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First, greed. Second, ignorance. Greedy people like to take advantage, believe that there is a free lunch in the world, and have no moral defense line against food in their hearts, and the result is easy to be taken advantage of.
The ignorant people are mainly concentrated in the age of 18 and over 60 years old, the former is because the intelligence is not yet civilized, and the world is in a state of ignorance and chaos, and the heart is because after the age of 60, the cognition of the world has basically stopped, and the good character of modesty and prudence has been lost, thinking that in their own eyes, the world is all grandchildren, and the result can be imagined! The above shows that one should treat one's desires correctly, and if you can't control it, you will be consumed by it, and it is inevitable. Second, the child is deceived, and the guardian should be mainly responsible, and the child cannot be blamed.
Third, lifelong learning is very important, and age is not an excuse for a person to be old and not study. Fourth, there are greedy and ignorant adults, this kind of person is the kind of person who is deceived and helps others count money!
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Because frankly, recently, my ex-boyfriend asked me to borrow money, and my first reaction at that time was that the money should not be returned, but I still borrowed it, he borrowed a thousand, and I gave four hundred. The mentality at that time was very subtle, that is, if the four hundred were given to him, if he lost it, he would lose it, and he would sell our feelings for four hundred. Also, I'm a strange person, I always feel that people won't always go well, and I was too smooth during that time, if this money can avoid disasters, I don't care.
And sure enough, the next night, I found that I was blocked, QQ WeChat was all blocked, I was not surprised, and I didn't feel sorry for the money, but I felt some subtle sympathy, he lied to me in the past, I didn't debunk it, let him leave decently, because he came at too just the right time, it was my lowest ebb, I was grateful. Will he be complacent now? The people who once walked with me through the darkness are now dying for the sake of 400 peaches.
I felt a little sorry for him. Don't digress, I'm not always deceived, but, always for various reasons, I will suffer in money, buy vegetables with the old man and be found fake money, to modify clothes and be asked for more money, etc., I know very well in my heart that I have suffered a loss, I have been deceived, but I am too lazy to care, I always feel that I frequently meet noble people in many things, so I can't take everything, so to balance, I think it is acceptable. I have good intentions, frank and open, not seeking wealth and wealth, but peace of mind.
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The first time you were deceived, you may be able to say that you are ignorant and simply think about the world too beautifully. The second time you were deceived, it can also be said that you are not deeply involved in the world, you have not learned enough lessons, and you have too little contact with the dark side of human nature. If you are deceived for the third time, you can only say that you are too soft-hearted, do things without brains, and do not think, in short, you are stupid.
Everyone is growing up slowly, if you are deceived, one or two times is enough, born as a human being, may your kindness bring a little edge, do not speculate on others with malice, but still need to be vigilant. Because you never know how outrageous the human heart can be.
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I am often deceived. Or rather, to be used. The character belongs to the big-hearted, informal, and warm-hearted person.
There are a lot of friends around, but it is not excluded that it has a purpose. When a friend needs help, I always don't hesitate to help, even when it's inconvenient for me (no time, no money, no energy). However, when you are in trouble, you don't want to trouble others.
But if you pay for a long time, it will cause an imbalance in your heart, which is really contradictory.
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I am often deceived when I consume, for example, the same store for the same ingredients, my friend is 800, but I ask for 1800, only to know afterwards...I think I'm still stupid, and people think everything is right, and they think it's just like that. Poor judgment....
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Just got scammed, scammed the second time. ** Said that my sister wants to be cured and needs money urgently. Alas..
That's what I believed. But I always thought, what if it's true? If it were true, and I didn't believe it, wouldn't I be a sinner?
Won't I ever be able to forgive myself for the rest of my life? Alas.. It's bullying us for being too kind.
Maybe it's stupid.
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Hello friends, this is all the authorities are fascinated, bystanders are clear, such people are just for money, in daily life, some people are obsessed after being deceived, even if someone reminds them Kaihuai, they don't believe it. For these people, if they do not help in time, their interests will be greatly harmed.
Specifically, the ways to help these people avoid further deception include taking measures to stop their behavior, proving the fact that they have been deceived with conclusive evidence, and guiding and educating their grandchildren in light of the actual situation to help them correct their mistakes.
1. Stop their behavior to avoid them being deceived further. For those who are still obsessed after being deceived, the first thing to do is to take timely steps to stop their behavior, so as to prevent them from being deceived further. ......Since these people are obsessed, once they take further action, their own interests will be more damaged, so the first point to help them stop their behavior in time is to stop their behavior in time, so that they can avoid further deception.
2. Use conclusive evidence to prove the reality that they have been deceived, so that they can recognize the reality. As for the various methods of deception, although they come in various forms, they are always the same, and in the face of solid factual evidence, everything will be self-defeating.
Therefore, in order to help these deceived people not to be deceived further, it is necessary to come up with conclusive evidence to prove the fact that they have been deceived, so that they can wake up in time and recognize the reality.
3. Guide and educate them and help them correct their mistakes. After helping these deceived people to stop their losses in time, it is also necessary to provide them with targeted guidance and education, so that they can fundamentally understand the whole process of being deceived and the deep-seated reasons for it, so that they can truly realize their mistakes and take active measures to correct them.
In this way, these people can recognize the reality of their deception, so that they can fundamentally correct their mistakes and avoid similar situations from happening again.
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If you know that this person is**. Will you listen to him? Will you be fooled?
If you don't know that this person is **, then you have been fooled, and we have forgivable circumstances, you think you were deceived without knowing it. But the reality is that you know that this person is **, but you still believe him and are willing to be deceived and deceived, so how should we define this kind of person?
What kind of psychology is this?
Nowadays, a lot of health care companies, lectures, tours, all kinds of activities, will go to the community to pull a group of retired people, there is a medicine that can cure all diseases, I will take you to travel for free, after listening to the lecture and give you eggs, buy things and return the money, but in the end buy valuables. People have 19,800 yuan of things, and now 800 yuan is given to you, which makes you feel like you are taking advantage of it. Often, this thing, it might be worth 80 dollars.
Because this thing can't be found on the Internet at all, and it can't be bought in supermarkets, it doesn't have this kind of brand at all, because this kind of thing is a three-no product.
Why are so many elderly people still fooled? Why are there still so many old people who are willing to buy and buy? I bought a lot of stuff and piled it up at home and didn't eat it.
I bought a lot of things, and I just put them in a mess and looked at them, and I won't use them. It means that you told him that you were fooled and deceived, and he didn't believe that he would scold him, and directly said that they were not filial and did not let them come. What should I do when I encounter such a situation?
How many people are still hurt like this, how many people have families, there are still these people, these tours, these lecture pits. Some children will report to the police and complain, but this kind of company will occasionally shoot for gun, change place for company, so that you have no place to check, and they will fight guerrilla warfare for you.
Today, the old people in this community are deceived, and tomorrow the people in that community are deceived, today it is from this province, tomorrow it is from that city, and they may swindle everywhere in various forms, they can deceive those from Hangzhou to Xiamen, well, deceive those from Xiamen to Nanjing and deceive everywhere. Many elderly people in unfamiliar places will also use the card to display the cost of Alipay, WeChat, and the bound retirement card, and spend all their retirement salaries. Why can't the state manage it?
In addition to the supervision of the children of the various departments of the jujube, what about the problem itself? Does it exist in the cognition of the elderly, or is it the psychology of those who are greedy for small and cheap?
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