Dad wants me to listen to him for everything, but I don t think he will be a father

Human character is more or less flawed, and everyone is. Your father seems to be an unauthentic and even a bit unreasonable in your description, but in fact, you should find out that he loves you, and you should be able to hear from his words that he is teaching you about the experience he has gained, and I am afraid that you will suffer on the road in the future. It's just that not every parent's expression is gentle and soft, and his language may not be pleasant, but the vast majority of parents are great and selfless.

I want you to understand that your parents' lives are not the same as yours. There are so many things that need to be exchanged between you, and I urge you to think more about it and communicate with your parents. Think about it from a different perspective.

You're right, it's true that many people "don't know how to be fathers", and although they want to give the best experience to the next generation, they often do it because of their own limitations.

It's true that no one in their generation has taught them how to be parents, even if they graduated from college;

It is recommended that you learn to observe problems from multiple angles, learn to tolerate and communicate while sticking to your own principles;

In addition, I would like to explain a point of view, insisting on self is a manifestation of growth, it does not mean disobedience or disobedience, but a deeper filial piety and responsibility.

Dad is a bit arbitrary in doing this, but why don't you think about it from a different angle, in fact, Dad asked you to do what he said because he was afraid that you would take a detour or take the wrong road, because this road may be what he has already walked, and he doesn't want you to make a mistake again!

It's not easy to be a parent, understand more. Learn to endure humiliation. Look for opportunities to change them in obedience.

What does the police look like in your mind? Is it upright and kind? I thought so when I was a kid.

But then I found out that I was wrong, I saw too much of the injustice of this world.

Then I understood why there are bad people in this world. Why is there a war. Why is there such a belief in Buddha?

Your mother has always loved him even if his father is close to prison, then he must have something fascinating, I don't know what method he is annoyed to get into, but he must not have a good life when he goes in, think about him in prison, will the prison guards be good to him? The answer is definitely no.

The first time he came back, he picked you up and definitely missed you very much. But after all, people will be alienated for too long.

Yes, why do you say that? This has something to do with his personality and the education he has received and the people he has come into contact with, when he can't see you and your brother, especially when he is in prison, he knows that he has made a mistake, and he will think quietly: What about my children and wife at home?

But his temper has not changed, and his nature is difficult to change! When he comes out, he will beat and scold you if it doesn't go his way or if it doesn't like his eyes

I was instilled from an early age that there is no distinction between high and low labor. However, the reality is so mocking and unforgiving.

The second generation of rich and the second generation of officials are flying and domineering, and they are arrogant. However, you also have to think about it, who can choose a father, who can? If he has loved you, if he has raised you, given you life, and given you life, you should give back to your father how you want.

Also, why did he sweep the streets? Was it always like this, or was it only later? What can be given to you is enlightenment and the direction of struggle.

If there is one, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be encouraged, and those who hear it will be fully precepted. Don't hold grudges, resentment can make people stupid, blind you, blind you, and make you unable to see your way. When you linger in place with resentment and shout, your peers have long since left you.

When you find a gap, the time that has passed is irretrievable. I know a brother and sister, the father is uneducated and the mother is mentally retarded. Both of them were admitted to the first class of books.

The road is out of your own, and the bubbles on the soles of your feet are also out of your own, don't blame others if you are in a bad situation, especially your father. The most important thing about liquid keys is to see how you do it.