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I feel that the gnawing old people who don't go to work are lazy. If the parents are not there. I don't think they have the ability to survive.
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The behavior of gnawing the old people is not worth showing off, there are hands and feet, and everyone should work hard.
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Our parents gave birth to us to make us stand out, and when they are old, just like we take care of, for such people, they are not filial, not self-reliant, and autonomous.
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The old people who don't go to work are a waste of national resources if they don't go out to work at the age when they should struggle the most.
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Whether it is in movies or literature, we can see this kind of people, and some unbearable parents in real life have even sued them in court.
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The old people who don't go to work may feel that they are really spineless, and then they are really uneducated.
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I think those gnawing old people who don't go to work have no future at all, and they can only withstand the hate after experiencing the wind and rain.
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I think it's good to gnaw on the old people, at least I have the capital to gnaw on myself as a parent.
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The so-called gnawing old people who don't go to work are actually just walking dead, and they don't need to be treated as human beings.
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Now you can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month by decorating, erecting molds, building walls and repairing houses! So migrant workers are buying houses in the city! In recent years, the country has implemented urbanization, large-scale development, and overhauled houses, and since the post-90s, few people have done this, so this line is more popular, and the salary is very high!
Now the wall is based on how much a square meter is counted, and you can earn 500, 600, or 800 yuan a day, depending on your hands and feet! The salary of the frame mold is also very high, and the decoration of the house is a package, you think!
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Different gnawing methods give different evaluations.
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There are old ones and small ones.
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Feel that they are the scum of society. I hate these kinds of people.
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I think they're the scum of society. I think there should be such people.
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Nowadays, young people do not have their own work and life, so there will be a performance of gnawing the old, I think it is the connivance of parents that will let the children unscrupulously gnaw the old. In fact, the current society is always changing, but everyone should also enrich their lives, and it is really everything for young people to put on the stall. It is difficult to work when you are out of school, and most people are unable to find a good job.
When a person is working hard, he has to pay for rent, food, drink, and transportation, and many people develop in first-tier cities, and then they become moonshine clans.
It's very difficult for them, and the house and car are also things they don't dare to think about. Some people feel that life is really hard, and then they start gnawing at old age. There are also some people who think that adults should not use their parents' money, but in fact, most of our generation are willing to work hard and work hard.
If you have the opportunity, you want to improve your lifestyle.
We also hope to be able to build a house and buy a car through our own strength, but with our current salary, we are far from keeping up with the current housing prices. Therefore, when the house price is still acceptable, everyone hopes to rely on the power of their parents, or the hidden hall to rely on the strength of others to take a hand. If you really rely only on your own strength, then you will not be able to get the life you want in the end.
In fact, this era is very embarrassing, life has entered a specific period, so many people are already in a miserable stage.
Every age group has their own things to do, and their lives are very different. Everyone is also working hard in every time period, in fact, some people do not want to gnaw at the old unprincipledly, but because they do not have the ability to change the status quo. There is no need to think that those who gnaw at the old must be people who have achieved nothing, but they see it in a different way.
So we should get to know such people so that we can know if they have a certain degree of difficulty in doing things.
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I think that if the parents have the conditions, it is okay for the child to gnaw on the elderly, but at least don't do something to make the parents feel cold. However, a young man should also be independent in thought, financially independent, and have dignity in front of his parents, and after the death of his parents, he can also support himself.
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I think this is a very helpless thing, because the housing prices are too expensive now, so young people are forced to have no choice but to gnaw at the old.
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I think this is a normal thing, because housing prices are so expensive now, so many young people are forced to gnaw on their parents' money.
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There is no need to criticize too much, the old man has the ability to help himself. You have to work your own.
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I don't have much opinion about the gnawing people around me, it's their freedom.
In real life, there will be a few gnawing old people around everyone. It's not that they don't work, it's just that their income is far from enough to meet their living needs, and the help of their parents may continue until they get married and have children.
There are no pure gnawing old people around me, most of them are unable to support their lives, so they need the help of their parents. As an ordinary person, most of the life circles around me are grassroots existences.
Living in this county town where the income is not high, paying off the mortgage and car loan, and constantly worrying about finding a partner, the communication in daily life is also not less, and the economic income sometimes really cannot meet the normal needs of life. Most of the old people around me will continue to accept the help of their parents in this situation.
In fact, I can't complain about this situation at all, because I am personally in such a situation at a certain stage, and maybe without the help of my parents, I would not have the life I have now.
It's not terrible to gnaw at the old, it's terrible to gnaw at the old all the time. In fact, for our parents, they are not afraid of their children gnawing at old age, they are afraid that their children will not be able to support themselves and will not be able to gain a foothold in this society.
There are not too many parents who really need their children's feedback in life, and parents are really just worried. For young people, a little bit of old gnawing on such a major thing as buying a house and a car can make their lives move forward a few steps, and it is also more convenient to find a suitable marriage partner in life.
In fact, this is a kind of help that parents are more willing to give, and young people are not able to refuse. That's how I bought a house back then, so I'm not in a position to look down on anyone.
People always need to grow up before they can face the ups and downs on the road of life independently. It's not terrible to gnaw at old age for a while, and you shouldn't feel embarrassed. When you can live a good life, your parents will be happier than you.
Try to grow up and don't let yourself be a child forever.
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Why do they gnaw on the old people? And what afflictions do they have? Are they really lazy to eat? Today I will explain to you the scoundrels who gnaw the old people!
Gnawing on the old people. I would now like to make a point of view from the following points.
Everyone is no stranger to the term gnawing the old clan, and there was also a ** on TV before. In our impression and imagination, the gnawing old people are some older young people, they are lazy to eat, drink and spend their parents' money, they do not want to forge ahead, do not want to bear hardships and stand hard work, can only gnaw at home to gnaw the old. In fact, I have different opinions, and the gnawing old people also have their scoundrels and hardships.
Everything goes after its roots, and there are many aspects to the formation of the gnawing old clan.
First: The gnawing old people have a great relationship with their parents! Parents have loved their children since they were young, and they are pampered.
Don't let the child suffer the slightest, such a child can't afford any setbacks and blows when he grows up. I went to school and the teacher turned my face and didn't read it; turned his face with the leader at work and quit; can only go home to recuperate, and his parents coax him to provide for him! This is the gnawing old clan.
Second: due to the rapid development of the social era, the level of education continues to improve, some companies have high recruitment requirements, most of them are bachelor's degree or above, many college students can not enter their ideal company, and they dislike those who are tired and tired, and the salary can not earn a lot of money from small companies. This has led to the dilemma of finding jobs and supporting their families.
This is also their scoundrel, some people may say that what's wrong with a small company is not the same as a big thing? Yes, this sentence is indeed good, but for such high-achieving students, they don't think so simply, do they feel that the books they have read for more than ten years are so worthless? They feel extremely scoundrel, sleepy, confused.
It is difficult to find employment.
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This is a social phenomenon, very common and common, both in China and abroad, and it cannot be simply attributed to personal factors or social systems.
If it's just one or two, then it can be said that it's a human factor. If it's just China and foreign countries don't, it's a system problem.
But it's not like that, it's very common, and you will see it around you or among the relatives of your friends, or you have heard of such people and things.
There are also depictions of such groups in many films, televisions and books, both at home and abroad, why is that? Why are there so few such people among our parents and grandparents?
I think it is caused by the inequality of social distribution, and there is no such thing in a country like North Korea, and there is no such thing in the socialist system of distribution according to work in the past.
In the final analysis, it is a phenomenon caused by the unequal distribution of various resources in modern times, and I do not think that there are shameless people in the world, and I agree that people will be indulged in leisure and hard work, but the premise is not to endanger survival, survival is the primary goal.
If you don't work, you can't eat, this is the truth that people in primitive societies understand, so human beings help each other to hunt, breed and cultivate to get food, exchange goods with others to get what they don't have, and process all kinds of clothing and accessories for beauty.
But this is not the case now, now urban people have become social animals living for the sake of living, making money was originally just a means, but now it has become an end, and what has led to the end has degenerated people into animals. Social resources are tightly concentrated in the hands of a small number of people, most people do not have access to sufficient social resources, various machines replace manpower, the original value of producers becomes lower and lower, people's efforts are disproportionate to their returns, and forms such as the state restrict people from moving freely between regions. Human beings have turned most people into animals who only know how to live, most people do not have a minimum of ideals and noble pursuits, the older generation is like this, the new generation is even more so, human society is losing its vitality, becoming unreasonable, and becoming livestock raised by a small number of people in power, so the phenomenon of gnawing old age is the animal behavior of human society that exposes the atavistic ancestors.
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Now there are individual families that have "gnawed the old people".
I don't think it's surprising that society is developing so fast that anything can happen!
"Gnawing the old people" is a problem of individual families, and it can only be said that the children and adults of these families have not kept up with the changes of the times! My own ideas have not kept up with the development of the times!
In fact, the young people who "gnaw at the old people" have made themselves decadent.
Now such a family has tasted the bitter fruit of its own making!
I think I can help such young people, so I will lend a hand!
We shouldn't point fingers at these people, these people need spiritual guidance. The young people who "gnaw at the old people" cannot support themselves, and they should be helped to understand that there is no way out for nothing!
Sit and eat empty, this truth will one day be known by these young people! There is always a day to eat!
I'm Grandma Liu of Chunyun: Children are educated from an early age, and it will be difficult to manage children when they grow up!
Saturday, August 3, 2019 The third day of the seventh lunar month.
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I think there are a lot of gnawing old people now, these are what parents are used to, and I think there are few children now. Since I was a child, I didn't let my children do anything. It also allows children to develop a habit of worry-free food and clothing from an early age.
So when the child grows up. I don't feel like I have to do anything. Anyway, his parents will arrange it for him, and they will give it to him.
Unconsciously developed the habit of gnawing on the old. So I think it's all used to being done by my parents.
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It is most correct for young people to rely on their own efforts and abilities to create their own good life.
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The reason why there is"Gnaw the old"The phenomenon is mainly that this kind of people are lazy, afraid of hardship, high or low in work, and low wages. What can be done to change this? I think that the first is to let this kind of people really go to society, let them be tempered in the melting pot of society, and temper their will; the second is to strengthen learning, improve self-cultivation, and broaden horizons; The third is to love work, innovate thinking, and create new achievements.
The mindset has changed, wages have increased, and it will not"Gnaw the old"。
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I think gnawing on the old people is a bad idea for young people, young people should be self-reliant, and don't use their parents' savings to be chic for themselves. I also want to emphasize that the reason why this gnawing old family appears is also because parents have doted on their children since they were young, and they want to help their children do everything, so that children can develop the consequences of finding their parents when they have something to do. It is suggested that we should also learn from foreign education methods, so that children can be independent from an early age, and this phenomenon will definitely decrease slowly.
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The reason why young people and even middle-aged people are gnawing at the old is nothing more than two reasons: one is the reason for their poor earning ability. Second, there is a large gap between the rich and the poor in society, and prices are soaring, making people's income and expenditure not proportional.
Young and middle-aged people are usually unable to make ends meet because of their lack of ambition, mediocre work, and large living expenses, such as housing and car loans, medical care, and a series of expenses for children to go to school. Especially single-income families. On the other hand, in some cities, the price of first-tier cities is too strong, young people's habit of saving, no fixed asset base, completely rely on their own hard work in the metropolis is very difficult, to live a decent life is forced to gnaw on the old.
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