Why is it that everyone has the experience of staying in the ex, how did you all jump out?

Why is it that everyone has the experience of staying in the ex, how did you all jump out? <>For a long time after our breakup, there may not be a way for us to move on from the pain of the breakup. Because there is no way to deny that the two of you came together because you like each other, but the reason why the two of you chose to break up is also because there is a problem in the relationship between the two of you, and we have no way to deny this.

Those who regard the relationship as too important first may not be able to accept the fact that two people broke up, and no matter how rational people are, they need to digest it slowly for a while, and what happens to two people will slowly summarize the experience in the relationship. <>

There are some people who value their feelings too much, and he may have some irrational actions when they break up. Maybe they will do something that hurts their body, and they think that doing so will make the other person pay attention to their relationship, but in fact, these are put into the other person's age and become your relationship entanglement between the two of you. After the breakup, you should be decent, if you really have expectations for the relationship between the two of you, then try to keep it as much as possible, but when the other party rejects you, you also have to turn around in style, you have to believe that the next one will be better.

We can put ourselves in other things so that we don't always remember those sad memories. For example, we can take a walk-and-go trip, in the midst of nature, we can relax and enjoy the beauty of the natural world. There are also many things in life that are worth loving, such as friendship and family affection, which are longer lasting than love.

You have to put your center on life slowly, and you also want to make yourself a better and better person, because only when you become a better and better person, your horizons will be broadened, and you will not be entangled in such a small thing as your breakup.

Because it is rare for a person not to enter the palace of marriage with him when he is in love for the first time, only by cherishing the present and treating his current object well, so that he can jump out of the shadow of the past.

I'm all about doing something meaningful, working hard, and listening to songs to exercise when I'm not happy.

This has a lot to do with people's nostalgia for the old one, and jumping out by yourself is to get rid of that memory by diverting energy.

Every relationship will remain in our hearts, and there will be memories, which requires us not to think about the previous relationship in our hearts and put all our energy into the next relationship.

I've been trying to forget about my ex, and I'm actively looking for a new relationship, and finally managed to jump out.

I just learned to slowly forget some things, and then let myself get out of that shadow, and then jump out after a long time, so that I don't have a lot of pain.

Slowly forget it, and after a long time, that person will become blurred in his mind, will forget, and will come out.

I just slowly jumped out of time, forgetting all the unhappy things and giving myself a fresh start.

After having the incumbent, I jumped out because I felt that the current one was better than the ex, and I no longer had any nostalgia for any experience with my ex.

I jumped out by meeting new people of the opposite sex, and when you work hard to learn from others, you will no longer be entangled in the right and wrong of the past.

found a new lover, slowly forgot about his ex, and never wanted to mention it again.

Actually, I jumped out by starting a new relationship again, because after a few months, I met the person I loved again.

In fact, in relationships, we often fall into a misunderstanding, that is, once both parties fall in love, they are very concerned about whether the other party forgets his ex. In fact, this idea is wrong in the first place. If a person forgets all about his ex, then it proves that this person is also a person who is unkind.

After all, when he and his ex were together, they were serious about falling in love, and it was reasonable that they couldn't forget each other. If he really forgets his previous feelings, then it is conceivable that he may become very cold to you in the future.

In fact, what we should care about is not whether he forgot his ex, but whether he sincerely paid for you when the two of you fell in love? Have you done anything sorry for you in action and in thought. If it's all positive, then this person is a person to be trusted, even if there is a small corner of his heart with his ex.

In fact, what is not to be done? After all, people are emotional animals, which proves that this person is also a sentient and righteous person.

When two people fall in love, they must give wholeheartedly. Build on mutual respect and trust, and don't always be suspicious and suspicious of each other. Don't test this relationship easily.

Maybe the other party has nothing in his heart, but as a result, he is physically and mentally exhausted by all kinds of doubts and suspicions, and the relationship may turn from the original enthusiasm to indifference. From the original heart-to-heart sympathy, it has become a constant quarrel. In fact, if you do this, you may lose a beautiful love on yourself.

So what is the reason why a person cannot forget his ex? In fact, many people can't forget their ex, not because they still have deep feelings for him, but because they are unwilling. Especially in the previous relationship, you gave more than the other person, so there will be an imbalance in your heart, resulting in anger and hatred.

So what I can't forget is actually this imbalance in my heart.

There are also some people who can't forget their ex because they haven't found true love, so they will always be stuck in the last relationship and can't extricate themselves. If you re-enter a new relationship, then the emptiness in people's hearts will be filled with new feelings, and they will not be obsessed with the past feelings.

We must clearly understand that liking someone is not completely dominating him, and even his past must be completely owned, which is unrealistic. Everyone can go through one or many relationships. These feelings cannot be completely erased in people's memories, so we must face up to their existence.

Because these people have had a lot of good things with their ex, they still have feelings for their ex, so they will never forget it.

Because there are a lot of stories that happen between some people and their ex, and the ex takes good care of him, it is hard to forget.

This is because I have had a relationship with my ex, and I am very reluctant to let go of this relationship, so I can't forget my ex.

Because the two of them had particularly good memories before, the two of them were particularly hasty and sudden when they separated, so there was no way to get out as soon as possible.

Because his ex has a great influence on him, and he has a deep relationship with his ex, he doesn't want to break up when he breaks up, so he can't forget the other party.

Because the ex is very important to a person and it is also very difficult to forget, this situation will arise.

Really short is letting go of a person, auspicious should be when others mention the name of Jin Hu Bi again, you can not feel pain, when you meet this person on the street, you can leave as if nothing happened.

After the breakup, I am in a very happy mood, find what I like to do, and no longer lose my temper for no reason. It means that you have come out.

Went to a place that I often go to with my ex, and it will. There is a song that sings very well. You never have to think about it, and you don't have to forget it.

That's how my ex made me feel. We've had a lot of ups and downs together. Because we are happy with each other, we come together, and because of different realities, we can't be together.

Only those who have experienced pain can understand. Now, we have found the best home for our other half. A corner of my heart will always belong to him.

When you see others treating women well, you think of your ex because he is a good-natured, attentive and good person who will treat his other half well and knows how to take care of and entertain others.

Unfortunately, due to the problem of geographical separation, I don't think I'll ever forget this for the rest of my life, because I couldn't find anyone better than him. Every time I see a couple walking down the street arm in arm, and I see Li Chuan hugging Xiaoqiu so warmly, the scene of Xiaoqiu's ** and them playing will leave me with a memory.

My ex-husband and I are both young and old, my brother left early, and he has two sisters! I have two brothers! We all had a great time!

Good song! These are all small ** in unit A. We are all children!

He let me! I always convince him! Our colleagues said he was my "eldest son"!

Everyone knows I love him! Good bye. It's over!

Love has turned into hate! Now I don't have a concept, memories belong to memories! But I don't know, I don't need anything.

I inadvertently remembered my ex.

Clear. I did it alone. It's fun to think.

They have been separated for more than three years. I haven't completely forgotten my memory. I can't drink with my ex and I can't go anywhere.

In the end, because some of the little things were cold, now they have a fresh start, but sometimes I can remember, maybe for the first time. My image will be more profound. I inadvertently remembered, alas, sin.

I hope time will change all that and make me forget completely. When you see a familiar scene, or a person, or something, you open the bottle of Pandora's memory.

Have you forgotten your ex? Before you ask questions, please ask yourself, but if you have been in love once or several times, you will empathize, in the end have not forgotten, you will know, you know, there is no ex that can not be forgotten, only people who cannot forget the ex, recently three netizens have sent me private messages on this issue, have stated their respective opinions, if you have more opinions on this, welcome to express your views in the comments.

Netizens. 1. Male, 25 years old, unmarried.

The ex has long disappeared, I won't think about the ex at all, until the moment we break up, the ex has already become the garbage of memory, because of this, I will empty the ex, and I will definitely not let the ex occupy my memory space, now I will look forward, I will never look backward, whether the ex is married or not, I will not bless the ex, the ex is good or bad, and I have no connection in the slightest, not that I am ruthless, but I can afford it, I can put it down, most people can't forget the ex, It is precisely because of indecision that the attitude towards the old relationship will be muddy and watery, and the attitude towards the old relationship will directly or indirectly reflect the attitude of daily life.

Netizens. 2. Female, 22 years old, unmarried.

Ex, have I ever been in a relationship? I guess I've talked about it, I've long forgotten it, as for the name of my predecessor, I have long forgotten about it, what is my predecessor? Can you eat or can you play?

Ha ha. I will selectively remember, for bad people or bad things, I will ruthlessly format, to prevent the tragedy of the past from affecting the current mood, maybe some people will say that I am unkind, in fact, I say that my people do not know things, the reason why I completely forget my ex, is precisely because I am wise, since time can not be turned back, I will also move forward, many people hesitate in love or career, all are troubled by the past people and past things, similar people are not the stupidest, only more stupid.