What is often the reason for the terrible price you pay?

The reason why I paid a terrible price was naturally because of my failures in my studies, in my relationship and in my work. <>

1. I used to feel that I was different when I failed in learning, and I thought that as long as I studied seriously, I would definitely be able to achieve good results. After all, he is always praised by teachers and parents as a smart child, and he feels that he is very powerful because of this sense of trust that has been shaped. But after the results of the college entrance examination came out, I found that compared to some powerful people, I was just an ant.

The so-called pride that used to be nothing to mention in front of tens of millions of candidates. I still fantasized about that ideal university in my heart, but I didn't expect that I was too self-conscious and failed too much in my studies, and finally went to a pheasant university. <>

2. Emotional failureI am a very controlling person, and I also want to control all aspects emotionally, hoping that the subject can listen to me, and I hope that the subject can be very good to me. So I always make a couple of rules to limit each other's behavior and ask the other person to do something to me. Maybe at first, the other person thinks it is very fresh and will play with me, but after a long time, the other person feels a sense of pressure.

But I didn't know it, but I still intensified it, and finally aroused the disgust of the other party, so that the feelings also said goodbye. And then in many relationships, I didn't know how to repent, I still felt that I was not wrong, and I thought I had high standards. But in fact, this is a disgusting little problem in my relationship, and the failure of my relationship has made me spend countless time and energy, and I feel that even life has become sad.

3. Failures at workI will also face various problems at work, and sometimes some projects are not done well, and I will be criticized by my boss. Sometimes some things do not meet the boss's standards, and the performance cannot meet the standards, and many blames will be received. Because of his lack of outstanding ability at work, he gets very little salary, and his natural life is very poor, and he always feels that he has achieved nothing.

I feel that the main reason for paying a painful price is my youth and willfulness, and I only look at the immediate and do not consider the consequences.

What can make me pay a heavy price is often my sincere feelings, and when we really give something, their betrayal will make me very painful.

The main reason why you can make yourself pay a heavy price is that you are too impulsive and irrational in doing things.

Summary. To pay the price is to pay for something you have now to repay something you did wrong. It may be that this person has done something wrong and caused others to be dissatisfied, and others will say that you will pay the price, it may be the price of money, it may be the price of human favors, it may be the price of material things, pay something.

The so-called paying price is to pay some of the things you have now to repay some of the things you have done wrong. It may be that this person has done something wrong and caused the dissatisfaction of others, and others will say that you will pay the price, it may be the price of money, it may be the price of human favors, it may be the price of material things, pay something. This forest.

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The cost re-imposes the degree of harm to others on oneself, and the harm suffered on oneself is the price to pay the price, to make up for what you have done wrong, to fill the void. Everything needs to pay a price, which means that you have to work hard to do anything, work is also like this, go to work on time, don't be lazy during work hours, read more books when you have time, learn more knowledge, and be a farmer is also a joke, and go to see more crops For example, if you plant sugarcane, now is the sugarcane cutting season, you have to be diligent to cut sugarcane every day, don't wait until you listen to the bombardment and then cut sugarcane, so there is no income, so everything needs to pay a price.

Drunk driving accidents have been a pain in my life, and it has also cost me dearly.

In 2014, because I had just bought a car for a short time, it was convenient to have a car, so I often took my friends out to drink and eat supper at night. After drinking with friends one night, on the way home, just after driving a cave, he saw that there was a police officer investigating drunk driving outside Baifan's order.

When I turned the car around and slammed the gas pedal and ran away, a police car came up from behind, and without saying a word, it collided directly with my car, and the car drifted directly and hit the guardrail on the side of the road. When the car was hit and stopped, more than a dozen traffic policemen ran over and beat me and the people in my car in a bunch of ways, and the handcuffs were directly roasted.

The next thing is to send him to the hospital, and the blood is drawn to see what the alcohol content in the blood is, and when the blood is drawn, I saw a friend in the car, who hit his head against the glass and made a big opening, and the doctor was going to operate on him, and he was so scared that he had already woken up.

The next is to go directly to the detention center, to be honest, for the first time in my life, I went into the detention center in handcuffs, and there are drug addicts, thefts, robberies, frauds, and economic crimes in the detention center.

After being released on bail pending trial, I lost money, money to accompany my friend's injury, money to accompany the police car, and I paid a heavy price for my ignorance that year, and since then I have not drunk a drop until now.

There is one thing that really makes me ashamed, I have felt guilty for twenty years, maybe this is the price of betrayal, if I could start over, I would never make such a low-level mistake again.

I am fifty years old this year, and when I was young, I had a boyfriend in the village, who was very nice and very handsome, but his family was very poor, so my parents did not agree to get along with him, but we still secretly stayed together. Later, he asked me to wait for him for three years, and he was going to work in the south, and I agreed to him.

There was no ** in that era, and the communication was not convenient, so there has been no contact, and then the village chief asked someone to come to my house to propose to his son, and my parents agreed, I never complained about my parents, and I also acquiesced at the time, because the village chief bought a building in his son's county, and promised to find me a job after getting married.

But two years later, I was already a mother of the child, but he came back from the south and found me, he cried so much, I felt very sorry for him, but he didn't blame me, and we ended up like this. Later, he had been in the south and did not come back, and when I heard from his relatives that he had never been married, my heart was broken when I knew it. Thinking of him, my whole generation of sedan shirts are guilty and uneasy.

I'm Yan Yao, thank you for reading.

When I met a white-eyed wolf, I forgot for a lifetime, how to treat people in the future.

After the tragic price, it must be the full force of putting the place of death and then rebirth, the so-called Nirvana re-preparing the sedan chair.

Because of the painful price and the bloody lesson, it must be unforgettable, and it is precisely because of the deep memory that we have the motivation to move forward and the desperate struggle, and only then will we have the determination to try our best to achieve the goal and truly put it into action.

In the years that followed, once you have a heart of slackness, that painful moment will inevitably jump out to remind you and force you to continue to move forward until you succeed.

However, there are also those who have been hit by this price and have nothing to love, so they will go on and go. I don't despise such people, but I don't approve of their actions either.

Human beings are human because we have wisdom that is superior to other beings. The price, no matter how painful it is, is just a wave in the long river of life. After all, a person's life is not just a broad road with glorious signs, muddy, bumpy, and rugged may appear.

We will have the glory of climbing the peak, but also will inevitably have the unbearable of falling to the trough, even if we fall half to death, we must dust off our bodies, wash the filth on our clothes, hold our heads high, reorganize our spirits, and strive to climb upward, not seeking to reproduce the glory, but seeking a smooth road, worthy of our hearts.

Therefore, after the tragic price, if you get up again, it will be a rainbow after the rain, and it will inevitably glow with dazzling brilliance. Even if it is not good, it will get better little by little, and then it will get better, and finally make this "miserable" an opportunity in your life and the wealth of your life.

There is a price to be paid for talking nonsense: the deepest hurt to others in the world is always language, and when we talk nonsense, when we speak insultingly to others, it will never be erased like the scar left by a nail on a tree.

There is a price to be paid for spending money indiscriminately, we must do a good job of giving up money, manage our mentality, and make money with principles; Keep your pockets in check and spend your money in moderation. When you're fine, may you make money to buy a sense of security. When you have time, may you spend money to buy happiness.

There is a price to be paid for losing your temper: what temper, what disease. When you are angry, qi and blood stasis obstruct the reputation, and it is easy to produce nodules and hyperplasia; When you are angry, your liver is damaged and you are prone to coldness.