Is it worth the effort for a long time

Any woman who has self-esteem, is independent, loves you, and feels sorry for you will not be like her. She's definitely not the woman she really loves. If you have a broken relationship, even if you are together every day, it is difficult to repair it to be flawless, let alone you are separated.

If she really loves you, she will know how hard you work to earn money, and feel distressed about your daily busyness at work, but now she just thinks that you should raise her, such a terrible thought, you were not born to pay her debts. I don't think you have ever given your parents such an expense, think about the real hard work to raise you is your parents, you buy your parents a yellow lotus they will feel very sweet, but if you buy her a bunch of chocolates, she will feel that the sweetness is not enough. Don't be stupid, give up, don't pay like this senselessly, I believe that the person who really belongs to you is still behind.

It's not worth it! If you are the only one who pays, you always feel as if you are being tricked. And she also betrayed you, not to mention that she is so beautiful and chased by so many people, you must not be able to stand it!

It's better to give up early and find a better one!

Truly falling in love with someone is selfless giving, learning to grow in giving, rather than blindly asking for returns. Then your love for her will be doubtful. In the life of feelings, there is no worthiness or not, only love and unlove.

You love her, you pay for her, it's understandable If the two of you go out together, how much money you spend can only be a sign of love.

But if you send her living expenses, it's a bit lacking in heart The living expenses are naturally paid by her parents Why do you give her She spends more on her luxury Her parents definitely don't know that you are such a number and give their daughters money every month!

Brother, I promise, she's just spending your money!

The broken mirror is also cracked in the good, if you love her, you have to tolerate her, don't mention money, love will not grow old with money in it. Maybe she's just taking advantage of you. Looking to see if you really love her, do you love her and she loves you?

I think you know that. My opinion is on you, you give up.

My analysis from the perspective of a bystander leads to the following conclusions:

1.He's a watery woman (she's a pretty girl, and she's a very sweet-hearted girl!). Shouldn't you be careful with this kind of woman? Is there no better woman in your life than him? Haha: No one can jump to conclusions about this (because you love Tarah too much).

2.Why do you want to give him living expenses? Do you all know that men chase women!!

However, caution must be exercised!! When you both lived in the land, did you know if there were any other difficult people around him? However, one thing is certain:

It's that you don't have a woman by your side! You are more single-minded. Because you love him, you don't imagine that he is as ignorant as he betrays you again and again (she once betrayed me!).

3.Remember pull. Love: Giving up is also a kind of beauty!!

When the interruption continues, it will be disturbed!

It may be painful to cut the love thread, but this kind of relationship is not a good feeling, so it's broken! Color is emptiness, find a woman who really lives a life! Don't be beautiful when looking for a wife, otherwise you will be worried and scared for the rest of your life, worry about going to work, worry about walking at night, and always worry about the two of them no longer together!

The main problem is that they are thousands of miles apart, and if this problem cannot be solved, all the efforts will be a river of spring water flowing eastward.

Other problems are not problems, they often happen between two people.

If her future work place is where you are now, then all the efforts will be rewarded.

Good luck.

Isn't it easy to test if she really loves you? Make good use of the advantage of space distance, she will prevaricate you, saying that she is going to study hard and take the postgraduate entrance examination (this seems to me to be a complete excuse, I really love you, and I will use it every minute and every second, not to mention sending messages, calling **, and meeting is very urgent).

Hungry her for a while, don't give her money, see what happens to her!?

My former boyfriend also betrayed me and came back to me. I began to think that I couldn't live without him, and I tried my best to redeem it, and he was back, but the relationship had deteriorated ......So I left him anyway.

I think your future is really bleak. Now it's because you provide for him to go to school. And what about him after he graduates?

A man must not look for a woman who is stronger than him, because there will be no result! After she is admitted to graduate school, her surroundings will change, so she ......

Passed. It's going to be reconciled, it's unlikely. It's like spilled water, which can't be recovered, when he feels like you're not as good as you, he will come back to you. You always take money to support him. Probably not so many people.

Dizzy, you're in the ditch, and the plan can't keep up with the change. It's best to be mentally prepared, it's better to record a note, and in the future, she will turn her face and have a good material compensation.

Dude, you're rare. Really single-minded.

True love can't resist it, believe that you know the most in your heart, wait and see!

There is a book in the daily member internal reference today heard about the topic of "getting rich", which talks about the need to consider whether your efforts can give you a salary increase when working, and you should make corresponding changes!

Specifically, when you work overtime at work, and the salary increase is not due to you, should you consider your attitude towards work? Is this overtime worth it?

Normally, most people will give up their persistence and dedication and choose to be perfunctory! In the face of their own efforts, I always feel unfair!

Yes, more and more time is dedicated to the unit, and the time you can use is very little time to spend with your children! I feel that I have been wronged and ashamed of my family, but what have I really gained?

When facing my own children, I can't bear to waste their training time, after all, I am also a parent of special children, and my professional ethics and empathy always make me unbearable to slack off on them!

The goals and plans I set for myself are still insisting on doing them every day, and I will occasionally desert, and I will hurry up to make up my daily plan the next day! I don't want to accumulate workload, just warn myself: today is the end of the day!

When my own complaints and grievances fill my mind, I always comfort myself: thank the boss for his kindness! At the beginning of the establishment of the unit, didn't he pay me a salary when he lost money? Why is it that now that there is some improvement, you are not satisfied?

As the saying goes: "The human heart is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant!" "He's got his changes, and he's not! If you want to get a promotion and a salary increase, you have to have the ability to stand up to the scene, not a person who works diligently like a bee and keeps his head down!

I am accustomed to work, and I am still lacking in terms of self-protection, I choose to learn writing after work, and love writing and insist on writing, which is also the beginning of living for myself! Maybe to some extent, money is the embodiment of a person's value, but I always feel that there is a feeling that transcends reality and limitations, and those values that are recognized by others will make me feel that it is worth paying more!

Maybe it's this stupidity and persistence that gives me my place in the unit! I'm willing to pay for my choice and I think it's all worth it! It is necessary to do it, and if you don't do it, you will regret it!

That's who I am, just like writing, it's my choice to stick to it, because of work, I want to do what I can, but I still choose not to give up!

I paid and I think it's worth it! There may not be financial relief, but I still believe that tomorrow will be better! Because the harder you work, the luckier you get!