What s it like to be suddenly deleted by a good friend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To be honest, I feel very, very lost for a moment, can you imagine a person who can talk to you every day, I don't know what the reason, suddenly deleted you, without any warning, the person who had been talking to you speculatively before, suddenly became a stranger, I was not angry, I just felt very lost, and then I was stunned for a long time, and my brain thought why, as for it? Are you so disgusting? After a good night's sleep, you can never have a good impression of people through the screen, one day you will understand that your heart and secrets should not be easily shown to others, there are not many people who really understand you, they are just playing on the spot, turning around and telling others your jokes.

    You treat people sincerely, when people are confidants, people just treat you as an app, and you delete it after two clicks of boring. In the days to come, we don't need to be cautious about others, it's enough to play that role well on the spot.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I once had a netizen who had known me for five years, and it was the kind of person who usually didn't chat and could chat for a few hours, and it felt quite compatible, and then I found out that I liked this netizen, so I confessed, and later found out that he deleted me, and the first feeling at that time was not sad but relieved, I liked it for so long, and finally got an answer, not angry, I think he may have had an object at that time, and he was actually quite happy, he is not that kind of scumbag, very straightforward, there is an object that will not be ambiguous with others, But maybe he thinks I'm ugly, though he doesn't want to admit it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe one of your behaviors provokes her, which may be a sign that she values you, but straight men generally find it inexplicable. Maybe it's really a grievance that has been accumulated for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I want to delete it.,Chat is meant to be relaxed.,You have to reply every day to talk.,It seems to have become a fixed task.,It's not appropriate to not reply.,It's uncomfortable.。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She's too embarrassed to delete you, and you're too embarrassed to ask why the party at fault is more justified than the injured party, or at least to know why.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you treat him or her as a good friend, but does he or she treat you as a good friend? Whether the dedication to friendship is mutual, I believe that there is nothing in the world that does not happen for no reason.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's definitely not good to find out that it was deleted by a friend! First of all, I will ask myself if I am doing something wrong. Carefully analyze every aspect of my usual interactions with him, if it is because of my own problems and I care about this friend, I will take the initiative to apologize and save the feelings between each other.

    If it belongs to the other party's problem, I will not regret or blame him, because he is not worthy of my payment at all.

    Secondly, it is also divided into situations, first of all, if this friend is very close to me and has a good relationship, of course I will be unhappy at this moment, but after all, I am a friend, and I will definitely be unwilling if I don't ask the reason.

    Look at each other, and then see if you want to "forgive" each other in the end! If you have the responsibility to admit your mistakes and show concern, however, it is also possible that good friends have not been in touch for a long time, and you may not be very important in the other party's heart, so don't care very much at this time!

    Secondly, many friends on WeChat are not very familiar with each other or do not communicate often (some people do not communicate at all), so I don't care much about this situation, maybe when the other party cleans up friends, they find that they feel the same as me, and they feel meaningless, so they delete it.

    Let's talk about my experience, a very good friend unknowingly deleted me, and I found it when I sent him a message to say hello, but I didn't delete her, I just kept it there, and I didn't go to a mutual friend to ask, but let it be, and found out that it was deleted at that moment.

    I was still a little sad in my heart, because I thought back to my relationship with him, and I didn't find anything wrong, and then I calmed down and didn't deliberately look for the other party, until a long time later, I found out that he secretly added me back and sent a message.

    I pretended not to know that he deleted me, and naturally began to greet, and slowly he said to himself the reason why he deleted me at that time, I didn't get angry after I knew, but a little distressed, fortunately, this time the incident did not have a great impact on us, I think when I find out that I was deleted, don't have too many emotional ups and downs, you can give each other some space first, go with the flow, and the people who really care about you will still come to explain to you and reconcile with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'll remove him from me, and since he doesn't think the two of us need to contact each other anymore, I'll look at it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At this time, I will delete the other party, or contact the other party directly to understand what the specific reason is, so that many misunderstandings can be resolved.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'll send them a friend verification, ask them why they deleted me, and give them a specific reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1 No, it won't. The two of them have actually spent their lives in loneliness.

    3. Learn to be lonely and enjoy loneliness, which is the need and necessity of growth.

    4 Maybe it's just accidentally deleted, and I often delete it by mistake. Even if you do delete it, you don't have to be too glassy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If I don't do anything, he will delete me, maybe a little angry or surprised, if you have a good relationship and then there is nothing, I may ask why you deleted me? If you're a good friend, you'll definitely be sad.,If something doesn't happen.,He won't delete it for you.,Colleagues don't really matter.,It's just a work relationship.,Friends.,It should be very sad.,This kind of affirmation is similar to no longer contact.,And I don't think there should be a mistakenly deleted.,So if you delete it.,There must be some contradiction between the two of you.,In this case,You should know how to solve it.。

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I am deleted by a colleague or friend, I will be lost for a while, and my friend's words may feel sad, but not to the point of despair. It's more about the reason why you're deleted.,If it's because there's not much contact in the future.,Or there's no common topic anymore.,It's very calm.。

    After all, the fate between people is deep and shallow, and many people can only accompany themselves for a while, and it is impossible to walk with them all the time, and the things of fate cannot be forced. People come and go in the world, and fate comes and goes, all of which are normal.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are deleted by a colleague or friend, you will not be sad and desperate, because if you are deleted by a colleague or friend, it means that there is a gap between you and them, and you cannot continue to maintain a friendship relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, it won't! Why should a colleague or friend be heartbroken when deleting it! Colleagues and friends are just passers-by in our lives, they can only accompany us on a journey, we calmly welcome their arrival, and also calmly accept their dispersal!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are deleted by a colleague or friend, you will generally not be sad and hopeless, of course, there may be some sadness, but you will definitely not despair. Whoever leaves in the world can do it, let alone leave anyone, even if you change countries, you can survive, and those who are sad and desperate after being deleted by colleagues or friends are fools.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There will be a little loss, but it will definitely not rise to sadness and despair. You may feel that you have no value to others, so you will be deleted. But who can accompany who for a lifetime, usually delete it if you don't have any contacts, you can't say a few words if you don't delete it, the relationship is down, and you try to do your best, if you bloom, butterflies will come.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm not going to be heartbroken. There are no sad and hopeless thoughts. Normally, other people and colleagues and friends don't want to be friends with you anymore and delete you.

    You make new friends again, and you think, if you don't make friends with me, I don't want to be friends with you. That's how I was deleted with my friends, I don't care, what to do. Be in a good mood.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I am deleted by a colleague or friend, I will not be particularly sad, and it is impossible to despair, because I still have many colleagues and friends! If he doesn't like me alone, forget it, I won't be friends with him, won't it be over? There are other friends to make friends with.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no need to be heartbroken. Disappointment will definitely be there. Since he was deleted by a colleague or friend, it means that he is not your real friend. If you don't agree, delete it. Such a person is also not suitable to be your friend. It's just that I was disappointed that I used to be sincere.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be too sad, you may be lost, but since they want to delete it, it may be that you accidentally offended someone, or they can't get used to you deliberately blocking you, they want to think about each other's trust and consciousness when the two of you quarrel in the future, if the other party is angry, quickly apologize, if it is not the same as their beliefs, it will be broken.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are deleted by a colleague or friend, of course, you will not be sad and hopeless, because under normal circumstances, if it is deleted by colleagues and friends, it must be caused by your own reasons, so there will be no sadness or despair.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you are deleted by a colleague or friend, I think most people will be sad, but a small number of people may feel that this is nothing, these people feel that the colleague or friend is not their own family, and deleting some WeChat will not affect themselves greatly. Sadness and despair are not enough, after all, it is not a parting of life and death.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are deleted by a colleague or friend, don't be sad and hopeless. You can't drive it away, and you can't keep it if it's not you. Life is all about encounters and misses. Deleted by a colleague or friend, that's their loss. You can also meet better and more colleagues or friends with whom you shoot.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Being deleted by a friend is just a little disappointed in the friend, not to be sad, let alone despairing. Think about whether there is anything you need to improve about what you have done to your friends, and try to change when you know your mistakes, try to get along with your friends sincerely, and don't let your friends chill.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't feel sad and hopeless when I am deleted by a colleague or friend. Because that only means that your friendship has not reached that point. If I really care about you, how can I delete it? If I really think of you as a friend, I won't delete yours.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If it's an important friend, a colleague or friend you care about, it must be sad, but desperate but won't, it's just a person who ignores you, anyway, life comes and goes, desperate, what, ignore you, first think about whether you have a problem, if there is a problem, then correct it, then goodbye, thank you, take care.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There will be some anger, but it will never be sad and hopeless. Honestly, it's good to have the opportunity to see a person clearly. Such so-called friends, since the other party does not cherish themselves, what is the use of asking them? People who are not worthy of dating are fortunate to disappear automatically.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Being deleted by a colleague or friend is indeed a very sad thing. But don't despair. Man did not come into this world to live for anyone, but for himself.

    Friends and colleagues are not static, you must be open, although it is a little sad, but I think it will be fine after a while. Let time dilute everything.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you are deleted by a colleague or friend, will you be sad and desperate? This will definitely be a little sad, but it won't be desperate to be deleted by colleagues and friends, this one will definitely not be able to adapt to this, and it will slowly get used to it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, because I don't know what the reason is, I don't know what is wrong and I can't ask, so I will be very sad and desperate, if I know what offended others. I feel a little more comfortable.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If one day I suddenly find that someone has deleted me, then I may feel very happy, because of this, I have finally made others feel disgusted with me, and my experiment has finally succeeded. I learned what to do to make people feel that disgusted with you, and then how much they would dislike you before they deleted you, and it was a very happy experience.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It was a very helpless, angry, and painful feeling. My boyfriend said that no matter how loud he is, no matter how angry he is, he hopes that I won't delete him. I actually secretly pulled him on the blacklist, but I pulled it back in 3 minutes, yes, he never knew.

    As for such a short period of time, it was entirely because I was very angry, but I was reluctant to pull him on the blacklist, so I pulled it back by myself in just 3 minutes each time, because I understood the feeling of being very frustrated. If it is someone you love and you are deleted, think about how uncomfortable you should be. Empathy, in fact, you know.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I was deleted, and if I was an ordinary friend, I would have an inexplicable feeling, and I didn't know what happened to me. Because even if it is in an unfamiliar person, it will not be deleted because it is unfamiliar. It's all a small thing, but if it's a good friend, it's going to be very annoying, and you're going to find the reason, but no matter what it is, it won't have much of an impact.

    It's better to do it yourself, and you don't have to ask others.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm sorry, but I have no way of knowing the exact reason for this, as everyone's situation can be different. But here are a few possible reasons why a friend suddenly deletes you:

    1.Emotional distancing: Your relationship may become distant, with no common topics or no continued contact, so they delete you.

    2.Unpleasant Experiences: There may be something between you that they are not happy with, such as quarrels, arguments, misunderstandings, etc., causing them to be disappointed, angry, or distressed, and they choose to delete you.

    3.Privacy concerns: They may be worried that you'll get information they don't want you to know, or they don't want you to know that they're on vacation, or they don't want you to know what they're doing, so they choose to delete you.

    If you really care about this friend, you can reach out to them and ask why you were deleted. If they are not willing to face you, you must also respect their decision and move on.

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