Why do people pay attention to the right person when they get married now?

Because such a marriage can last longer, and the two can have common topics and have very similar views.

It's not that there has always been this emphasis since ancient times, only after the right person gets married, there will be fewer problems and a happier marriage.

Because only the marriage of the right person can last longer, and it is more conducive to the development of the relationship between two people, so people who are married now will pay great attention to the right person.

Because there are few contradictions in the families that are in the right place, the family concepts with similar family backgrounds will also be similar, as long as the concepts are similar, they can better communicate and contact.

From ancient times to the present, why do you have to get married properly? Because getting married is a very important thing. It is the union of two families, and in ancient times, when two families represented two forces combined, a larger force could be formed.

This is very positive for the development of the family, because they have a stronger relationship, more interests involved, and better opportunities for common development, which is why they should be the right person.

In ancient times, marriage was not just a matter of two people, it was a matter of two families, a matter of two families, and what it carried was the prosperity of a family. Moreover, in ancient times, there was no free love, and most of them were designated marriages, so it was actually a matter of interest.

Now the door-to-door match is to make life easier and better for two families. There are also common values, and getting married in the right family will make the two families less troublesome, at least psychologically, he can accept it, and it is easier to agree. The union of two families, that is, the process of acceptance by two families.

Suppose that if one party is poorer, then the rich party has to help the poor party, then it is not fair to the rich party, and it will cause a lot of economic pressure. This unfairness is not only financial, but sometimes psychological. The mismatch between the two families will be prone to a lot of contradictions in the process of family integration.

Therefore, from ancient times to the present, it is generally easier to accept things, and it is easier to blend together. Many people can only rely on their own efforts to become a rich generation, so that they can match up with others, or will live a better life, this is a very realistic topic, we can't avoid it. Of course, there will be some people who are more open-minded, will not interfere too much, and will not care too much, due to the promotion of free love, as long as their children can be happy, many things can be ignored, but once there is a problem, they will take the door as a door.

Because before marriage, the living habits and values of both husband and wife are similar, and it is less likely to have problems getting along after such a marriage.

Because if it is not a good match, the values, consumption outlook, and outlook on life of the two will be very different, and the two are very prone to conflicts, or even divorce.

Because only when the family is right, both parties to marriage will be happier and more helpful to their families.

Because the family with the right family will be very topical, and the economic strength of both parties is relatively comparable, there will be no loss, and the three views are also relatively consistent, so that the married life will be very harmonious.

is because if the two family conditions are comparable, the personalities of the two people are also similar, so there will be fewer conflicts after marriage.

Because of the right love, there is no other pressure. The strength of the two sides is about the same, so there will not be such a situation as who looks down on whom. And in this way, the three views and educational concepts of the two families are also similar, which will promote the happy life of the young couple.

Because only if the family background is the same, there will not be many problems after marriage. If one of the families is rich or poor, the other family will be very dissatisfied. So I think it's good to pay attention to the right people.

Because only when the door is right, two people have common values and world view, so that it is easier for two people to get along in the future, and it is not easy to have conflicts.

Because only the two people will not encounter some problems in their future lives, and they also have certain topics to talk about in many things with each other, which also avoids some contradictions caused by their own concepts.

Because only the right door, everyone's economic strength is comparable, there is no one side dragging down the other, there are the right people, the same education, can better communicate, there is no chicken and duck talk about this kind of problem, only the door is right, everyone will respect each other.

Only when the family is right will there be a better life, the same personality, the same economic ability, and the same consumption standard will not be very different.

Because only the right conditions can prevent the two sides from finding fault with each other, and there will be no contradictory differences.

In order to enable young people to do a good job in marriage and handle marriage, it is necessary to emphasize the parents' right to know and the right to make suggestions and the right to veto under certain conditions.

I think marriage still has to pay attention to a certain right person.

1. The marriage of "the right family" is the most stable.

The formula for marital happiness is that two people are evenly matched. If there is a huge difference in the strength of two people, the strong party can maintain the face of the other party, or the weak party can not be afraid of external rumors, then the marriage can be maintained. But in reality, both of these points have stumped many people.

I have observed an interesting phenomenon in life: those marriages that are very different end in embarrassment; Those marriages that are the right ones are long-lasting.

Two people from different family backgrounds will have different lives and personalities, and all their experiences determine what kind of person he will be in the future.

The grievances suffered today will be filled elsewhere in the future; The lack that I feel now will surely be captured one day. The so-called human nature, even so. Don't go against human nature, understand it, go with it. Love can not look at the family background, marriage must be the right family.

In a marriage that is right at home, no one takes advantage of anyone, no one is wronged, no one covets interests, and naturally there are not so many hidden grenades waiting to be exploded. Only a marriage with the right family can have the possibility of long-term stability.

2. The marriage of "the right family" is the most comfortable.

There is a kind of door-to-door pair, which is called the convergence of three views. When people with the same three views are together, they will come together from all over the world, and they will never get tired of looking at each other.

The so-called right family, this does not mean that two people have equal financial resources, but because of their comparable family background, their views on things and their vision of the world will be the same. Those marriages that are comfortable with each other are just spiritual matches.

You don't have to please, you don't need to please, you know what I want to say, I understand what you mean. Such feelings are truly rare and precious. The marriage of adults is nothing more than finding someone who is comfortable with each other.

3. A marriage that is "the right person" is safer.

There is a saying: "A gentleman is not guilty, but he is guilty." This sentence is still applicable in marriage. The marriage is the right one, and it is the protection of two people.

If two people with a large gap are united into the most intimate relationship, it is giving others a reason to hurt you at will. A marriage with mismatched conditions is like a princess wearing a gorgeous dress and full of jewels walking into a commoner's house, and it is difficult not to breed the idea of taking it for herself.

A good match in this world is not only to choose the right person from the beginning, but also to choose an environment in which you cannot do evil. You don't know if you don't know if people are fickle, and you don't know if the other party is a human or a ghost.

The marriage of "the right person" can at least ensure that the other party does not pretend to be with you because he is greedy for anything.

A good marriage is fatal, and a bad marriage is deadly. "Choosing a partner is a very important thing in life, not only to keep your eyes open, but also to verify your character. In addition, it is also necessary for two people to walk in the same step, have the same three views, and grow together.

Clause. 1. You will not be disliked by the other party's family. Although it is not very much advocated now, many families are still the same, and if they feel that they have strength, they will dislike families who do not have strength.

Clause. 2. You will not be bullied by the other party's family. Many people like to find wealthy families, but you have no right to speak when you marry in, and you often keep your voice low, and you are bullied and dare not speak. And the right family will not.

Clause. 3. You can help each other and support each other. The right family plays a very good role in each other's career and life, and if the difference in strength is too great, they will be rejected or even ignored.

In the end, it is not difficult to find the right marriage, the difficult thing is to find a suitable person to be with you, otherwise you will not feel happy even if you are the right person.

Therefore, no matter from ancient times to the present, the door-to-door pair is a topic that is worth discussing for everyone.

The reason why everyone has been discussing this seemingly traditional and feudal topic until now is because it exists in marriage, an unavoidable factor that is worth discussing.

Especially now that more and more attention is paid to children, the family is getting closer and closer, and it is not like a long time ago, for the children who got married, everyone may think that they have completed the family independently, and they will mix a little less, and now both parties are very concerned about the next generation, and both parents are happy to be involved in the life of the young couple.

Many living habits, some living habits of parents on both sides, affect their children's consumption views.

It is said that falling in love is a matter of two people. Marriage is a matter of two families. In fact, it is indeed like this, once you get married and involve marriage and love issues, you will find that both parents are on the top, and what you think is a personal idea is actually the idea of their family.

If the disparity between the two is too great, there will inevitably be some conceptual conflicts. And now everyone is talking about a lot of things that refer to some academic qualifications.

It is very important to say that the marriage is still very important, because the level is different, the way of life is very different, and the cultural accomplishment is not the same, so there will be many difficulties together, especially if the city and the countryside get married, although the relationship between the two young people is very good, but the old people on both sides just can't say together, the urban people don't understand the rules and don't pay attention to hygiene, and the rural people don't know the rules and don't pay attention to hygiene, and the rural people who think the city are arrogant. For girls, this should be beyond reproach. With a boyfriend and a husband, who doesn't rely on him?

But girls, if you're just starting socializing, this dependence is a must for boys. But do you really know other boys? Especially men who are not single or married.

Many men want to have their own independent space and don't want to spend too much time with women, so if you are someone who is particularly dependent on your other half, it is easy to discord. This does not contradict the respective family economy. If you both have a more spiritual world, many topics or interests should be in the same world, with few contradictions or dissonances.

They don't find their thoughts incomprehensible and unbearable. Whether the shoes fit or not is still known with the courage to put them on. Everyone has their own circle, and if two people in this circle have the same personality, hobbies, qualities, cultivation, and education, then life will be relatively comfortable.

Otherwise, it will produce very contradictions and jokes. Marriage pays attention to "the right family", that is, when a man and a woman get married, the wealth and status of the two families must be equal, so that they can be happy.

In fact, this view is that it will make both parties to the marriage buy the foreshadowing in the future, why do I say this? Because if on that day, when the difference in wealth and status between the two families changes, the other party may show disdain and contempt for the other party, and once this attitude of "disdain" is formed, the stability of the marriage will be affected. When you decide to enter into a marriage, it is not only a matter of what kind of person you are going to choose to be your husband, but also what kind of lifestyle you will choose to spend the rest of your life if you plan to stay with him for a long time.

It is often said that falling in love may be a matter of two people, and two people can fall in love as long as they are electrocuted instantly; But marriage must not be a matter of two people, because marriage involves two huge families, and it also includes the crystallization of love that you will have together in the future. Some people say that now that marriage is free, the old tradition and old idea of feudal superstition are now outdated; Some people say, what I want is the person in front of me, talk to me about material, money, and status, it's too vulgar, there is love and water, and there is happiness if there is love.