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You're still friends even though you're not in the same city! As long as you care about each other and keep in touch with each other, then even on two sides of the earth, your hearts are together.
When people are big, many people will change. Maybe you don't feel it right now. Many times, do the people you care about really care about you?
We don't know this, but slowly you will know who cares about you and who doesn't. So separation is not always bad, and if the relationship is really there, it will not change because of separation.
It is enough to have a confidant in life. Do you understand? Many things look away, and time passes, and maybe they will come back to the original point. If you don't come back, then you don't have to care too much, it can only show that the person you care about, he doesn't care about you.
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"Romance of the Three Kingdoms" said at the beginning that the world must be divided for a long time, and it must be divided for a long time, so it is right to say that it is right to divide and combine. It's normal for you and your friends to be separated temporarily, and we'll meet again in the future. Later, they may be separated and reunited, which is normal, nothing to be sad about.
Do you think, even if life and death are parted, isn't there an afterlife?
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This doesn't mean that you can't be together when you work and study, even if you are not in the same city, you are still friends, as long as you care about each other's connection, then even the two sides of the earth are together.
I have experience, I have left my home for about 5 years, but my good friend and I have not changed, she is in this place, I am in another place, I only call home once a week, and it will be about 20 minutes at most, but the number of times I call this friend and meet on the Internet are more than at home. So it's the same feeling as when I was here, when I came home for the Chinese New Year, I saw her, and I knew what she did yesterday, not because I was around, but because we were in constant contact.
In addition, when people are big, many people will change. Maybe you don't feel it now, for example, if you see the famous Zhuang or not. Said there.
Outsiders who mess with my brother will be killed, and if my brother messes with my brother, he will be killed. How many people do you think you can do to make a name for yourself? If you had asked me 10 years ago, I would have said that there were 4, but 10 years later, I realized that only one person is worth it, and the other 3 are actually not worth it.
Because we have all grown up, many times, do the people you care about psychologically really care about you? We don't know this, and you will know who cares about you and who doesn't. So when separation is not bad, if the relationship is really there, it will not change because of separation, I have been gone for 5 years, and when I come back, that friend is still there.
I know she's my friend for life and I won't lose her. So it's all worth it, and it's enough for people to say that they are a confidant. Do you understand?
Many things look away, and time passes, and maybe they will come back to the original point. If you don't come back, then you don't care too much, it can only show that the people you care about are not the people who care about you.
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Of course, after the National People's Congress, they have to start a family and start a business
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Because old friends are gone, there are new friends, don't be sad, you can still meet new friends, old friends should also be in touch often.
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There will come a day, one day maybe there will be another person who asks the same question as you, who made us grow up??
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What kind of friend are you talking about??
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If you want to be with your friend forever, please keep your distance, because always being too close will cause you to have distance and estrangement. I strongly agree with the saying: "If you are with your friend, don't just think that you are right, when you have a verbal dispute over this, then you must be proud, even if you have won for a while, but you have lost this friend forever!"
So, if you decide that a person is a friend you want to make in this life, then treat him with a sincere heart, don't leave him when he is sad, and be happy with him when he is happy. When he forsaken you, you must not forsake him. Because from the very beginning you have told yourself that he is your friend.
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Because it's compatible. Besides, the subject is also a strange question, can there only be love between men and women and not friendship? If you are not together, there is no love; And to be friends, that's because of friendship, there is no contradiction at all.
How many men and women in this world are each other's confidants, they don't talk about love with each other, they don't talk about love, but they can go deep into each other's hearts and understand all the desires and hopes of each other, this kind of relationship is no worse than love.
Since you like it and can't be together, it's better to let go and only be friends with each other. Only by letting go can you embrace true happiness, and only by letting go, can you learn how to cherish the people in front of you. Besides, you don't have to have to have it if you like it, and it's a kind of happiness to let go.
If one day you are ready to let go, you must remember to keep your distance from the other person and stop thinking about it, otherwise it will only make both of you very embarrassed.
Many people who break up always have wounds that are difficult to heal, and the reason is that they can't let go of their ex, live in the past, let themselves not want to wake up in their dreams, and always think that there is still a chance to redeem their ex and continue to hold hands. But forget that you are no longer lovers, but the most familiar strangers, those memories that stay in dreams, have long been fragmented, lost perfection, but you don't want to admit it. You know, say goodbye to the wrong, in order to meet the right.
Knowing that it is impossible and there is no result, he still secretly thinks about it in his heart, his mouth is hard, and he thinks about 10,000 shortcomings of the other party, but like a child with amnesia, he looks for traces of it, opens his mobile phone, and recalls bits and pieces alone. Life often jokes with us, who you expect, who you like, who will leave you, the more persistent you hold onto, the deeper you will hurt yourself in the end.
If you want me to see it, the only thing that can make you completely let go is time and new love. Among them, the new love treats the symptoms, and the time cures the root cause, if these two add up and can't let you go, it can only mean that the time is not long enough and the new love is not good enough.
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Because I still can't let go of the other party, I choose to stay by the other party's side in another way, and there is a fair and honest reason to help the other party.
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If you can't be a lover, you can become a friend, which may be a psychological comfort. Even if you can't use it together, it's comforting to be able to accompany each other.
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Love doesn't mean you have to be together. Even if you know that you can't be together, being a friend and staying by each other's side to help and support, and silently watching each other by your side, this is called love.
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It may be that you want to stay by your side, and then see if there is a chance, and if you have the opportunity, you can replace that person and successfully change your identity.
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Because I know that I can't be together, I use my identity as a friend to be by each other's side, silently guarding him and her, and it is enough to see each other happy.
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It may be that the three views are relatively similar, and they also have common interests and hobbies, and they can't be together, and it doesn't mean that they must never see each other, become strangers, and it's okay to be friends.
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Because one more friend, one more spare tire. This is how the spare tire grows. It only depends on how you feel about the relationship.
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Because friends can always be in touch, they can always see each other, even if they are not together, our relationship will not change, even if we have a significant other, we are still friends and can still greet each other.
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Because it's easy to get along as a friend, if you don't succeed in changing your confession, you probably won't even have to be a friend, so I'll be by my side as a friend.
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Because feelings are irrepressible, most people can't be so rational, and there are always fantasies and luck in their hearts, so they are still friends.
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There are very few people who can be friends.
It's not that it can't, it's not recommended.
1, the first thing is to consider the current one, the man is more or less a big man, his girlfriend and other men, he doesn't like it, let alone take office in advance.
2. Even if he doesn't care, you have to know and think about it, there is no need to bring such hidden dangers. He loves you, and you love him, so...
3, since he is the predecessor, no matter how good and warm he is, he is the predecessor. Don't think about it, what happened in the first place, because of small problems and misunderstandings. You have to know that everything has been divided, which means that you still have problems, whether it is communication, trust, or whatever.
4, he's good, he misses you. It's all him, what about you? What is your role in the two relationships? Do you regret it, the current one is a spare tire?
5, get together and disperse, everyone is well!
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If you don't love, you can't become friends, because you have hurt each other, and you can't become enemies, because you have loved each other deeply.
In the end, they will become familiar strangers, and they will have reserved a place in each other's hearts, hidden in that corner, afraid to touch, covered with dust.
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It is impossible to truly love.
If you still love it, you will want to reconcile, impossible.
If you don't love it, both parties will be embarrassed.
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Hehe, I really love each other, and I don't even have to be friends.
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If you really like him, just chase it, don't let happiness pass by, even if you can't be together again in the end, then you have worked hard, and you have no regrets. From your words, he should still have feelings for you, the reason why he will go on a blind date with you is generally two, one is that he can't let go of you, the other is that he wants to take revenge on you, as for which, it means that he still has feelings for you, if there is no emotion, he will not appear in front of you again today, go chase it, recover the love that belongs to you. Don't be shy, tell him what you say, he will be moved, stalk and sympathize if necessary, if he really loves you, he will be reluctant to let you be like this, if you don't love it, then forget it.
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Since it's impossible, you don't have to spend too much time and energy, so as not to leave a painful memory.
A stupid person, falling in love with a married man, nothing good, all the ends are self-inflicted, think about it, you should blame yourself, divide it, don't think about things that have no results, if you know that you can't do it, I think you can only describe it as stupid.