Do you think it s worth it if you don t pay in return?

Well, I think it's worth it! Think about it, you like someone, although it is impossible for each other, but your heart still silently blesses him (her), this is a kind of worthwhile giving. There is also the friendship we have, true friends, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how difficult, we will not retreat, this is also a sincere dedication.

The care and love of the elders, they just want us to live well. They have never tried to give anything in return, even if a hundred years later, we are more filial. All, the effort does not have to be worthwhile, as long as the dedication is good.

Worth. If you don't do it now, you'll regret it later.

Even if you don't get something in return, at least you won't have regrets in retrospect, let alone someone who is important to you.

It doesn't matter if it's a friend or a loved one or a lover.

It's all important to you, isn't it?

Of course it's not worth it, but there are two kinds of rewards: one is material and the other is spiritual. No matter what kind of reward you get, it is a return, so as long as you pay, you will definitely get a return, and it is impossible to pay without a return.

In fact, there are a lot of things that we can't change, and sometimes, we know that there is no return, but we still give.

Don't talk too much about family affection.

Love: If you really care about that person, he or she cares about you just as much as you do, then you don't ask for anything in return.

As for friendship, it depends on what kind of friends you are facing, and in today's society, it's hard to find friends who are not selfish.

There are no absolutes in reality, you have to learn to adapt.

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy.

If it's someone you love very much, then maybe, it's worth it! At least you have paid, you have no regrets! Even if I think of it in the future、

The right person is always you

You've had a lot of pure love!

It's also a very good memory.

Worth. For the people you like, it's worth doing anything.

Some are worth something, some are not, it depends on the person.

You don't have to repay everything you do, as long as you make your effort worthwhile, then you will get priceless spiritual wealth.

If you think it's worth it, you can pay it.

Giving doesn't have to be in return.

Worth. In what do you think.

A lot of things don't come in return.

The process is a reward, at least you learn to be strong.

I'm not going to keep doing it. In my opinion, there must be a return for giving, and if I can't see the return at all for my giving, I won't continue to give, because I don't think this kind of reciprocal giving is meaningless. Although what we have always heard is not to talk about return if you pay, but I think it is very fair to pay in return, if you pay, the other party does not give any reward at all, this kind of pay is worthless, and in the end it is only yourself who is moved, because the person or thing you pay for it does not give you good feedback, your persistence is meaningless, and even ridiculous.

Of course, some people may say that people who want to return when they pay are people who do not have noble character, or they will say that they do not see the return now, just because the time has not yet come, and you have been giving and will always see the return. But I want to say that if the noble character is to pay without asking for anything in return, then this kind of virtue can only be enjoyed after having a certain social status, and ordinary people still have to live an ordinary life, and every effort should be rewarded; It is possible that the time to get a return is not reached, and this kind of time must be set a time limit, and when the time limit is up, if you still can't see the return, then you have to withdraw immediately, because there may be nothing in the end.

There must be a return for the effort, and if there is no return, you must not persevere, and the final result is likely to be bad.

In order to have something meaningful and valuable, even if it is exported, it should still be done, so it is necessary to decide whether it should continue to be done according to the specific situation of what is done.

I only think about giving back to do things, and of course I don't insist on it. This return, of course, refers to personal fame and fortune.

For example, when it comes to dedication, public morality, etc., there are some things that are not rewarded, and some people will still do them, but it is understandable not to do them. However, it is wrong to introduce this as a student union officer, because I don't want to stick to it because I haven't gained personal fame and fortune.

The first is to choose you to do it, which means that you have certain conditions, and ordinary students can't do it. This is trust and should be cherished. ′

The second is to be responsible for being selected, and being responsible for oneself is also training and improving, to a certain extent, this is also"Returns"。

As far as I know and experience, the practice of being a student cadre is useful for dealing with people and managing things all my life, and what I persist in is the support of pursuing ideals and beliefs!

Rather than figuring out what benefits are in return!

Let's say you worked for a year, earned a year's worth of hard money, and just toiled to survive.

There is a thing that is the opposite, millions of people are not afraid of sacrifice to achieve a goal, and they have always worked hard and finally succeeded!

It's a pity that in the process, for the victims who can achieve this goal, they have not received any benefits, but without their dedication and sacrifice, people today cannot live a good life today!

How could they not want to see the fruits of the day of victory, but it was only because of the special objective conditions that they prematurely sacrificed their precious lives for the cause of the people's liberation!

Therefore, although some things will not see the result for the time being, if you stick to it, you will gain something!

Even the profound lessons of failure are a valuable spiritual legacy for future generations!

If you don't get a return for your efforts, do you continue to do it? No, if you don't get a reward, you won't continue to work hard. If I pay and don't get a return, then I naturally choose to stop the loss in time, do I have to pay until there is nothing to turn back?

I'm actually not a very generous person, I always feel that I pay, you have to let me get the corresponding gain, I also think that this way can get a balance, whether it is friendship, love, and family affection should be so, and it should not be me blindly pay, you blindly ask, in the end you want more, and I have nothing to give you, at that time I complained that you would only take, and you complained that I didn't have so much, and what kind of generosity to deceive you.

I just know that in this life I just want to make myself happy, I just want to make my life easier, I don't want to live too hard, I always feel that if I am unhappy, if I am unhappy, it means that the direction of my efforts is wrong, and I should turn back in time, instead of moving forward all the time.

Some people may think that it is common to pay, and the person they like is okay to pay, but I am different, I like a person, and I don't want to wronged myself, let myself live too painfully, like you is something that makes me happy, but if I like you, I have to wronged myself, accommodate you, make me feel unhappy, I would rather not like you.

To pay is to desire in return, if you can't get anything in return no matter how much you pay, then what's the point of paying? If there is an expectation, there should be a response, and if there is no response, it means that the expectation is wrong, and it should be separated early.

I won't continue.

Pleasing others and making others happy, this kind of pleasing personality, in the end, it is yourself who is hurt. You can give for your family for free, and don't give for anyone else. Otherwise, when you need help and are denied, you will feel bad.

When the person who helped himself did not say thank you to himself, there was no need to help next time. When you help someone more than twice and don't get help from them, there is no need to help them next time. Although helpfulness is a good character of the Chinese nation, everyone's time and energy are limited and precious.

If you don't get a return for your efforts, do you continue to do it? Always believe that you will be rewarded for your efforts, always feel that God is fair, and pay and return are always equal. But I don't approve of blindly giving in love, the kind of unrewarded giving is not worth it at all, rather than constantly giving to a person who doesn't love themselves, it is better to give all your efforts to a person who loves yourself.

Sometimes it's not just that you get paid off. If you like someone, you will try your best to get her, keep giving, give her everything she likes, as long as she asks for you, you will respond, even the number of confessions is uncountable, every time you say "I like" with hope, but every time you get "I'm sorry".

If you don't get anything in return, don't keep giving, a person who doesn't love you is like a bottomless pit, you will never be satisfied, you will never know how to reciprocate. Instead of looking like this, you might as well go back and look behind you, those who care about you and care about you are no worse than the person you like, instead of guarding a person who doesn't like you like this, it is better to go back and hug the person who has always liked you.

You don't blindly pay with the hope that there will always be a return for paying, in front of feelings, it is not like buying something, you will definitely have equivalent goods when you take money, and no matter how much you pay, you may not have the same emotional return. Feelings are really something that is not clear and incomprehensible.

If you don't get a little bit in return for all your previous efforts, don't continue, even if you give your whole life, there is no way to touch someone who doesn't like you at all. Life is not an idol drama, the person you like can be chased without stopping, your script can only be written by yourself, don't wronged yourself, let alone the person who has always loved you, look back if you can't get paid off.

We often say that persistence is victory, and when encountering setbacks, we must be more and more courageous, and the author never denies the importance of persistence, but when you have been doing one thing, never responding, feedback, then we have to think, whether we want to continue.

Each of us has a certain purpose in doing things, especially things that invest a lot of time and energy, often care more about the results, and there is no return and result for a long time, the process is very uncomfortable, we can take chicken soup to encourage ourselves, saying that other people's success depends on persistence, although it can help us continue to persevere, but it does not tell us why we should persevere.

You know, success is often a minority, and others are persistent, most of them are because the previous sunk cost is too high, and they can't give up so they have to persevere.

In fact, most of our sunk costs refer to the expenses that have occurred in the past that are not related to the current decision-making, which can be directly understood as the money or time spent in the past, and the things that we have not returned for a long time are probably just the two directions of relationship and career.

If it is in the emotional aspect, long-term investment, and no feedback, in fact, there are already results, just like you go to the interview, let you wait for the notice, if you don't wait for the notice, then you will not pass the interview, and the relationship is probably the same, if you really value you, it will not let you wait for so long, and you have this idea of whether you should give up, it is already time to give up.

You know, feelings are never a person's thing, but two people, even if you care a lot about a relationship, and the other party doesn't care, then this relationship is cheap, only when both parties care about the relationship, there is due value of the relationship.

For the career, it can be divided into whether you still need to invest costs, that is, time and money, when we do things, it is normal for there to be no short-term returns or results, and when there is no return for the long term, we have to think about whether to do it, life is never easy, and choice is often more important than hard work.

If you do what you are doing now, it doesn't take too much time and energy to continue, or you don't have to do your career and do what you want to do, you can only brush up on the short**, if you chase the drama, it is recommended that you stick to it, because you don't have too many means to monetize your resources, even if you fail in the end, it's not in vain, is it? But if you are using the resources now, you can use other means to get more returns and get better rewards, then it is advisable to give up the current thing.

It is not shameful to give up sometimes, and sometimes it is your own poison to insist, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, we must be 100% responsible for ourselves when doing things, choose the right direction, and then insist, to work hard, in order to be worthy of our own persistence.