The problem after the blind date, please ask you greatly

It's best not to contact her with the attitude of starting with ordinary friends first and ending up in love.

Like you say, I can feel that she doesn't have any feelings for you.

If two people have feelings, just because they don't know each other yet, so they start as ordinary friends, I'm very supportive.

But she doesn't give you a chance to get to know each other, so it's not interesting.

If she really wants to develop a relationship with you, she should slowly let you know about her.

So since she's like that, there's no need for you to have that attitude.

In the end, you are the only one who suffers and gets hurt, and the ride has not started yet, so let's end it!

Have a great day!

If you decide to give up, you have to be resolute, if you really like her, then you have to go through it slowly, judging from what you said, she either has a heart or is dismissive of you. Slowly let your appearance become a part of her life, and then suddenly disappear, so that she will feel something strange somewhat, and will definitely think of you in the end, come on! I wish you a beautiful hug *o *

If you choose to continue, you should step up your emotional offensive, because always being so ambiguous will be very detrimental to your future development. If you like her very much, be brave to love, bold to love. Because in pursuit of the happiness of your life, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

First of all, the parents and elders introduced it, and they are really stressed to stare at it.

Mainly because the elders are also acquaintances of acquaintances, the object of their introduction has at least a basic understanding of the situation, and then you and the blind date are still in a state of confusion, and the parents hope that the two of you have become a matter of course, this pressure is unbearable for ordinary people, so it often forms the effect of the opposite of things.

Secondly, the vision of parents and elders is not the same as that of young people.

What parents see is that it is better to have a stable job and a house, and the aesthetic standards are even different, and young people hope that they will gradually understand each other in getting along, and it is important to be able to live together in the future, but this is exactly what parents cannot participate in, so the success rate of blind dates is even lower.

Clause. 3. Stage fright, or maybe it's embarrassing.

Everyone's personality is different, not everyone can talk in the face of a stranger, calm as if he is nothing, like facing an old friend for many years. Just like some people, since childhood, they are introverted, withdrawn, unsociable, and don't like strangers, so they resist the contact of strangers in their hearts.

It's like a person who is afraid of heights, and he can't see heights; It's like a person with a phobia of density who can't see dense things.

That fear comes from the deepest part of the heart, not to be controlled and changed. And many parents don't understand very well, thinking that blind dates are just a trivial matter, is it necessary to be so repulsive?

There are also some people who are not good at words, although they are usually very arrogant, but when they see strangers, they are immediately timid, unnatural, and do not know what to say or what to talk about. So it made the atmosphere very awkward, and I always wanted to find an excuse to escape, and after experiencing it once, I never wanted to experience it a second time.

As the saying goes, people are different, and what you can accept does not mean that others can accept it. **。Clause.

Fourth, the most important reason is that you will feel very shameless.

Men and women, sometimes vanity is at work. In the face of blind dates, many people will have this mentality: "It's not that I don't want it, why do I have to go on a blind date?" ”

As a result, many people think that only people who can't find a partner will go on a blind date. Why can't I find an object? It shows that he is not good enough, so everyone will think that if he goes on a blind date, he proves that he is not good enough.

Then I was worried that my relatives and friends around me would find out about it, and they would laugh at themselves, and I would feel very shameless after being passed on. Even if blind dates are already very common, even if many people can accept them, but in the deepest part of their hearts, there will be more or less such scruples and worries.

Especially young people, vanity and comparison are even stronger, and everyone is so good-looking, so no one wants to lose face.

Two people know each other, if they don't know each other's inner world, then it is difficult to have feelings; Because sometimes, there are some people who are not excellent on the outside, but they are very good in the inner world; But when going on a blind date, the most important thing for men to look at is whether the woman is beautiful; And women have to see more, not only men must be handsome, but also have the ability, if they have ability, they also have to see whether the man has money, whether he has a house, whether he has a car; So generally speaking, it is difficult for two people to match the number, and it is naturally difficult to have feelings; Because you can't experience the love of time, it is naturally difficult to have a good feeling.

2.People who go on blind dates have more or less their own unspeakable secrets.

Under normal circumstances, an excellent man and an excellent woman will not go to the step of blind date; Because in the sea of people, many excellent people have long been targeted by others; Of course, this is only the majority of the case, but some people, because of the working environment, because of some other conditions, so although they are also very good, but they have no opportunity to contact the opposite sex, and naturally they can only go to the blind date; However, there can't be too many such people; Most people who go on a blind date must have some unspeakable secrets of their own.

When you go on a blind date, it's hard to feel it; This is actually when you go on a blind date, there is an obstacle in your heart; In most people's hearts, they all feel that a person who goes on a blind date must not be able to get married, and he must be defeated or not excellent, and he has become a withered notice picked by others; So when I went on a blind date, I looked at each other with a disgusting eye; In fact, there are many people who will choose blind dates because they want to find a better one; It's not that I can't find it, but I feel that my own one is not good enough; So when you see a blind date, you naturally don't feel too much; And many women, if the man is in good condition, then there is no feeling, and they will be with the man.

I think it's okay to take your time, because you're only on a blind date, and you don't know each other well once or twice, and if you tell someone directly, it might feel a little abrupt.

It depends on the attitude of the other party, if he also has a good impression of you, he will definitely have a little hint in words, then you can ask the other party to watch a movie or start talking about other topics of interest, such as what his hobbies are.

If you feel that you are looking at the right eye and feeling that he is good, then you have to show a clear attitude to give him a statement to reassure him.

Can you feel the woman's attitude? Be polite, have a good impression of each other, or do you have reservations about this blind date?

If you're not sure, see if you want to go on a trip together to watch a movie or something, otherwise it will scare both sides of the woman and embarrass them.

Ask her w directly what she means, you can just give money directly, you want to kiss for marriage, isn't it, the most direct way is to give money!?

It's the relationship between the blind date.,It's not time to be sure yet.,It's only been a few days, are you so anxious?。 Although it is interesting to him, it is recommended that you get along more often, so as not to feel that you don't know people clearly, and it also makes the other party feel that you can't accept it too quickly, thinking that you are a casual person.

The main thing is that after two people who don't know each other only see each other once, they don't have any common topics, which is more embarrassing.

Oh, there are a lot of unreliable online blind dates now, and it is recommended to find them in reality, which is more stable.

Follow him at all times, in case he seduces other women!

The problem after the blind date, I believe that after the blind date, then contact each other, communicate!

Then the problems were too familiar with each other, and the problems were exposed.

Of course, we need to follow up.

Generally speaking, blind dates are strangers. We speculate from a bad direction, maybe the other party has no feelings for your first impression, then if you confess at this time, the other party will definitely refuse. On the contrary, if the other party also has a good impression of you, but you confess suddenly, the average girl will wonder if you have always been like this to the opposite sex, and there is a high probability that they will doubt and deny you.

Moreover, if everyone is an adult in society, who doesn't know social etiquette, and can communicate happily with colleagues who don't like it. So you have to be steady, get to know each other slowly, and there will be results in two or three months at the latest.