Loving someone you shouldn t love, marrying someone you shouldn t marry! Life is really helpless

I don't know what to say, your encounter is human fault. The mistake is that it is too late to know, and the mistake is that you know that you want to love each other and still insist on it. Leave it alone when you should let go.

But if I were that man, I wouldn't let it go. It's really tiring, tiring to live like this. If you want to be a wise woman, love must let go.

I know it's hard. Go for it.

Life is really helpless

Your relationship is really like a movie, if I meet such a love I may choose a city far away from this circle, live alone for a few years, and then come back when everything fades.

It's really painful to live with someone you don't love for a lifetime, but it's gratifying that the other party loves you, and you're happy

Love is selfish.

I would like to ask a question, have you ever thought about the feelings of the person who loves you?

Now that you have a siege, let it be broken. The process is difficult, but there is no way. Do you have to worry about this for the rest of your life, isn't it tiring?

If you continue like this, you may end up in a cycle of regret forever.

Nothing is impossible, you have to step on yourself and stand up. I'm sure you can live better.

Why let it go? Isn't love all about being together? Why should one be felt by others?

Do we have to live for others all our lives? I'm the same as you, but the difference is that my husband is 20 years older than me, and we finally came together, don't be felt by people anymore, it's so tiring to live like that...

Hello, of course I won't choose a person I don't like to get married, even if it's very suitable for me, I don't like to be unhappy in marriage, but since Fengming is very suitable, I also have to consider it from many aspects before choosing, sometimes feelings can be cultivated slowly, and each of us hopes that we can tie the knot with our favorite person and spend a good life together. But in real life, it is very difficult to find an ideal partner, and many times we meet people who are in good condition in all aspects, but we don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.

Personally, I think that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without a banquet is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find.

1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.

In marriage, the most important factor is the envy of each other. Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.

And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.

2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and it is impossible for him to marry such a person.

3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.

Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and you can accept it, and slowly like him, so that you can live a happy life in this marriage.

No. Marriage is a lifelong rush, I would rather live alone than find someone I don't like to spend my life with, why bother, knowing that I don't like it and choosing to live together is an unwise decision for each other. Of course, there are also cases where long-term love will happen, but the probability is low.

If you don't like a person, you may have resistance to him in your heart, and you can't look at it objectively, so if you don't like it, consider it carefully.

What's more, life is so short, and there is no afterlife that can make us make up for our regrets, so why make it difficult for yourself to live with someone you don't like. If you get married for the sake of this, then it is better not to get married, it is better to be a single dog and be free.

In a relationship, we always want to be with someone you love him and he loves you, and enter the palace of marriage with him, but love is never smooth sailing, and it is not something you can get if you want to.

Sometimes, we will marry someone we don't like so much, maybe because we are older, maybe we no longer believe in love, and we feel that marrying anyone is the same, so we will make such a choice.

Will you be happy if you marry someone you don't like? I think it varies from person to person, if you are willing to cultivate a relationship with him, or cherish his affection, you will also live well, and if you keep thinking about the past, thinking that he is not the person you love the most, it can only be painful for a lifetime.

In fact, whether you marry someone you like or someone you don't like, there are two sides, marrying the person you love does not necessarily mean that you can grow old together, and marrying someone you don't like is not necessarily unhappy, it still depends on your own mentality.

Whether you choose what you love or love you, you should live a good life, this is your own choice, don't complain, and don't feel that marrying him is the wrong marriage.

I think marrying a guy who doesn't love him will have the following feelings:

Feeling aggrieved. Because I love each other very much, I will choose to pin the happiness of the rest of my life on each other. I will give all my feelings for each other, and even risk my life for each other to have a child, and I feel that I have done everything I have for each other.

But the other party did not give him a reciprocal return, not even a trace of touch, and instantly felt that his sincerity was let down, so he felt aggrieved.

Feeling lonely. No matter how sad you feel because you are ignored by the other person, the other person will not come to comfort you, or just perfunctory, then you will feel helpless and lonely, as if the whole world cannot be relied on, and you will become small and vulnerable.

Feeling sad. Looking at the love of other people in the hall is very happy, the husband and wife are in love, the family is harmonious, and I finally live in an environment without temperature, and I will feel very sad in the face of a cold person.

Feel angry. Because all the negative emotions mentioned above are constantly accumulating, it will make you feel unfair to yourself, so the anger will rise higher and higher.

That's my take on this issue.