What it s like to be hurt by someone you love and trust the most

The harm that a person fears most about trust is betrayal, that is, the violation of trust, the loss of trust, and the disappointment of both parties.

The most hurtful thing about trust is betrayal, when a person gains the trust of another person, only to find out that the other person has betrayed him, this hurt is the most profound and unbearable.

Deception after trust, perfunctory after sincerity;

The snub after paying, the loneliness after digging out the heart;

The strangeness after familiarity, the boredom after companionship;

Ignore after affection, and cool after turning around.

Many people may think of his parents when he encounters the most difficult time and the most helpless time, which is understandable, because maybe your parents are the most selfless person to you in this life, because you always know that once you open your mouth, your parents will definitely help you, and you also know that no matter what you become today, or what you do, your parents will always be on your side, so you must also understand that your parents are one of the most important people in your life.

There are also friends, saying that every time he encounters difficulties, he thinks of his friends, because in the four or four years of college, they eat and live together, and support each other has long been the same as shadows, yes, friends are the special existence after we go out of society, second only to our families, because everyone will not exist alone in society, and will choose to get along with people with similar personalities and appearances, because in this way we can not only get psychological mutual help but also help each other in life.

So, whether it's family or friends, in short, when you are most helpless, the person you think of must be the one you trust the most, at least during this time period, so you have to understand. Cherish this friendship, because it took you a long time to get it, and after you lose it, it is basically impossible to have this trust like Kai Zhen!

If you don't trust the person you love the most, then I think everyone should be very uncomfortable, because his weight in your heart must be very heavy, so your expectations for him will be very deep, but if it backfires, then I think many people may not be able to accept this.

It is said that in love, the mutual trust of two people is very important, you think that if you love someone, but the other party often gives you a feeling of distrust, then it must be very annoying, because if the other party does not trust you, you will feel that you do not even have the minimum emotional foundation, then we talk about such a relationship, if you want to continue, it also feels a bit fantastical, because any relationship, trust is the foundation, so if we really love someone, Then we will naturally believe in him, and only in this way can the two of them truly reap each other's happiness.

In fact, I have also had this kind of time when the other party is distrusted, because if you are only one-sided, there may be some people who will be more insecure and happy, so they often feel that they will often feel the gains and losses after determining the relationship between the two of you, at this time you will definitely feel very overwhelmed as his object, because you have no way to change this phenomenon and change his mind. No matter what you do, you can't give her enough security, so at this time, both of you may be tired.

So I still hope that since the two of us have decided to be together anyway, give her enough confidence, and trust him and love him well, only then can you be together for a long time.

It's a good feeling to be trusted, even if it's not because of a big thing, even if it's a small thing, once someone trusts you, you will feel that you have a heavy responsibility and are willing to work hard to do it for the trust of others. In life, there are many things that lie in feelings, and trust is a key element that makes feelings stable and harmonious.

In many TV dramas now, there will be a lot of scenes of the hero and heroine arguing, and once the quarrel starts, the most fundamental reason is: "You don't trust me". This is a line that often appears in many film and television dramas.

Of course, in real life, there are many such situations, being distrusted by the people around you, distrusted by your loved ones, distrusted by your parents and friends, this feeling is very uncomfortable, so in these groups of people, there will naturally be a weakened feeling, others do not trust you, and over time, you will gradually lose your trust in others.

I used to have a very good friend, and I played together until I was older, so to speak, when we were together, they were almost inseparable, but later because the longer they grew up, the farther away they were, and their hearts were not as close as before, and naturally their trust decreased. But at that time, we didn't realize the problem, and we always thought that she was still the person I trusted the most, and I was also the person she trusted the most. Until one day I told me something, saying that I couldn't tell others, and then this matter was known by other people, she was furious, and pointed out that I leaked it, but I didn't, since she told me not to tell others, that is to trust me, how could I betray her and turn around and tell others?

Through this incident, we had a fight, and then we didn't dig out our hearts and lungs to each other like before, so we went further and further!

Being distrusted by someone you like is because that person may not like you.

It's going to be disappointing. One day I was working late and when I got home, my girlfriend didn't believe me, she forced me to ask where I went, and I really didn't bother to explain. I really wanted her to trust me, and her suspicions disappointed me inside.

I think this will be very uncomfortable, there is a heart-rending feeling, after all, the person I love the most in my heart is him, and he is the one who distrusts me the most, it must be super uncomfortable.

We always say that to be a human being is to be magnanimous, and to forgive others is to forgive yourself.

As everyone knows, there are too many things in this world that we can let go, but it doesn't mean that we can forget. There are also too many people who we can forgive, but no longer trust.

It's just because of him that he has hurt you.

Recently, Ming Yiyue received a very special letter, in which Mr. Q told him about what happened to him in the workplace. Colleagues who have been getting along for many years, once like buddies, 1 year ago because of the promotion, the two had a competition, Mr. Q, who had a great advantage, because he listened to his colleagues, "This supervisor position must be yours, let's have a drink in advance in the evening, when I celebrate for you." In fact, Mr. Q can't drink, he gets drunk when he drinks, and his colleagues also know it, but the other party is very gracious, and he pulls him to drink, until the next day Mr. Q is drunk and unconscious, and at the critical moment of the competition, because of being late and drinking, he lost his position as a supervisor, and the person who got this position happened to be the colleague who invited him to drink.

Mr. Q said, "I also suspected that he had a heart, but he was obviously very enthusiastic, and later he was promoted, and he also gave me a few big customers, so I didn't think badly and believed him." However, what he didn't expect was that not long ago, this colleague hurt himself again.

In order to cover up his mistakes, he cried and begged Mr. Q to "help me block it, just say that you came up with this idea, and when the boss is angry, I will give you a few more big customers......Mr. Q was still wondering whether to help with the bag, but he didn't expect that the other party was just informing him, and he had already reported these mistakes to his boss, and the boss's favor towards Mr. Q was instantly lost, and he even talked to him, "If you continue like this, I see that you are not far from leaving!" This time, Mr. Q let his colleague frame him "without a complete body", and he didn't understand: I treat him wholeheartedly, how can he do this to me?

Can such a person forgive him again?

The person who hurts us, if easily forgiven, will not know how deep his mistakes are.

Because what he has lost is a heart that he once trusted.

Of course, you can't fall on the same person twice, people are more emotional creatures, and once they are hurt, they will definitely feel uncomfortable, and of course they won't trust anymore.

The most hated thing is to be deceived, no matter who it is. Being deceived by the person you trust the most means that you care about him and value him. People are like this, even if there is a bottom limit, there is a measure, but it is always impossible to let go of the arms of deception.

Even if you want to forgive him, then you promise that he will not be cheating on you next time. People live in reality and are constantly growing. You can't let go of your arms and don't choose to leave.

In fact, when you go to another city, you will find that he is not worth your sadness or sadness for him. You have to understand that women are my naivety and willfulness, they are our killer weapons, and at the same time, our kindness and indecision will also make us depressed, why bother!! Why bother to let yourself come to Yue Heng himself.

If you really care that much, give him a little time and give yourself a little time to think. Before you make a decision, you have to be strong, even if you break your heart. After deciding for yourself, you are giving yourself a new beginning in the middle of liberation and another life.

Either way, it's up to you to make the decision. You're going to be fine, be strong, you know!

It's really a heart-rending feeling to be hurt by someone you love and trust very much. My ex-boyfriend and I met during an internship in the company, at that time he was already officially working, I had to go back to school to do my graduation project after the internship, he took special care of me during my internship, I didn't understand anything, he would teach me everything, and he would accompany me to work overtime, and finally when I was about to end my internship, he confessed to me, I thought that I would return to work in this city after graduation, and there was no long-term long-distance relationship, so I chose to be together.

After that, I went back to school to work on my graduation project, he was actually very nice to me, after we were together, the company I lived in helped the intern rent a house, and when he was free, he would come over to cook for me and wash my clothes, and he was very grateful to him. I thought I would never meet a boy as good as him again, so I decided to wait until I graduated, found a stable job, and I took him to meet my parents, at that time I really trusted him, and I thought in my heart that the two of us would always get married, because our relationship was really good, although the conversation was short, but to be honest, we had the same three views, and rarely quarreled over some things.

His birthday happened to be two days before my graduation defense, and it was also my busiest time, I still took the first flight to him in the evening, but I didn't tell him, I wanted to surprise him, and in the end there was no surprise, but it scared me. I didn't expect that I was actually a junior, he has always had a girlfriend who has been talking for seven years, during the time I was with him, he happened to have a cold war with his girlfriend, and now the two of them are reconciled, I have become a third party, I was super angry, slapped him, warned him, warned his girlfriend, and I left in style.

I went back to school all night long, my mind was completely mushy, and the day of my graduation defense was very uncomfortable, but I also graduated, and I went back to the dormitory for two days and had two meals, and then it took me a year to forget, and it was really uncomfortable to be betrayed.

It's a particularly painful feeling. I don't think all my efforts are worth mentioning. And in exchange for such a hurt ending.

You will feel that the whole world has collapsed, and you have never thought that the other party would hurt you, and you have always regarded the other party as the closest person.

I think it's very painful, a pain that makes people feel very desperate, an unforgettable pain, and even makes people lose the courage to trust others.

It's like a knife in my heart, I never thought that one day I would be hurt by the person I trusted the most, and I felt that I would never trust someone again.

It must be a very bad feeling, there will be a special feeling of loss and sadness, especially if you think that the other party should not do such a thing, this gap will make you very uncomfortable.

It is a very uncomfortable feeling to be hurt by someone you love and trust very much, because you are so emotionally invested in the other person that you don't get the best results.

It must be very painful in my heart, and I will feel very sad, after all, the other party is the person I trust the most, and the other party will feel very disappointed in my heart when he does such a thing.

If you are hurt by someone you love and trust, you will feel that the whole world has betrayed you and that your sincerity has been betrayed.

It's the feeling of heartbreak, because the person who hurts you is not someone else, but the person you love and trust the most, but he has failed your love and trust and hurt you in turn.

It can be a particularly painful feeling. Because a person I trust so much will hurt myself, I never thought about it.