Marriage needs to be a door to door, right, marriage must be a door to door, right?

As long as you have self-confidence, the door is right, the household is right, I am from Beijing, my lover is also from the countryside, we have been 6 years, very good, there are two children, you say it is the door, right? The main question is: does he love you?

Does he love you and accept your family? Because marriage is not only two people, but also parents, relatives and friends on both sides, do you have the confidence to integrate into his life? Don't have an inferiority complex, they are all people, you have more negative losses, Beijingers have families, friends, and parents in Beijing, when you come to Beijing, are there these people around you?

Is there a place to stay? No, but you have successfully integrated into the city of Beijing, this is your success, proud

This concept is very old, but it has been mentioned from time to time until now, which shows that it is profound, whether you want it or not.

Although your family is not from Beijing, if the family has no burden, has developed well in Beijing, and has a simplicity that is rare for local girls, it may be better. After all, it doesn't matter what others think, it depends on what the people in the man's family think.

- Tut-tut: Yes, it's actually just a statement, it's just an excuse to tell when something happens when both parties are together, if you really love each other, you should give up these so-called statements, as well as some worldly visions, some more formal things can be put aside, if you love it, you have to take some responsibility, and if you are mentally prepared, don't care.

Now is a new era, a new society, there is no need to give up your true love for those old ideas!

I just want to say a ......If he loves you, don't give up, and if he cares more about what his family or friends think, don't go any further!

Summary. Hello dear, marriage does not have to be the right person. But a good marriage is generally the right one.

The formula for marital happiness is that two people are evenly matched. If there is a huge difference in the strength of two people, the strong party can maintain the face of the other party, or the weak party can not be afraid of external rumors, then the marriage can be maintained.

Hello dear, marriage does not have to be the right person. But a good marriage is generally the right one. The formula for marriage and happiness is that two people are evenly matched.

If there is a huge difference in the strength of two people, the strong party can maintain the face of the other party, or the weak party can not turn a blind eye to external rumors, then the marriage can be maintained.

But if two people love each other enough, or if the family is tolerant, they will be happy if they don't have a good match.

Can a girl who doesn't have a job marry?

Looking at the character of the girl, if there is something else that is delayed and she doesn't go to work, but she is positive, then this kind of female salesman can marry a hungry child. If Biqiao is having fun at home and relying on her parents, it is not recommended to marry this kind of girl.

What does it mean to say that a girl is not indiscrete.

Not being in tune, not doing the right thing, not taking the right way to do the right thing, not taking the right way of singing branches and Zen is not the meaning of serious behavior. It's a very bad scolding word, which generally means that the female partner Wang child has problems in behavior and making friends, so it's not a more serious scolding word!

Is it too much to say that a girl?

It's too much, and it hurts the girl's name.

What does he mean by that?

It may be that some of the girl's behavior is not very good, and she insults the girl excessively.

Which has a higher status, the police or the teacher.

Dear, police officers and teachers are both ordinary professions, and there is no distinction between high and low

Isn't it a curse?

Yes, no, no, no

Kiss, is there anything else you can ask?

On this issue, you should judge according to your own thoughts. Everyone's thoughts are different, and the results of judgments are different. Personally, I don't think it's very important to be a good match, the important thing is to use your own advantages to speak and get the marital values you want to obtain.

There are roughly two situations for the family, one is that the family disturbs the strength of the court, that is, the wealth base of the parents; The other is the embodiment of one's own strength and the value of life. If the family conditions and self conditions are good, on the whole it is still relatively perfect.

In the reality of marital happiness, some people tend to enjoy material things, and some people tend to spiritual wealth; In other words, material helps love, and vice versa, love makes up for the material vacancy.

My neighbor has a daughter, a teacher, who is 25 years old and unmarried. I think the teaching profession is very good, the job is easy, and teaching and educating people is respected. She said that I hadn't taken the graduate school entrance examination yet, and I still needed to take the ...... examWait a minute.

I said that a daughter's own conditions are also very good, why do you work so hard to make yourself? Uncle introduces you to a rich second generation who has struggled for at least 20 years, even if you don't take the postgraduate entrance examination or work, you can also live a slow life.

The girl laughed at me: "Do you think those girls who have no advantages of their own and marry into wealthy families have status?" Uncle has watched too many TV series, that is the plot should meet the visual needs of the audience, in reality, there are not so many love fairy tales similar to Cinderella, at least not my turn. ”

So what kind of object do you need? I tried to ask again.

She replied to me: "I don't need any rich second generation, let alone marry into a wealthy family." If you want to talk about me, I'd rather marry someone who is a little worse than my family conditions, at least I have a status and a right to speak, he will treat you as a human being, and the risk of kicking me out of the door after marriage is very low! ”

In the eyes of the girl, her view of marriage is: not to climb high, not delusional. To have their own advantages, economic independence, and independence.

In real life, it is not without wealth, and the words of the girl next door are not unreasonable. A real marriage should focus on love, and there is true love; As long as your own advantages are reliable, you don't need to be the right person. As the saying goes:

Husband and wife are concentric, their profits are cut off, and the two feelings depend on each other is the cornerstone of marriage.

In the final analysis, the true meaning of marriage is love, not material, let alone a match. True marriage is embodied in hand in hand, perseverance, eternity, and a shared future. Along the way, you will add color to your marriage and increase your happiness and beauty.

Marriage needs to be the right person, the right person is money and family, to put it mildly, it is class, people who have not experienced the class gap will not know how powerless love is in front of class. My predecessor is a girl with a good family education, but what about it? 1.

Mom told her not to spend boys' money, girls should be independent, and when they fall in love, they will tell their mother, and their mother will give you money. 2.Dad told her not to look for a partner with too good family conditions, for fear that he would not be good for you.

The girl who chats with my mother every day is a girl with a happy family, and I was born in poverty, at that time, you were not worthy of this girl. When I was young, I felt that those who broke up after graduation because of reality are not love at all, I regard money as dung, do not bend my waist for five buckets of rice, I am Qinggao, love is everything, I feel that there is love, there is a life of two people. In fact, Wanjin Xianghe is a person from two worlds.

It costs more than 100 to eat a dinner, which I think is a big meal for a date, and it turns out that people eat dinner like this every day. went shopping together, I didn't know the brand she bought, and I pulled her to the small market or something, and I could feel that the other party was very reluctant. At first, I was still a little entangled in my heart, thinking that how could a girl spend money so much, and she would also associate this behavior with a "loser".

Later, I found out that this is the daily life of people. Once she took a look at a coat, tried it several times, and finally took it off. I thought it was inappropriate, but she said to me on the way back

There are more than 3,000 clothes, and if I had bought them without hesitation, would you have any opinion of me. "It's really ......Did the other person do something wrong? No, you can't say that other girls follow you every day to eat boxed lunches and wear stalls is true love, right?

She was very good to me, in order to take care of my face, she would secretly stuff me with money under the table every time she checked out, and I checked out and I felt ugly. But this kind of contradiction, slowly, we eat, drink and have fun more, a month spent three months of money, I said inferiorly, I will always pay you back in the future, she cried, and said to me that you never wanted to be with me for the rest of your life. I've thought about feasting, but I'm poor.

Later, after all, we still couldn't be together, indeed, we are not the right family, the family of laid-off workers, and the family of state-owned enterprise executives, the gap is too big. A beautiful and happy life is built on a certain material basis, I don't blame her, I only blame myself for meeting the person I want to protect the most at the age of nothing. Poor, no love.

Love must be the right match, and the two must have three views in line. I want to say to boys, don't fall in love with rich girls easily. I want to say to girls, don't fall in love with poor boys easily.

Need. Two marriages are not in love, and all aspects of the sedan cave need to be considered. The family background is almost the same, the personality is appropriate, and the three views are the same.

From the perspective of the relationship between two people, if the difference in education between boys and girls is too high, and the difference in family background is large, it is unexpected that the living environment of the two people is different since childhood, which will inevitably lead to the two people's different views on some things. It is easy to have conflicts when the views are different, and after a long time, there are more contradictions and conflicts accumulated, and the feelings of the two people will inevitably be affected. Interests and hobbies may not be the same because of the living environment, and the husband and wife are likely to have fewer words when they reach the run-in period, which will affect the relationship between the husband and wife.

From the perspective of the family as a whole, marriage is not about falling in love with a person, and when you marry her, it is also a big family that Wang Wang has chosen newly. The two need to fit together in a short period of time. You need to deal with the other party's relatives, but the door is not the right one, and the relatives are not of the same grade, and there is a high probability of conflicts.

From a personal point of view, if your family, education, and all aspects are far lower than your other half, even if your other half does not feel much, you will always feel inferior in some small things and when getting along with the other party's family. Even psychologically dependent on the other half, he has no confidence. If two people are basically equal, there will be less trouble, in short, the right person still has to talk about it, but if you only look at whether the door is right, then marriage is too formal.

Marriage needs to be more cautious, the right person must be a consideration, the right person will be an important factor to maintain your marriage. You can also click on the wedding profile picture to see more marriage-related knowledge on the homepage If you have other marriage-related questions, you can also ask me directly, and I will do it in the shortest possible time!

First of all, I think passers-by said it"The door is right"In my understanding, it is not only to look at the gap between the economic conditions of the two parties, but more importantly, to see whether the three views, some cognitions, living habits, etc. of the two families are consistent. After all, marriage is a matter of two families, so of course it is better to be more cautious.

When a person grows into who he is today, his personality, some views on things, his three views, etc., will definitely be influenced by his original family to a greater or lesser extent. The families who are in the right place are relatively close to each other in terms of some problems and living habits, and there will be many communication contradictions in the future getting along and communicating.

I remember the TV series "Naked Marriage Era" I watched before, which tells the story of two families who are not in the same household and do not marry their children naked. This TV series was very popular at the time, the heroine Tong Jiaqian's family conditions were good, she was an only child, and her parents worked well. The male protagonist Liu Yiyang's family is rural, and he can't afford to buy a house when he gets married.

The two have been in love for 8 years, and the final result of this marriage is a matter of course. Unexpectedly, when they got married, they encountered a lot of problems, Liu Yiyang had no car, no house and no deposit, but the two believed that as long as they loved each other, they would be happy, so they chose to marry naked.

After getting married, it was sweet at first. It didn't take long for various problems to ensue and lead to divorce. At the beginning, Tong Jiaqian's parents looked down on Liu Yiyang's family and did not agree to marry their daughter to their family.

After Tong Jiaqian got married, she could only stay in their family's house with Liu Yiyang's family and live in the attic.

First, because of some problems in living habits, there are many conflicts when a family lives together. The fireworks that Tong Jiaqian bought home were far less useful than two handfuls of celery in the eyes of her mother-in-law. Tong Jiaqian scared her grandmother into high blood pressure.

Every time Tong Jiaqian came back from shopping, her mother-in-law would look through what she bought and felt that it was a waste of money.

Gradually, there were more and more contradictions, and he chose to divorce. In the TV series, he later remarried.

This TV series made me see two very different families, and if their children get married, they will encounter all kinds of conflicts. Let me also have a clear understanding of reality, marriage needs to be cautious, not just two people love each other is enough to make a bend.

Although it is said that the marriage of the right family does not necessarily mean that it is happy, I think the probability of happiness may be higher. A marriage with the wrong door and the wrong household may bury many hidden dangers in the future. Marriage is a major life event and should be treated with caution.

Sometimes we may be confused by some TV series, and we have watched a lot of stories about ordinary girls and bosses together, and feel that they are very happy. It's just that these are all on the surface of the love layer, and they don't involve marriage and two families. The disparity between the two is too great, and it is certainly unrealistic to rely on the love of both parties alone to maintain the marriage.

In the face of marriage, it is of course very important whether the two parties are compatible. Both families should consider, and at the same time, more should consider whether the partner is suitable for themselves. Consider whether the right match will add a layer of barrier to our future happiness, so that our married life will be more stable and happier under this barrier.