn't talk about love or not, but at that time I just thought you were a good girl, and my parents liked you very much, so they proposed to you. But after all these years, I don't feel the 7-year itch that people say about it. Now you and the children have become a part of my life.

You are my relatives and my everything. All my efforts are for you. There was no love in what he said, he didn't say he loved me, but I was moved to tears.

The relationship between people is only possible when they get along day by day. Some people love to die and live, but when they come back to reality, they will quarrel over trivial things. Of course, when choosing this "stranger", you must first find out, is he an upright person?

Are there any big bad habits that you can't accept? Figure these out before you make a decision.

Others don't know, what matters is what two people think.

After getting married, two people seem to be like strangers, and when such a marriage is maintained, you should understand what the emotional conflict between the husband and wife is. Most couples are living quietly in marriage.

In the future, they are all busy with their own careers, and because men have their own careers, they put their minds on their careers all day long. And women also put their minds on taking care of their children and taking care of the family, and they are busy with their own affairs. As a result, the communication time between husband and wife is becoming less and less, and even most of the topics of communication are generally mainly children.

When two people in a relationship as husband and wife get along together, don't always talk about children. After the husband and wife have children, they should also enjoy the world of the two from time to time, they can throw the children to the elderly to take care of them for a while, and the young people can choose to go out on dates together. Having a romantic two-person world is the wish of many couples after entering married life.

Because no matter what they do, many women will revolve around their children, dedicate all their time to their children, and lack care for their husbands. <>

When women see their husbands coming home from work, they just lie on the sofa and play with their mobile phones, and they don't take off their shoes or socks. When you see such a scene again, it will make many women feel very angry, women think that they are cleaning up in the house for a few hours, but their husbands never look at it, but wantonly make a mess at home. As a wife, you can first learn to appease your husband, since the hard is not good, then come to the soft, women should know that no man can withstand the gentleness of a woman.

Most men tend to be strong when they are strong and weak when they are weak, and if the wife can be gentle with her husband. So when the husband is talking to his wife, he is also chatting with his husband with a smile, and he can ask more about what interesting things his husband has encountered at work. Even if there are few topics between two people, you can try to find a topic to talk about, don't always talk about some things about your child, you can also tentatively talk about some plans for the future between each other.

This kind of marriage is a widowed marriage, and it has no meaning in marriage, so I suggest that you divorce it immediately and don't torture yourself. If you want to maintain it, you can communicate with the other person and say all the thoughts of guilt and respect.

I think it still needs to be communicated by two slow model people, to figure out why the relationship and relationship between the two people will become the way it is after marriage. And the key scrolls and depends on whether it can be properly interpreted.

Personally, I think that if two people are like strangers, then there is no need to maintain such a marriage at all, and maintaining it will only make both people very tired.

I think the two of them still have problems in communication, so after getting married, there are more and more contradictions, and everyone doesn't communicate in time, so they slowly become strangers.

After getting married, the two people gradually became strangers, and there was a communication problem, and if the two people did not communicate in time and did not care about each other's feelings, they would definitely become strangers more and more.

Or after they got married, they lacked communication, and they didn't have some romantic feelings, so they slowly became strangers.

It's because the two people are too familiar, and sometimes they don't even need to speak, they know what they want to do with one look, so they slowly lack communication and become strangers.

The reason why there will be a strange feeling after marriage is because of the lack of communication, understanding and tolerance between the two parties. The most critical factor of a happy marriage is that both parties should share responsibility, mutual trust, common understanding, mutual support, and mutual support, so as to go long-term. If you don't communicate, don't understand, and don't understand, you will definitely have no common language, and after a long time, you will naturally feel strange.

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