Every time I go out, I spend money, and I m a little unbalanced now

For example, if you see something you like and want to buy it, you tell him to buy it for you, but the premise is not too expensive, because after all, he has no job yet, or his father gave him money, and you just test him to be reluctant to spend money for you. There are also boys who love face, sometimes you don't stop him from paying in front of many people, if it's a small amount of money he wants to pay, let him pay, 2 people are together, there is no need to divide it too clearly.

He definitely has no income if he doesn't go to work, and it's a bit unreasonable to rely on his parents to pay money when he goes out of society as a boy. He doesn't have any money on him, so how can he pay for you when he goes out with you? In fact, the important thing is to see how he usually treats you, if he treats you well, he is willing to spend it for you when he has money, which is already good for you.

Do you suspect that he lied to you, what is he lying to you, and do you want you to pay for him when you eat with you, this really doesn't count. Of course, the most important thing depends on his actions, it can't be that he doesn't work all the time, so let's just spend it. If he is a motivated person, it is definitely not a way to go on like this, and he always has to plan for his future, plan, lie to you or not, but it is true that he feels unmotivated.

Learn more, look at the action, and then make a decision.

Hey, anyway, I don't like men to spend my money, and I don't want to spend men's money. Why didn't he look for a job? Can't find it? No way.

I think he's still not mature enough to be a man enough, it's not a question of whether he spends your money or not, it's a reflection in many ways.

I'm in a situation similar to your boyfriend, and I basically don't take the initiative to ask my family for money, but I don't go outside to borrow money, my girlfriend has been with me for a few years, I rarely spend money for her, and I can't afford to spend it for her now (I don't have a job yet) I want to spend it and earn it myself, if you really love him, it shouldn't be a problem, think about it.

Just because I didn't spend money on you doesn't mean I don't care about you.

It's not enough man, men can't be like this, if you are not willing to spend money on you, it will be too picky, if you say that it is okay to be thrifty on weekdays, but it is too uninteresting for men to be like this, you can't be like this to your girlfriend, the money you should spend must be spent, especially men. My boyfriend took advantage of the holidays to work to earn money to buy me clothes... I don't think he likes you enough, you have to think about it.

Upstairs, why do women spend men's money, especially men, that is, they can't find a girlfriend, and they can only use sugar-coated cannonballs to coax girls.

My ex-boyfriend is like this, but he's better than you, and he just asks for the AA system for everything. At that time, I was very embarrassed to say it, but when I broke up a long time later, I began to believe what my friends said to me at the time, "Boys are willing to spend money for you is really good for you, how many opportunities are there in this era to charge into battle and die, money is a person's lifeline, if he even gives you the root of his life, then he is really in love with you." A little sad words from the people who came over, I hope to help you.

This one?? Hehe, you can have a showdown with him... AA system: Ah.

If they all care, why don't you say it? Have a good talk about whether he doesn't want you to spend his money or doesn't love you at all.

The women's version of the ATM. Hehe, like a person, just like in the TV series, you have to see his strengths and weaknesses. Look at the relationship between the two and OK.

Tolerate him, find an opportunity to attack him fiercely (men are very adult-oriented) self-esteem.。。。 No more you know.

Ask yourself, is he worth it?

Because he thinks he is emotionally poverty alleviatory, it is a great gift to be willing to help you do things, and even be willing to be your boyfriend, and you dare to ask him to spend money on you?

In the future, he will directly AA system, he just knows that you can't wipe your face and will treat you like this, you have to be willing to enjoy the service of buying a male ji, just continue, don't complain, otherwise you won't pay the bill, what can he do to you? If a man treats you badly because you won't pay for him, does he love you or your money?

This kind of man is too picky. Be careful, break up with him quickly!

Don't worry, talk to him! This is already the kind that cares more about money than you, and would rather ask for money than you. And what you have shown many times is that you care about him so much that you would rather have him than money...

Such a man feels that he is really in it for money, so don't make any progress with him until you understand what he is really like.

Does he really like you?

Or do you think of you as his long-term meal ticket?

There's really no way for a man to do that.

Or he's really hard, then at least take the initiative to pay a few times, you really have to think about whether to be with him, it's unpleasant, and when you go out with your friends in the future, where will you put your face.

Think about it and wish you happiness.

hehe, you just said that you didn't bring it, if he didn't bring it either, don't buy it, just walk there and talk about it, ah, true feelings don't cost money.

Say what you think and talk to him.

Break up with him. He's so irresponsible.

Break up, he doesn't like you at all, it's just for your money, this kind of man should break up early.

The cost you out, it's normal. Unless you're not a man, you have to think about it, your girlfriend is still a student, where is the money, you have money, of course you have to come out, if it were me, I would also find money. To be a man, don't care too much about those, you must be generous to show your man's charm.

Do you think she's interested in your money?

If you go out to play, she rushes to pay. Do you think you're going to lose face or something?

And if you pay it out, she wants to pay you back, do you take it or not?

You are afraid that if there is no result in the end, your investment will be blind, and you are not pure love. Congratulations on having a meal ticket, congratulations on having a 'cannon' friend. Haha......

Of course, boys should take money for meals or something, but if the amount of money is more, it's better to AA system, although girls should be spoiled, but they should also be independent.

I think you're making a bit of a fuss! Or maybe you didn't think of her as your girlfriend!

You said she was a student. Damn, you're a little selfish.

I don't know if I misunderstood.

You are not hopeful.

When you both ml.

She throws you 50 bucks.

You're happy.

What do you think you think about it? Do you know how many people are willing to spend money, but no one can mluck them?

First of all, if you think she is not good, why do you want to be with her, then have you said that your family background is not good either? Every time you spend so much, she may think that you have money, and besides, she orders so many dishes and takes them home, I think maybe she wants her family to taste the delicious food.

I don't go to work, maybe because I can't find a good one, or for some other reason. If the character is okay, I think she is a girl who is not good at expression, you may look at it from another angle, if it is really for your money, then it is better to break up, so that the future will not be happy.

Your requirements are not high, and I am very considerate of you, "Even if she threw me a coin on the bus, I feel very happy". I can't help but feel a little chilled when I hear it.

So people need to understand each other when they are in love, I'm afraid that whoever is with such a girl can't stand it, if she's really difficult, but it doesn't necessarily have even the money to throw coins.

Love is originally sweet, it is mutual giving, and it is also mutual understanding, you spend your parents' money during school, and their money is not blown by the wind, it is their hard-earned money. Didn't she stop you when you ordered?

If her life is really difficult, she can't get used to seeing you being so extravagant, and she will definitely stop you from spending money. So of course you're going to be unbalanced right now. Originally, I should pay for my girlfriend, but I always feel that I can't accept your pay.

How do you go down, think about it yourself, love is sweet, but I can't see your love ** makes you happy.

The conditions of her own family are not good, but she likes to spend money lavishly when she is with you, and she is obviously unwilling to work and go to work because of your money, which shows that she likes to work hard.

It stands to reason that the family conditions are not good, and the girl should know the importance of money, why is she unwilling to make money by herself? Not to mention giving you flowers, at least when I miss you, I can have the money to take a car to see you and give you surprise!

But you have spoken, and she hasn't acted yet, which means that she is waiting to be a second wife and be raised.

It's better to break free as soon as possible and look down on such a woman.

When a girl falls in love with a guy and wants to start a family with him, she will unconsciously start to think about the other person.

Actually, you also have a problem:

With so many dishes ordered at every meal, you can also say no. It's not a matter of face to say what she thinks, and it's just a good time to try her ideas.

When I ordered, I ordered enough food to eat, and tried to propose cheap transportation.

If you don't say it, how will others know what you think?

If this normal offer always causes her displeasure, then, I suggest - for the sake of your future happiness, find a good girl who is sincere to you.

I think you'd better forget it.

That woman treats you as a king at all!

Do you think about her ever affection for you?

It's better to dump her than to be a fool!

And you have to think about the future, if it goes on like this.

Will you have it in the future?

My sister is the same, I pay for takeout, eating, and going to the supermarket, and she is nine years older than me, I don't know what to say, and I really spend a lot of money with her.

It's okay, there are losses and gains. Although you suffer a loss. But if you challenge your mentality, you'll gain more than you lose. It doesn't necessarily pay off right away, it promises to be in the future. Your mindset will reward you.

AA system, brothers still settle accounts! But it can also depend on your mind, and it doesn't matter if you want to invite it, after all, you are sisters!

Pretend to go to the bathroom and run when you're almost done.

They are all sisters, so there is no need to worry so much.

It's all a family, talk to her, it's really not good, coquettish.

It is believed that under normal circumstances, most of the people in love have a process of active pursuit and passive acceptance.

Due to the different physical and psychological differences between men and women, most boys take the initiative to pursue girls, expecting girls to accept this love.

Before the girls fully accepted the formation of a family, most of them were boys who unilaterally gave non-stop material and emotional contributions.

This phenomenon is not confined to the most intelligent humans, but even in the animal world.

The active courtship party will often use food and nesting to show favor to the opposite sex, and even the male mantis will use his body to make the female mantis hungry after getting love.

Therefore, it should be normal for the man to spend more money when looking for a girlfriend.

Of course, if your girlfriend really loves you, you can clearly explain to her the financial embarrassment and worry, maybe she won't mind, and even take the initiative to support you.

Abnormal. First of all, an equal love relationship is mutual, both men and women will pay, not only feelings but also money, just like why some are responsible for buying a house and some are responsible for decoration when they get married, not to mention who is big and who is small, but they will pay for each other.

Secondly, let's see if your girlfriend is really useless except for being coquettish and cute? This should be judged rationally, don't be too macho, everything doesn't necessarily have to be swollen and fat, because women are far more shrewd than you think, the answer is a lady, there are also cases around me who spent boyfriend money during college, treated boyfriend as a slave, and studied hard to get the final score of the scholarship, of course, there are also men and women who put their living expenses together and dispose of them together, spend more money, spend less money, basically the latter really wants to be with you for a long time, the former is to play with you, Because college time is so boring, I use you to pass the time.

Finally, since you are still a freshman, then put your mind on studying, even if you take her to see the prosperity of the world, there is someone else who accompanies you on the stove in the end.

Abnormal. But spending money with a girlfriend is also normal for Chinese people.

The first is that you have to pursue a girl, you have to pay, and the most direct withdrawal is to spend money.

2. If there are two AA systems, it is estimated that I will not come out with you next time.

3. If a girl spends your money, she will also feel guilty and get closer to being your girlfriend.

4. Withdraw your generousness.

I don't think that's a normal thing. Men and women should have a certain amount of effort in their interactions. Whether it's in terms of money or feelings.

Every time you go out to play, you spend money, and I don't think I'm going to sit idly by as a girl. Even if a girl can spend less money on the one side in love, it is definitely not without money. Therefore, both sides must have a certain amount of economic contribution.

Instead of relying only on boys to spend money. So I think as a guy, you should let your girlfriend spend some money appropriately, but not too much. As a girl, I'm okay with spending money in a relationship.