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1.Be tolerant and forgive everyone.
2.Try to keep your academic performance as high as possible. or work performance...
3.Walk at a slower pace.
4.Don't giggle with friends, 5Socialize well, but don't talk to each other in this way, it's better to use charcoal in the snow.
6.Questions that don't come up can be in the form of rhetorical questions.
Landlord,I'm introducing you in the form of a gentleman.。。。 I think a gentleman is the most perfect
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Why do you want to be introverted and cold?
I'm quite introverted, but I don't want to be like this, and I think I'm very kind and not easy to get angry, but the first thing people feel when they see me is very cold, in fact, I don't, I really want to change, because it's hard to make friends.
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Talk less to others and more to yourself.
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Develop a mood of indifference to the things around you, telling yourself that nothing matters.
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It's really strange, people want to be extroverted and lively, why do you want to become introverted and indifferent, maybe it's sad, or some other reason, you want extreme, this is a person's character, seriously, ordinary people don't go through some things that make them particularly sad, it's very difficult to want extreme, maybe it's a neurotic, The first thing you have to do is really not to speak, and pay attention to your eyes, your eyes that don't care about anything, and your facial expressions, and over time, you really don't care about anything.
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Hehe, let the beloved be broken, silence is golden.
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No communication, no expression.
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Think more about negative things, such as falling out of love......
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There may be several reasons why people are evaluated as "high cold":
1.Lack of warm expressions and tones. When a person with a high level of coldness expresses himself, his expression and tone are relatively cold or lack warmth, which will give people the impression of distance and impersonalness.
This may be due to the lack of facial expressions and fluctuating intonation habits in some social situations, or it may be due to low self-esteem or shyness. Thoughts.
2.It is not easy to show self-respecting emotions. People who are cold are not good at expressing their emotions through words or deeds, giving people the impression that they are emotionally energy-saving.
This may be due to a lack of emotional expression or a conscious avoidance of showing true emotions in order to avoid being hurt.
3.Speak little or don't take the initiative to communicate. People who are cold and cold are not very active in communicating with the sail sleepers, and their words are short or taciturn, which can make people feel unapproachable and lack affinity.
It may be because of an introverted personality, not good at active communication, or deliberately keeping a distance from others.
4.Focus on yourself or close yourself off. This may be due to a strong tendency to be self-centered, or a conscious blockade of contact with the outside world.
5.Behavior is stiff and restrained. People with cold demeanor and movements are more stiff or stiff, not relaxed and natural, which will deepen the sense of distance of others.
It may be due to a lack of certain social skills, or a deliberate display of defensiveness and unapproachability.
Therefore, the key to being evaluated as "high cold" is that expression, emotion, communication, and attention may show a sense of distance or neglect to express. If you want to change this impression, you need to adjust and improve in these aspects. Learn to express your emotions moderately, take the initiative to communicate with others, pay attention to the needs of others, and relax and socialize naturally.
This requires increasing self-awareness, overcoming low self-esteem, and practicing hard.
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