I know it s impossible to be together, but I can t be separated, what should I do?

A stupid person, falling in love with a married man, nothing good, all the ends are self-inflicted, think about it, you should blame yourself, divide it, don't think about things that have no results, if you know that you can't do it, I think you can only describe it as stupid.

Fate is like this, providence makes people! However, you still have to be practical, the matter has come to this point, you have to think more about your future, don't ruin your lifelong happiness because of a momentary mood! Everyone is an adult, so it's better to be less naïve and plan more for yourself!

Also, you have to understand that to love someone is to make him happy.

Wishing you happiness!

What shouldn't have started in the first place, don't be a spurned third party who destroys other people's families. Pursue your own happiness, and don't contact any more.

Find a boyfriend and start a sunny relationship. In fact, you just enjoy the feeling of being in love.

It's because he's a married man that you have to cut off all possible contacts.

This kind of love is fruitless, you have to find a new relationship!

It shouldn't have started in the first place.

He can't promise you anything.

I'm in love with you.

Delay your youth.

At the same time, he betrayed his family.

Such a man is actually irresponsible.

Is it true love? Can men do it at the same time?

You'd better get a boyfriend as soon as possible

He shouldn't have started a wife in the first place.

What to do is not good,,Non-to be a third party... Cut... Look down on you ...

It's short, silly girl, why don't you look for me.

It doesn't sound logical that you can't be rich enough to be extravagant.

He likes to take advantage of small things, and so do you.

That's because you haven't let go of each other in your heart, and it takes time. <> your feet will remember the path you have walked. Those who have loved will also be remembered by their hearts.

Sometimes when you fall in love with an impossible person, the biggest regret is not that you can't get it, but that you can't bear it! Sometimes you let go of something, not because you're suddenly willing to give up, but because the deadline is up and you know it's time to turn the page. It's not that I can't let go, but I can't give it up.

After going through ups and downs, we can't be together after all. Every time I think of you, my heart hurts like a knife! Some encounters, either too early or too late, I really want to cherish every encounter, every scenery, every heart, every person who has accompanied me all my life.

However, a person's affection for another person may be an episode in life, not ruthless and ungrateful, but fateful. What you desperately want to forget, you will never forget. Missing someone is painful, but missing someone is also sweet.

But in fact, anyone in this world can live well without it. If you don't let go, move on with your life. Over time, you will feel that although you have not forgotten this person, you are no longer interested in everything about this person and have nothing to do with you.

There is a song called "The Price of Love", which was written by Li Zongsheng to his sister. Li Zongsheng said: "I don't dare to teach people how to love, because every love is unique.

The song was originally sung by Zhang Aijia.

Personally, I like this line from this song very much: "Maybe I still think of him occasionally, and occasionally I will inevitably think about him, just like he is an old friend, which also makes me feel distressed and worrying." It's just that there is no spark in my heart anymore, let the past go with the wind!

People must learn to grow on their own, and there will inevitably be hardships in life. Let's find another home for the heart. I have also cried sadly, and I have been heartbroken.

This is the price of love. ”

You can divert your attention, you can go to work every day, and put all your thoughts on work, you can get a good solution, you can also let go, you can travel.

The reason why you can't let go is because you have given your sincerity in this relationship, and you are very reluctant; In such a situation, you should communicate accordingly, explain what the two people think, weigh the pros and cons before making the corresponding decision.

It's because you can't let go of him in your heart that he still likes each other and wants to be with each other, that's why it's like this; If you don't encounter such a situation in the process, you must tell yourself that it is impossible for two people to be together, and being together is just a waste of time and feelings, so let yourself go.

Because two people have been together for a long time, they have given a lot of true feelings to each other, and they are very happy in this relationship, so there are some things that they can't let go. Don't continue to think about this relationship after the breakup, you should start a new relationship or keep yourself busy, you can do something you like to do to regulate your mood.

In love life, incompatibility is actually the norm, because everyone's personality, conditions, and three views are different, so it is impossible for two people to be completely suitable together, and they insist on being together because they like each other. If a person looks for a partner with an attitude of "must be suitable", it is basically impossible to find, otherwise why does everyone say that the relationship needs to be "run-in"? It's because there is no love in the world that doesn't need to be run-in

First of all, some couples will have conflicts and quarrels because of various things together, and some are even serious enough to fight or have moral problems, but two people finally choose to be together, this situation is often said to be "Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai", although this is not a correct value, but feelings and life are personal, no matter what choices others make, they are "like people drinking water and knowing themselves".

Secondly, let's talk about the word "suitable", we can see ourselves as a puzzle, a lot of chicken soup for the soul tells everyone to find a puzzle that exactly matches themselves, if you can really find it, then congratulations on meeting the person you are destined to do, but if you don't meet it, don't be discouraged, because this is the norm.

Our various qualities, personalities, and three views are not completely correct, so we don't need to stubbornly insist, correct our own incorrectness, and correct the other party's incorrectness in time.

In the end, most people actually know that it is impossible for them to find a suitable other half without changing themselves, so everyone is holding the attitude of making two people better, slowly growing up with each other in contradictions and quarrels, and getting closer and closer, this is what a good relationship should look like, rather than getting along with the mentality of "seeking common ground without reserving differences".

It may be because of companionship, two people have had a lot of good experiences, they can accept that they don't like each other, and it may be that they have put in too much energy and feel that it is not cost-effective to separate.

Because you believe that you will break all prejudices and come together in the end, you are together without hesitation.

Because of the luck mentality, I feel that I can overcome all the difficulties by relying on my own persistence, but in fact it is really difficult to overcome.

It is normal that the relationship problem itself is not rational, otherwise there would not be so many grievances and hatreds.

Fate is coming, it can't be stopped, fate is scattered, and there is no chance to stay. Human feelings are the most complex, and many times they are not transferred by the will of the individual.

Knowing that it is impossible, it means that I know very well in my heart that I can't let it go, it can only mean that there is not enough injury, and the pain is not deep enough. Ever heard such a story?

A bitter man finds a monk to confide in him.

The monk said, "There's nothing you can't put down." ”

He said, "I just can't let go of these things and people." ”

The monk told him to hold a teacup, and then poured hot water into it until it overflowed.

The sufferer was burned and immediately let go of his hand.

The monk said: "There is nothing in this world that you can't let go, and when it hurts, you will naturally let go." ”

Giving and taking, always complement each other, here is not giving, then in other places there will be no gain, nostalgia here, will miss there, we often say that you can't miss a forest because of a tree, that's what it means.

The person who loves you more is still waiting for you in another place, when do you want this person to wait? Will you feel guilty one day?

The Buddha said that giving is gaining, gaining is giving, thinking about it, enlightening, naturally let go. Best wishes!

Sadness is always easy to be engraved in people's hearts, because this sadness has long been imprinted in the depths of the heart, hopelessly. I feel that there is a kind of love that will be buried in people's hearts, and I can't forget it for a long time, one is "not getting", and the other is "lost" you and I love each other, the purpose is to drink happily and enjoy this life, but the world is unpredictable, the fate is shallow and deep, and in the end it may not be able to escape the fortune of separation. This became an attachment in my heart, and this love became a catastrophe in my heart.

When there is a certain distance between you, you place more important imagination on him, and most of his ideas for the future are idealized, and some good wishes with unclear conclusions. But when everyone is really walking together, zero distance contact, you will find that the ideal is very colorful, the helplessness of life, the original good wishes become a bubble, with the acquaintance, acquaintance continues to increase and destroy, at this moment you don't want to have the feeling now.

Therefore, don't overthink the relationship between the two, do your best to consider the reality of the situation, calm down, and your wishes will not be so obvious. Naturally, it takes time to help yourself. In today's era, countless college students are in school, and the ideal result is to start their own business and get married together after graduation.

When it really came to graduation and faced with a choice, it was another time when thousands of college students broke up. Ideal differences, proximity to home, regions thousands of kilometers apart, parents' hopes for these.

These are all sufficient reasons for the end of the relationship, and the beautiful old days of love have made it eternal and unchanging on campus. The complexity and contradiction of human emotions are reflected in the relationship between men and women. In particular, they all respect and love each other, basically because of this or that objective or subjective factor that causes separation, but they always can't let go of their hearts, and even if they still think about her after many years.

Even if the two sides have their own worlds, the nostalgia is always difficult to let go.

This is because you love each other too much in your heart, you want to marry each other too much, and you want to have a home, so you can't let go of each other.

Maybe it's because I still like each other very much, I don't know how to let go, I am more persistent in my feelings, and I'm a little unwilling.

It may be because you love each other too much, you have a certain obsession with each other, and you will feel that you are particularly unwilling.

If you don't love, you won't insist on it like this, and unwillingness accounts for the majority. Sometimes I insist on it even when I know it's impossible.