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Maturity definitely takes time to sharpen, there is absolutely no quick fix, have you ever seen the seedlings plucked and the crops do not die? It's the same with people, there is no way to mature, but when the time comes, after more experience, it will naturally mature. Now it's just to learn to be deep and steady first, don't let people see through you at a glance, don't be too shady, it's almost the same, and the rest will be made up by experience.
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Regarding the issue of growing up, many times we are very confused, on the one hand, we hope that we will not grow up, because we will face a lot of troubles when we grow up; And sometimes, we want to grow up as quickly as possible so that we can do what we want to do. So, what are the signs of a person's maturity? Independence + responsibility + ability to bear + mature physiology = grow up, when you have the above conditions, you can say that you are mature from psychology to physiology, a mature person has to face a lot of things alone, can not be like children when many things are borne by parents for you, when we grow up, we will have a sense of responsibility, more often to be responsible for their own behavior, naturally we will be under pressure in all aspects, bear more, have a deep understanding of life, more realistic, inevitably feel lonely and lonely, But while we are suffering from these pains and pressures, we also feel the joy of life and enjoy the joy, which is beyond the comprehension of an immature person, and it is also the most wonderful part of life.
Life is like this, we can't give up the pursuit but we also have to know how to give up, we will have too many times to be helpless, there is no room for choice, we have to learn to face, learn to bear, just like growth is a natural law. At the same time, growth is also to let us have a complete life, otherwise the incomplete life is meaningless, because each stage of life has its own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, once lacking, we will not be able to understand the true meaning of life, so as long as we cherish each stage with our hearts, we can understand the meaning of life, and have a complete life that only belongs to ourselves. 、
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Growing up is divided into physical and psychological growth and maturity, growing up is a natural law, but also everyone must experience, is a process of life, this process is irreversible, but also your mental journey, everyone in the process of growing up, always have to maintain some of their original nature, this nature is difficult to lose and change, do not deliberately change yourself to let yourself grow up, as you grow older, you will face more things alone, your mind will be more mature, Thinking is also enriched, desire is also expanded, at this time, your psychology will also mature, only psychological maturity you can be regarded as really growing up, but growing up is also relative, relative to your past, you are growing all the time, growth is a process, for you, it is also the process of harvesting life, followed by of course is the increase in troubles, responsibilities and obligations are also increased, troubles are not a bad thing, the key depends on how you deal with it, when you encounter troubles and troubles, not just bear and accept, It is also the so-called hard carrying, but at the same time of bearing and accepting, it should be able to effectively analyze and dissolve, so that you can constantly recharge yourself, so as to better replenish your energy, so as to enhance the elasticity of your own bearing force and the elasticity of your acceptance. In this way, we can make ourselves more courageous to face troubles and troubles, and make ourselves stronger and more resilient.
At the same time, you can also make your mind more mature, and you can make yourself grow faster and more stable, and you can also understand life, so that you can better understand life! Taste life and use your wisdom to harvest your life! Good luck with good health!
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If it is physical, it is undoubtedly nutrition plus exercise, method and practice.
According to what you said, if you want to stick to your choice, you need to be strong inside, please refer to what I said above, read more inspirational and personality-building books, it will be of great help to you. Whether you can stay the course is a question you have to ask yourself, and I suggest you ask yourself three questions every day when you wake up: What do I need?
What do I have? What am I going to give up?
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To grow up in the true sense, you need to know more, bear more, and think more before you can mature. This is a comprehensive quality, which requires a process, and is a long-term thing, not a whim. Take action to care for your loved ones and good friends, do what you can, and repay them with your own abilities!
It's as simple as that, what do you think?
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Growing up is a natural law that cannot be destroyed Just like a small sapling It has to grow slowly to grow into a towering tree, and if you pull out the seedling to help it grow, it will only speed up its death, and people have to take it slowly, don't worry, when it's time to grow up, it will grow up before you know it.
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If you experience a lot, you will grow up, don't rush it, take your time, recall what you have experienced in your life, you will grow up slowly, and unconsciously, you will find that you understand a lot.
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Time will make you grow slowly.
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How can it be so fast! Don't worry! People will always grow up!
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Personally, I think that only when people grow bigger and bigger after experiencing a lot of things can you understand the preciousness of family affection.
In life, you have to experience a lot of things, see many things, make many friends, but in the end, you have been busy for decades, some things are good or bad, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that there are relatives who are looking forward to you, expecting you, relatives can give you, far more than friends can give you! In the face of too many things, we always ignore our loved ones, intentionally or unintentionally, and the people who have been watching us from behind. I don't cherish my family affection now, but in the future, I will find that I don't talk to my relatives for more than half a sentence, and my friends are gradually gone, but my relatives are still there!
Two days ago, I took a bus at night to a place where I worked. The journey takes two hours. In the car, I suddenly remembered a summer vacation when I drove out with my parents.
It was about eight o'clock that night, and it was dark before I returned. My dad drove, my mom sat in the co-pilot, and when it was almost eleven o'clock, my mom was so sleepy that she couldn't support it, and she offered to change places with me. So my mom lay down in the back seat of the car and slept, I sat in the passenger seat, and my dad continued to drive.
During this time, I had been chatting with my dad on and off, singing to him, telling jokes, and distracting himself from driving too much. At that time, I suddenly felt that my parents were getting old, and if before, my mother would never let me wake up and go to sleep by myself, I knew that she was really tired, and her body did not allow her to stay up late tired. At the same time, I also feel as if I have grown up all of a sudden, and the burden on my body is heavier, and I am no longer a child who will not wake up when I fall asleep in my parents' arms and get out of the car at night.
I'm going to have to take on more responsibilities in the future. Sitting next to my dad and driving with him on the night train, I feel quite happy, although I am really sleepy, but when I think that he is more tired than me, I will try to cheer up and accompany him. The moon was so beautiful that day.
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Are you going to grow taller, or are you going to mature?
If you want to grow taller faster, you should exercise more and eat more nutritious things, such as vegetables and fruits! If you want to be more mature, you have to adjust yourself, at least learn to be obedient, so that the family will speak.
This kid has grown up! "If it's on the outside, then you can dress up, it's up to you anyway
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Question: I want to grow up quickly.
Answer: Human growth is a natural process, the same as plant growth, but you can do what you want to do, learn more things, to assist your growthQuestion: My grandmother is sick, I want to earn money to treat him.
But they all said I was too young and didn't want me.
These are all things that adults need to solve, are you a left-behind child? Question: Well, my mom and dad went to work.
Your task now is to study hard.
There are questions, but they are not enough, should I study hard?
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Eat more rice, it grows quickly.
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Hehe! If you want to grow up faster, eat more!
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Look around you.
Smaller than you. You've grown up.
This is a necessary stage of everyone's growth, and from this process, you will gradually understand a lot and try a lot of new things. In fact, there is no need to be afraid of these, since you can't go back to the past, it is better to try to communicate with your new classmates, take the initiative, and one day everyone will see your efforts. There is a saying that goes like this, friends are like wine; the older, the better! >>>More
Do you like him or yourself, I want you to seriously analyze your heart, I heard you say, you like him as a person, then do you want him to be happy, if you want him to be happy, you really like him, if you want to get it yourself, you like yourself. In fact, it hurts you a little bit to say this, but it is precisely because you want that you will pay, if you don't get a relationship, it will always be a secret love, you will never have a quarrel, it is because of your pay, he has not cared, you will become more and more sad? In fact, if he leaves you happy, it means that you make him happy, because you let go, so you indirectly give him freedom and happiness, if you really like him, as long as he is happy, everything else is your own business. >>>More
In fact, you are tired of yourself, and the brain is very messy, because you are very confused about yourself, confused, and don't know what you should work hard for, and you are afraid of what you will get after working hard, and you are still in a state of giving up on yourself, I think you should be able to use my method to relieve it, when you can't think about things, it's because you have negative thoughts when the brains are running, which causes your heart to be closed, you can go outside and walk alone, listen**, do what you like When you're doing these things, your brain is more relaxed, but I think your mind is very complicated, and it's impossible to solve it perfectly, and the key is that you should think about your own family, what you're reading for, and whatever goals you have are the key to getting out of this, in fact, I think you're like a bird with broken feathers, and you want to fly but can't. In fact, society is not such a troublesome thing, everything is a footprint of your growth, don't change your life goal because of their opinions Lying is a kind of cover-up, to cover up the other side of yourself, but when you are really out of it, you can only do it now, and if you want to change, it is not me, a psychiatrist, but what is your attitude now, what attitude you have towards things, you should find a close friend to help you share it, or talk to your parents, you are too lacking, your family is too much, your love will be like this, **is a colorful object, when people with psychological trauma see it, it will be very uncomfortable, because when you look at **, you are looking at your own heart, want to live like others, first you have to change yourself No matter what, you can tell a close friend of yours that the day your grades bloom in your heart will improve, a girl in the first year of high school must learn to be strong, only can not be defeated, only slowly change yourself, in fact, you are a very good child, change you will be a hundred times happier than now, change your emotions, change your heart, in fact, the world will not close the door to your future.
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Today I will share with you a tea drink - sugar tea, this tea is made of black tea and brown sugar, black tea is warm, has a warm stomach, nourishes the stomach, invigorates blood, etc., is very suitable for people with cold and cold physique, and brown sugar can increase energy, activate qi and blood, and speed up the circulation of blood.