What is it like to accidentally find out that you like to be a father?

More of a daze, suddenly added a copy of oneself to my life, and I was at a loss for a while. Instead, I was excited, my life was inherited, and my ability was fully affirmed. The last is to bear, a small life needs to be cared for by itself, which stimulates men's desire to protect.

I still remember that more than 5 years ago, my wife didn't come for two weeks on her period, and she told me, so she should be mentally prepared. My wife got up early in the morning and went to the toilet to check it, and came back to the room and said to me, "Congratulations, you're going to be a father." At that time, I just wanted to post an advertisement and share that joy with others (of course, our custom is that we can't say it in the first few months).

In the months that followed, when relatives and friends talked to us about this, we could only smile sweetly.

If you are looking forward to the arrival of your child, then of course you are very happy and happy.

It's going to be exciting, but at the same time it's going to think about a lot of concerns, which is normal, and in short, the mind will be very messy.

I couldn't be happier. Gratified. I feel like I'm going to take on the role of a father.

In the middle of September last year, my girlfriend and I were still at work, she suddenly ran to the toilet and vomited, I asked her, she said it was a headache that day, and she didn't take it seriously, and after a few days, we went out to eat together, and she threw up again, and I didn't pay attention. In the end, it was my colleague's eldest sister who said that she vomited again, so I secretly told my girlfriend, whether there was one, she said it was impossible, I said, are you saying that I am not well, she smiled happily The next day I took her to have a check-up, and the result, you know, she took the color ultrasound list and I went home with me, and I cried, it was her birthday, and I couldn't tell if it was good or bad, she would cry and laugh, I was really happy.

I was pregnant that year, and I told my husband that my husband and my father-in-law were arguing about something. As soon as my husband heard that I was pregnant, he immediately raised his voice and said to my father-in-law, "I am now a father, and I am not allowed to yell at me in the future." The father-in-law replied coldly, "I'm a grandfather, are you talking to me too big or small?" ”

My husband first learned that I was pregnant and blurted out:"Hahaha! I'm going to be a son! I've got a dad! "A fool.

If you are prepared, it is a surprise, and if you are not prepared, you are frightened.