How can you be cruel to your lover.

Generally, first love is like this, or they are not mature enough to rely on each other too much. However, even if you are a boyfriend and a girlfriend, both parties have their own things to do. What you have to do is not to be cruel to yourself, but to love yourself with three points as the saying goes, you can find some hobbies, and do things that make you full in addition to your feelings.

Read more books, listen to ** and the like are all good choices......Enhance and improve your connotation, self-cultivation, and taste......

In terms of feelings, don't be too busy with other things and cold each other, but also communicate with each other.

Love only wants both parties to be tired of being together, and love is to make both parties live a more fulfilling, more meaningful, and happier life.

If you are not ruthless, there will be more painful things between you, if you are not ruthless, don't delay yourself because you are not ruthless to him, and the next real favorite relationship.

The two of you are half a pound and eight taels.

You're cheap, it's okay to divide your hairy hands, and if you want to divide it, you can really divide it.

He doesn't take you seriously either.

You two are not suitable.

Depressed, what else is such a man going to do, I am also a good-tempered person, if I were you who broke up for the first time, why did you coax it back, the more you are like this, the more he will get an inch, think about it yourself, there is really no need.

My boyfriend is the same, and I always coax him when we quarrel. Now I feel that I have no dignity in front of him. Boys can be cruel to girls, but girls have a hard time doing it.

Don't keep mentioning breaking up and coaxing him back to be spoiled by you.

Ways to make yourself ruthless:Psychological suggestion, reduced empathy, sculpting appearance, taking hits, independent personality, reading more, working hard.

1. Psychological suggestion

This is a means of psychology, that is, to imply that he is a hard-hearted person, and he can be unmoved by his burning limbs and other things or people, and manage himself first, and then take care of other people's affairs. Whatever happens, you must always stay sober, tell yourself to be a ruthless person, don't be soft-hearted, women are not ruthless, and their status is unstable.

2. Reduce empathy

Although ruthlessness is not a good word, people who are full of compassion and kindness will always inevitably suffer losses and be wronged. Many times if you sympathize with others, you will be seen as a coy gesture and provoke a commotion, so if you want to make yourself lucky, you need to become ruthless and less sympathetic. When you encounter something, you have to tell yourself why you should sympathize with others.

3. Shape your appearance

Some people are very good-looking, but they can shape their appearance, and even shape their own aura, so that others dare not despise you. There is a saying that people rely on clothes and horses to rely on saddles, and if you want to be ruthless, you must change yourself from your appearance and improve your aura. Some people can be able to be powerful without anger, and this is also due to a large part of the strong aura.

Independent personality

A ruthless person is also a relatively strong person, who does not ask for anything and has a very independent personality, so he can also reduce troubles and will not be overflowing with motherly and fatherly hearts. Only when you are independent, can you have the qualifications to be ruthless, you don't have to think about who will help you, it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on yourself, this is the eternal truth, so character independence is the premise of ruthlessness.

Work hard

Everyone's energy is limited, and when you devote yourself to your work, you won't have time to take care of these problems, and you won't be distracted by some other things. And hard work can make money, and making money will also make people feel happy and bring good luck. Only when Hunger Dust works hard and has money in his pocket, can he be tough and ruthless when he speaks and does things.

Notes:

1. "There are no ugly women, only lazy women". Dress yourself up as much as you can: clean, sophisticated, stylish, and pleasant.

A woman can not be beautiful, but she must not be without temperament. If you are slack, relaxed, and sloppy about your image, then your charm will be weakened.

2. While loving others, please be kind to yourself, don't always leave the best to your lover, but also learn to keep it for yourself. Only those who truly love themselves will know how to love others. To know how to love yourself, you must first understand yourself and love yourself; In order to learn to understand others and love others.

Only when you lose your conscience can you be ruthless.

Someone who kills your parents will be ruthless.

Whether it is sad or not is only known by the person who pays, and the ruthlessness is only on the person who doesn't care, which is all an excuse.