How can I let go and become more generous, how can I make myself more generous?

The reason may not be singular, it is accumulated over many years, but this is not a problem, the question is what to do in the future. You can have an initial conversation with someone about a problem that you are familiar with, and at the same time increase your knowledge and depth of knowledge about the things you care about, and you don't have to suffer from the gains and losses of the other person you are communicating with, as long as you are equal in personality, then the communication is much easier.

If you have it, be generous, and if you don't, be polite, that's the truth!

1.Be simple: In dealing with others, you must be simple, don't be sloppy, want to talk and be ashamed, and as a result, you will make yourself uncomfortable, and others will be uncomfortable, but things can't be done, and you miss the best opportunity.

In the process of dealing with people, it is necessary to make quick decisions, simply and neatly, like a pure man, so as to give people a sense of generosity.

2.Be trustworthy: In social life, we must be trustworthy, only trustworthy people are generous people, but trustworthiness is not an easy thing, not just talk about it.

To be trustworthy means to pay, for example, after both parties A and B sign the sales contract, no matter how the market changes, the party who suffers a loss consciously abides by the contract, so that it can be regarded as trustworthy and generous.

3.Be calm: In real life, there are always some people who love to lose their temper, they are small-minded, not generous, because of big and small things, they get angry, scold their subordinates, scold their family members to cry, scold their friends and fly away, so that everyone wants to leave them.

For this reason, if you want to be a generous person, you must maintain mental peace and don't lose your temper casually.

I used to be very calculating in terms of money, traveling together, and spending more money for everyone, even if I didn't say it, I would feel unhappy in my heart. But our parents take us to play, we will be very happy, whether it is to buy food, or to pay for the journey, it is all our parents' money, maybe our parents just want to teach us to be generous and generous. When we think of the love our parents give us, can we give back a part of it to society?

Be willing to spend money for yourself, and be willing to spend money for others.

You can realize that you are recovering yourself.

A disadvantage is very good, tell you a truth, treat friends Du generous, zhi generous, don't care, you may temporarily dao yourself is a loss, but in fact, you win, you win to pull other people's praise, win friends, this is a great help for your future.

Take a very simple example: a friend who is not very familiar with you asks you to help him draw a picture, which only takes some of your time, but if it may take hundreds of dollars to go outside to do it, and you don't charge a penny, because for you, it just takes some time, just imagine how moved your friend will be, and he will definitely repay you in the future, for example, his friend asks him to introduce a person who can draw, and the first thing he thinks of is definitely you, at this time you will double what you have paid before to come back and pull.

As for what you said about not being arrogant, as long as you associate with your friends in the spirit of respecting others, please adopt thank you.

Dig out the house. Please eat.

Dear, a person's personality is actually very easy to control or change! I used to be a gray and gray person, and my interpersonal relationships were quite poor, and probably the most important thing you need is patience.

Hold back your emotions (good or bad, don't have too many expressions). Psychologists say that if you keep smiling at all times, others will not easily see your heart. Insist on smiling every minute and every second, practice in front of the mirror first, and then you can't help but smile.

A: How many did you take?

B: Failed, 43. What about you?

The following is not going to hide the words that do not go out of their minds: A: Haha is taller than you, I am 92! Why did you do so badly!

This will make others quite uncomfortable, but if you are happy, you should not show it. But when a person is excited, his eyebrows will rise, his pupils will dilate, and he will be seen at a glance. But if you can't smile, remember not to smile too much, it will make people feel fake, the corners of your mouth can be pursed down, and your eyebrows should be stretched, so that your face is kind and kind)

I won't give an example, I don't have time.

When it comes to opinions, I haven't been assertive since I was a child. This is because of a lack of self-confidence! How to improve self-confidence?

1. Speech: Say whatever you want to say to the wall.

This needs to be honed slowly. It can't be done overnight. Be polite and general. is neither humble nor arrogant, but also has culture and talent in the belly.

You can realize that this shortcoming of yourself is very good, tell you a truth, treat friends generously, be generous, don't care, you may be a loss for the time being, but in fact, you win, you win to pull the praise of others, win friends, which will be of great help to you in the future.

Take a very simple example: a friend who is not very familiar with you asks you to help him draw a picture, which only takes some of your time, but if it may take hundreds of dollars to go outside to do it, and you don't charge a penny, because for you, it just takes some time, just imagine how moved your friend will be, and he will definitely repay you in the future, for example, his friend asks him to introduce a person who can draw, and the first thing he thinks of is definitely you, at this time you will double what you have paid before to come back and pull.

As for what you say about not being arrogant, as long as you associate with your friends in a spirit of respect for others.

Let's put it simply. Treat each other as if they were your own relatives. Loved ones borrow things from you. You won't hesitate to borrow. As for the language aspect. Try to laugh as much as you can, talk less. Make it impossible for others to figure you out. It makes others think you're stingy.

Be good at observing and learning. Be confident, and if you are not fully confident, I suggest you buy some high-end clothes to wear, which will also make you confident.