There is a ruffian living in the dormitory, how to deal with it in the future?

Hehe, I sympathize with your experience, each other, because I also have this kind of person around me, but not as arrogant and unreasonable as your roommate, my roommate is afraid that he won't hurt you, how to talk hurtful and how to feel happy, he said, I also wanted to try to help him, he has changed, but when I see him so stubborn, self-righteous, and even take your kindness as hostility, I also feel that he is hopeless, so let's do it, the well water does not violate the river water, Less head-on conflict with him, what can I do without interacting with him without bothering him, when he wants to do something, just pretend not to see, I don't know, when he is directly aimed at me, I am calm (an innocent face) to him, and gradually he now feels awkward, so after a month, he has become more restrained now, and he pays more attention, after all, it is his fault (speaking hurtfully), why punish yourself for other people's mistakes? Can't we hide if we can't afford it? Isolate him and silence him, but don't snub him in your heart, after all, it's fate that pulls everyone together, brother, good luck.

In this case, you still need to report it to the counselor and ask him to help adjust it. After all, the main job of a counselor is to help students deal with problems in their studies and life.

If you change the dormitory, either you change or he changes, and in the end it is likely that he is the only one, I think this is worse for him, and people like him may make his situation worse in a lonely environment, and I don't think the instructor will arrange him alone in a dormitory.

So I think the best way is to try to change him (maybe you have also tried), don't come to him, try to keep a silent attitude when encountering contradictions, accommodate him more, and say that a slap can't make a sound, so that he can't make trouble alone, on the contrary, help him more in life, such as buying something delicious and giving him some food, so that he can feel that you care about him, and I will get better slowly.

At a glance, you know that the kid has no object, you introduce him to one, and the kid can stop, I don't know if this method will work? If so, he'll have to thank you.

Again, you can't do anything about people! You have to be able to deal with all kinds of people, otherwise the relationship with new colleagues, new friends, and bosses will not be good in the future! This is also an opportunity to exercise, make a wide range of friends, you can't look at the identity of the person, how do you know that you won't need it in the future?

You're right or not. I wish you a speedy fix!

Give Ya a beating collectively, and when it's over, tell Ya not to be in the future.

The alarm works best! The rest of the dorm banded together against him.

How many people are in your dorm? How many people can't kill two riffraff? After being scared once, he behaved. After beating him once, he didn't dare to look up at you when he met you later.

I can fight once and again, but I can't find his weakness, see what he is afraid of, and what he is afraid of.

Talk to the teacher and let the teacher solve it.

Knock Morse code on a hanger and scold him, if you don't understand, your IQ will not work, and if you understand, you will be honest!

You can say a little bit of ancient Chinese to them.

Listen to songs until you fall asleep, and tune to a timer to turn off.

Only by finding a partner can you solve it.

Make friends with darkness and think of yourself as the god of darkness.

A girl looked in the mirror in the middle of the night combing her long hair, and suddenly she started crying because she remembered that she had cut her hair short two days ago.

Call a friend! Read a book! Listening to songs, watching TV, a lot.

Find something to do. Or fight with someone**.

Turn on a light or cuddle a pillow or something.

The more you pay attention to this, the more maddening it becomes. Personal experience, use the dormitory as just a place to rest, enrich your spare time, go to the library, do odd jobs, and watch movies. Get out of the dorm.

Socialize with people outside the dormitory. The most important thing is not to spend all your time and energy on dormitory relationships, which makes no sense.

To find out what your shortcomings are, think about why, think more from the perspective of others, try to change yourself, you will find that it is nothing, everything will be fine.

It's that you think too much, don't be too sensitive, and get along with everyone.

It means that you are careful and unsociable!

That is, there is a problem with your personality, Luo, change it appropriately.

Just explain the dormitory situation to the counselor and apply for a dormitory change. Your application for a one-person live counselor will generally not agree because university dormitories are tight. Unless parents go to the school to discuss with the counselor, the counselor can arrange an empty dormitory for you to live in, otherwise you will be responsible for living in the dormitory alone.

Actually, I also had this experience, but then I adjusted my mentality, and when they made trouble, I went to self-study, and I saw their trouble as an opportunity for me to learn, and I am very grateful to them. Therefore, some things change the mood and angle of the game, and it will be different.

This needs to be coordinated with your counselor, if you really don't get along, and feel that it disturbs your life, you should be able to change the dormitory.

Anyway, my school can't do it, as for your school, you can ask your counselor, she said no, then it's really not good, and the other one is to change the dormitory! In a university you should learn to get along with people, and you can do it yourself.

If you reach the limit of patience, rent it out (if you have enough money) - but this will inevitably end up with the title of your own lonely eccentricity, because the dormitory is noisy, why did you move out alone? Why don't others move out ... It can be inferred from this that you can not be very good at communicating, but the people you meet in society will be many times more complicated than those on campus, and you will have to escape into the society with this kind of small complexity on campus, so you have to learn to get along with people more,,, if it is so special that it is really unbearable, move.

When you live alone in a dormitory, you will feel a sense of isolation, and it is very inconvenient to live alone, and you have to communicate with other people and increase your social skills.

Besides, it's really impossible to live in a dormitory by yourself, unless you have one more person in your school, so you can be assigned to a dormitory.

This is also an opportunity to practice your usual communication skills.

No! Learn to study in a bad environment and take a break.

You can slowly learn to adapt, or adjust your mentality, after all, it is impossible to live alone in the future. It's a workout before entering society. In fact, when the people in the dormitory slowly get acquainted with each other, they can communicate with each other. It's better not to go out and live on your own, in fact, this is also a kind of grind.

Unless you have the money to rent an apartment or something.

Try to integrate into the group, and then take everyone to change together, or everyone will change you, college is the last chance to be a crazy child, cherish it. If you want to go to graduate school or something, then you should move out and live, and you can move out when you apply for college.

It shouldn't be possible, it is recommended to communicate more with roommates, after all, everyone will live together for four years, and mutual understanding is the most important thing!!

You can rent a house outside, but you need your parents' consent to sign and apply.

This is absolutely impossible, and this kind of anger is not to be said. You can't live alone, communicate more, or go to the classroom or the library more often to read books. If you want to break away from the group, you can't do this, otherwise you can go out of school and rent a house.

School conditions decide. It is not possible to have a room for one person.

Probably not, try to adapt.

When she's air, don't cross paths with her. After all, it's not easy to say anything about other people's lives.

Try to avoid meeting, and when you meet, you will face it coldly, and you will ignore it. Then it will be far away from you.

She is not upbringing at all and does not respect others.

It is a crime to report directly to the police and assault another person, and once verified, criminal detention for 7 to 15 days is indispensable. Juvenile, don't hesitate, don't breed crime, pick up the ** in your hand and call the number of the police.

Prepare a pig-splitting knife and cut yourself as soon as you see him to make him afraid.

Deal with this kind of thing properly and talk to the school and parents. Strive to turn hostility into friendship and get along better in the future.

Tell parents and schools. You know, it's okay, the good thing is that they don't dare to do anything. At worst, it's a big deal to change schools, you can't waste your youth in their hands, you know?

You can stay at home, stay in your room, and don't meet them.

Each has its own strengths and weaknesses, depending on which one is suitable for your personality. If you live alone, you can choose the house you like, decorate the room according to your liking, have more personal space, and don't be afraid of disturbing others, which is more comfortable.

In the future, if you have money to live on your own, now study hard and endure humiliation for a few years.