I can t stand my family asking me to go on a blind date, it s so embarrassing

I really think you can consider finding a mature man, or you can find a sunny boy when you are mature in your own mind.

I also have thoughts on the question of getting married sooner or later, and now I will give you the answers that others have given me for your reference My sister is a state-run school teacher. Because of her studies, she has been twenty-four or five years old after entering the society, but there are always boys who pursue her and show her affection, but she has never considered the issue of marriage, and now she is twenty-seven, and my father, mother, me, and my wife all feel the pressure of her personal problems. Among the few boys she rejected before, there were indeed those who were equivalent to her, but now the other party didn't know that she was in **.

She herself was in a hurry. Now a few friends introduced that there are three boys for her to choose from, but the other one is younger than the other, the oldest is two years younger than him, and the boy she likes is four or five years younger than her. seems to be destined to find a little son-in-law.

Because all the men of his age here are already married. No matter how big it is, I'm afraid it's all divorced. Hehe.

Alas, there really can't be helped. "People drift in the rivers and lakes, and they always have to suffer this knife."

Good luck to her and may she find her happiness and home this year. My parents and I were relieved.

Good luck too.

I hope you can pick up your happiness as soon as possible.

It's really sympathy!! I'm just like you!

I'm 23 too! The people in my family urged me to go on a blind date!!

I've rejected it a few times before, but the people in my family have a lot of opinions!! Under pressure, I finally agreed to go and see it once!

It's humiliating, but I have to admit that it's time to talk to someone!

So I chose to go and see it once!! There are many firsts in life! Just give yourself a chance!!

When to meet a new friend!! (That's how I consoled myself!) ：（

Is it natural for men to marry and women to get married, so don't have any pressure. Maybe you're not mentally ready.

This is easy to do, don't worry, find a boyfriend to show your family.

Or find a good friend to be a childcare child.

What's there to be afraid of, my family wants me to go home for a blind date in March, and I don't know what to do, or the two of us will be okay, so we don't have to go on a blind date, hehe.

What's this, 23 years old is not too old, my colleague is 29 years old and not married. What's the hurry, let it be.

If you don't want pressure and responsibility, you can only be 2 milks!

What's so shameful about that.

A blind date is actually two people sitting together chatting to see if they have feelings for each other. You don't have to be too nervous, you just need to treat this as a dinner party with friends, if you feel it, continue to talk, and if you don't feel it, you can end this blind date immediately.

Then you can go on a blind date with your good sister, and you can choose to let your sister watch you secretly at another table.

Then follow the arrangement of your parents and don't upset your parents. It doesn't matter if you don't have experience, your parents will arrange everything, don't worry.

First of all, you have to treat the blind date as a normal social experience, and you won't go on a blind date with so much psychological pressure. Blind date is nothing more than making friends in disguise, knowing one more friend, one more way to go.

Dress modestly and appropriately, and then try to show your strengths when meeting people.

You can meet, and explain your attitude to others after the meeting.

Summary. Family members have their own thoughts, they have their own ideas, and emotional matters cannot be forced, but blind dates may also be an opportunity to get to know each other, and if you think like this, your psychological burden will not be so heavy.

The family forced the blind date and didn't want to go, but no one in the family understood.

The family has their own thoughts, they have their own ideas, and emotional matters cannot be forced, but the blind date may also make the side an opportunity to get to know, if you think about it in this way, your psychological burden will not be so heavy.

If the blind date is only the woman because the house has not been built, the man has money, and because he has money, he goes on a blind date but has no feelings for others.

Hello, happy to answer your questions. In fact, the understanding is both sides of the collapse. Just as you are in the current group, you may think that your family does not understand you.

But it's possible that your parents are complaining to others right now and you don't understand them. So the understanding is mutual. I personally recommend you.

That's parents, after all. The one who did so arranged a blind date. Let's go meet us.

Even if it's a formality. Not for anything else. It's just to give parents peace of mind.

But I have already made it clear that my grandmother said that he is only 20 years old and should not get married soon, because the man has a house and a car, and the family house has not been built for more than 20 years.

In fact, there is another way, you directly tell your family that you can't go. And then just don't go. You can just go out and play during the day.

<> many people are disgusted with blind dates, and feel that everyone has a purposeful understanding, and such a marriage cannot stand the test. Five years ago, I fell in love with a girl in the company, and we had already confirmed the relationship, but my parents didn't like her, and my family thought she was a foreigner, with many sisters in the family, and she still had a rural hukou. In the end, I sided with my family and chose to break up with her.

I couldn't forget her after the breakup, so I haven't looked for other girls all these years, and seeing that I will soon be thirty years old, my family began to sit still and forced me to go on a blind date every day.

A few days ago, my mother introduced me to the girl of her colleague, and I actively cooperated to meet her, but I felt that I was very incompatible with that girl, and she was not the type I liked at all. When I got home, I just started to express my thoughts when I was scolded by my family. They always say that I have a high vision, and I don't care about every blind date.

Hearing my family's complaints, I was also very angry, not that I didn't care, but I really didn't feel it, finding someone to marry is a lifelong thing, and it's not about buying vegetables, how can I easily marry back.

Since that day, the girl has called me at any time, and several times she tried to ask me out, but I refused. I feel like she has a crush on me, I really want to make it clear to her, but I'm afraid of being scolded by my family, and now I'm so irritable, can't she see that I don't love her at all!

In recent days, I have been enrolled in interest classes, and I have joined a travel circle, where we meet on weekends to participate in public welfare activities or cycling activities. I use this way to expand my circle of friends, enrich my life, and hope that my family will stop interfering in my life, which is really tiring.

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