How can a breakup not hurt her? How can you not hurt each other after breaking up?

It really hurts me to see your question, and even though it's been two years since the incident, that pain can spread to every cell in the body.

My boyfriend was going to break up with me, but I was the last one to know! Almost all my friends around knew that he wanted to break up with me, and I was the only one who didn't know anything!

I didn't find out until a good friend accidentally slipped out in front of me.

That kind of pain. I don't want to describe it, I can't describe it, only people who have really hurt can understand it.

I'm really going to hate that person for the rest of my life, for the rest of my life.

I know that there will always be gatherings and scattering on the road of love, temper discord and wrong personality, or for any reason, you can break up, after all, it is an open society now, and there is no need to pay attention to what is from the beginning to the end, and it will never be swerved. So I don't hate him for breaking up with me. I hate his self-righteous kindness!

He said that he couldn't bear to say that he was afraid that I would be sad, and he said that he was afraid that I would have an overreaction, he said.

Radical reactions? Am I going to die? I'm not doing well right now! It's all an excuse!

Now it is often said that girls have become less simple, more realistic, and how they have changed.

I said, every girl is innocent at first! It's because men like you --- so cowardly that they may not be called men--- so they wrap their hearts!

I'm a little uneasy, and the words are messy.

Now I'll just say one thing to the questioner: if you feel that there is really no possibility of continuing with her, just tell her. There may be tears, there will be questions, and if she loves you very much, there may be a period of pain, but this is the most respectful way to respect her.

If your purpose isn't to take pleasure in hurting her, be straight to her.

I also hope that everyone who sees this post, whether men or women, will abide by this minimum moral rule in the love game: don't let him or her be the last to know.

You just say how many women you have been with and disgust him, and she will take the initiative to break up. So it's not you hurting her.

You have the courage to ask questions here, and you will be able to find satisfactory answers.

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All you can do is don't cheat and be honest with her and tell her that you don't love him anymore.

No one can walk away with it all unless they have never loved each other!

Since they're going to break up, why bother with her sadness, I hate men, and I want to make myself so guilty when I break up.

It depends on the woman's character.

Or be careful. To put it mildly.

1. You can send a message saying: I cherish the relationship between us, and I have worked hard to manage our relationship. Thank you so much for being able to change yourself for me, even a little change, I have already remembered it.

But I found that you were never the person I wanted. I'll admit, you've been nice enough to me, but I can't change what I'm subconscious about. You are not to blame for all this. It's just that I can't find that feeling in you.

2. Or you can say in a different tone: I thought about it for many days, and finally mustered up the courage to tell you something, and you may be sad to read the next content. It's like how I feel right now, but I still have to say it.

3You can say, I just want this relationship to leave good memories, you are very good, but we are not suitable after all, you can see it yourself. We always quarrel, and not a single day is peaceful.

If you want to break up without hurting the other party, I think it's very difficult, because you don't intend to hurt the other party, but the fact of breaking up has already hurt the other party, which can only reduce the damage, for example, you can have a good chat with him calmly.

In the early days of falling out of love, you are haunted by all kinds of things in the past. Deliberately suppressing it can only make you forget for a while, but the next day you open your eyes and come again. Is it really possible not to think about it if you don't think about it?

If you want to forget, can you really forget! The human mind is the most rebellious thing, and the more forced it is not to think about it, the more it cannot help but think; I want to forget, but I can't. Unless you have already practiced the kung fu of "the mind is like water", according to psychological research, temporarily suppressing emotions and suppressing thoughts will only make the next wave of emotions more painful when they return.