How can I quickly get rid of these bad habits and shortcomings? Please give us some advice! Thank yo

This has to do with your upbringing, and now parents are very caring for their only child, resulting in many people like you. If you want to change, you must always think about this, think about whether the other party will be angry or sad when you say this, and treat these words as if others are talking about yourself, whether you will be angry, sad or angry. This is a very long process, you need to take your time, as long as you persevere, you can become a considerate lady.

1.This shortcoming can be empathetic, think of yourself as someone else, and think more about what you would do if others were very clingy to you2This is actually not a disadvantage, it can also be regarded as an advantage that you are very diligent and thrifty, and you will pay attention to things.

But you can't be too stingy, and you can't spend all day guessing this and that. 3.This is not a shortcoming, these are the manifestations of your childlike innocence!

4.Simplicity is very important sometimes, and as for temperament, you can read more books and learn a sample or two. 5.

This one shortcoming is a little more serious, but it's like 4, read more books, cultivate temperament, and you won't be too simple in front of others, and you will speak boldly. 6.It's the same disadvantage as 1.,When you have time, think about it.,How do you feel when you're being taken care of by others.,Naturally, I'm relieved.。

Hope these can help you!

Because your waist is not straight when you sit, it is easy to erect your legs. The way to change this is to sit upright, with your waist straight and your legs apart. And always reflect on yourself, remind yourself, put it up and put it down. After that, the legs will slowly adapt to the normal state.

If you exercise regularly, you won't.

For example, if you run a lot and play ball, your feet will be tired when you run around, and you still have the energy to bend your legs.

Consult a doctor, it's better.

Bad lifestyle habits can indeed affect people's bodies.

Make a plan, follow it, stick to it for three weeks and it will become a good habit, stick to it for three months and it will not change again, and a good habit will make your life. Haha, I've seen it before.

Heh, attitude is everything. Your attitude can't be influenced by others....

Anyway, you don't have big ambitions, it doesn't matter if you're lazy, you'll just be living!

No, you can put a mole on your chest.

What do you want? Being content with the status quo and being satisfied with a small happiness is also happiness, not everyone will spend their lives chasing fame and fortune success, so as long as you feel that there is nothing wrong with happiness, if you are really eager to succeed and desire to go beyond the ordinary, that kind of thinking will naturally restrain yourself.

You can only force yourself to change this from the bottom of your heart.

No one else can help you!

I thought about how much I loved chili peppers at the beginning, because I got acne when I ate spicy food, and then I made up my mind that I should finally change my habit of eating spicy peppers.

During this period, it was also up to me to do it. As long as you make up your mind and force yourself to do it, there is no habit that you can't change.

Go to the countryside and farm. Look at the industriousness of the working people.

What others say is useless, mainly on your own If you want to be able to change it, are there still lazy people in the world?

I have the same problem and am working on this issue.

Four types. Reasons for procrastination (excerpt note).

Three types (different from the four above).

Why do I always procrastinate? Procrastination is a bad habit anyway. I remember reading in **, choosing a bad habit is choosing to fail. If we put our minds to it, we will definitely quit this bad habit. Come on*

Gaining the trust of the child is the most important thing, under the previous coaxing, the child no longer believes in the mother who does magic, the mother must never believe it, let the child believe in you.

First agree to sign an agreement with the child to arrange the amount of homework that the child can do for half an hour every day (depending on the size of the grade), and then ensure that if the homework is finished, the child must be free... And there are no other tasks scheduled for this day or that morning. Of course, for the first time, the amount of homework must not be too large, and the child must be able to taste the sweetness.

Otherwise, if you are killed with a stick, the child will not be able to finish writing, and it is estimated that the child will not cooperate with you in the future.

If the children who have tasted the sweetness for the first time have begun to believe in adults, mothers should start to increase homework appropriately, of course, the increase is not too large, but also inform the child in the form of an agreement, and more importantly, inform yourself, talk counts, said how much the child does, don't add to it, don't change the things that are certain.

Some parents have a short temper and will lose their temper when tutoring their children's studies, and I want to remind you that if your leader loses his temper with you when you are unhappy, will you feel comfortable? Even if they don't dare to contradict you on the surface, they are competing with you in private! The child's way of competing is to play tricks - "I won't listen to you like this, anyway, if you still want to beat me or scold me, I won't listen to you...

Remember: the child in the study is you at work, and you need to be recognized, so that he can improve his efficiency, let him do things happily, so that he will not be awkward with you, and he will feel comfortable, and he will naturally not be grinding again.

It's hard to break a habit.

It takes a lot of willpower to get rid of it.

And to persevere.

First of all, you can go through what you want to say in your head.

Make sure you're not lying.

If you accidentally talk again.

Just reflect deeply.

Punish yourself a little.

Why lie again.

In short, don't speak without thinking about it.

Think about it a little bit.

Stick with something. You won't lie

Good luck getting rid of =-= soon

……There's a more spoofed way: talk the other way......

Hehe, this method didn't work.

I think you are very disgusted by this habit in your heart.

Maybe you're not lying, but you're used to teasing jokes, and I think you can try to get your mind right.

When you encounter something, try to tell yourself:

This is important! If I can't tell him the real answer, then I'm going to keep silent and tell myself that, even if it's a small thing.

Also, reduce the frequency of jokes.

Try to calm down your personality a little bit.

I think you're probably a cheerful person too.

You don't want to lie yourself.

Once, because I lied once, I made an irreparable mistake, so I am sad, and I still feel guilty.

I hope you don't have to be like me, so I'm still trying to help you as much as I can, and I hope my approach can help you

Every time I lie, I slap myself in the mouth!

And my advice is, first of all, reduce your words, learn to be silent, speak slowly, and when you're silent and slow to speak, it's much easier for you to change your lying.

1.Let someone else supervise, announce your plans to wake up early and go to bed early, and let others wish you a good hand!

2.Be clear about the disadvantages of going to bed late: it is easy to get old, and people who sleep late look much older; Going to bed late will lead to a decrease in your own immunity, which is not good for your health!

3.Make a plan to go to bed early and reward yourself regularly!

4.Enjoy going to bed early, try your best to calm your heart, life is so peaceful and beautiful!

Let's talk about the shortcomings in detail.

You can think about it from the direction of repetition, you can develop a habit in fifteen days, then start to develop all kinds of good habits, and when the good habits are formed, I think the bad habits will naturally be changed, I don't know if you can be satisfied with this answer.

Don't think twice about everything, think about it!

The rest is nonsense, a sentence from now on, something I can't do now, tell myself every moment.

Write down your shortcomings on a piece of paper, force yourself to change them, change the right mark, and make the wrong mark.

Establish a simple reflex, if you are always unconfident about something and afraid of being ridiculed, then suggest to yourself: I will leave after doing it, and no one will know me.

Stealing money and beating him hard while preaching behind closed doors, emphasizing the disadvantages, many children around me were taught like this when I was a child.

If you can recognize this, it means that you still have the determination to resolutely change, so just stick to it, and you will change it.

Find the best one to change (you think), and then keep reminding yourself not to have this problem in the next 21 days, and it will become a habit in 21 days. A person's habit is not easy to change, and it takes 21 days to change into a new habit.

You can make a list for yourself, just correct a little bit every day, and over time, you will definitely be able to do it!

First of all, you must be assertive, don't go with the flow, understand which habits are bad for you, and which are your strengths, this kind of thing can only restrain yourself, relying on others will not work, don't be too arrogant.

There's no pressure and no motivation, so it's best to find a way to set up some penalties and find someone to supervise you with.

The disadvantages are like the scars on a man's body, some look **, some look disgusting, and the choice is very important. It is worth saying that some shortcomings are a person's personality, without personality, will your life be too ordinary?

To change the problem slowly, not in a hurry, the problem can not be changed in a while. One step at a time. Set yourself a goal for how today it is, how about tomorrow, how about the day after tomorrow, don't be too high, just be able to achieve it on the same day, and change it after a long time.

Remember not to give up halfway.

It must be the same, don't try to change it all at once, this is my method.

You haven't made up your mind to change everything You can't rush everything Take your time You will always change it Think about it If you don't change it, you will always be disliked Would you like it.

The disadvantages are one-sided, sometimes it can be a disadvantage, but when put in the right place, it is a little bit...

Make a plan to correct a little bit every day and add up over time and you'll be successful.

I don't think you should change! You have to have more self-confidence to live, of course, bad habits must be changed, you weigh it yourself, what he said may not be all right, so you don't have to fight all the problems yourself!

Think about the benefits after you change it, others will be impressed by you...

Hehe.. Make fewer mistakes, do wrong things to know how to admit mistakes, as the saying goes: "the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change", since you can't change it, you have to know your mistakes, develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and show your own advantages, so that your emotions will get better and better.

If you don't have the perseverance, ask the person next to you to help you change it together.

Everyone has shortcomings, and they can only be changed slowly, after all, those shortcomings have been with you for a long, long time.

Find your own aspirations and expectations, work in that direction, believe in your ability, and confirm that that destination will be reached, and you will be motivated

You can change it slowly, step by step, and it's easier than changing it all at once.

Bad habits always have to start small, little by little, and keep reminding yourself.

Put it in a place where you can usually see it at a glance and remind yourself all the time.

Find someone who can control you or what you're afraid of!

You can only rely on yourself, or have a motivation or something.

Easier said than done! There are a few things that can be done in ancient and modern times, both in China and abroad.

Find someone to supervise your corrections.

Don't care too much about other people's opinions, you can do some suggestions from your friends.