Which do you think is more important in marriage?

If the background is different, if two people love each other enough and understand each other in life, there is not much of a problem. But if the three views are different, there will be disagreements and contradictions over time, the number of quarrels will become more and more intense, and they will not be used to each other, then the relationship and even the marriage will have problems sooner or later. It's purely a personal opinion, and I hope to laugh at it.

I think it's really difficult to go long-term if the three views don't agree, and the material also has to look at the ability. Don't be in a hurry to find a partner and the subject himself should also enrich himself, you will have more, and you will naturally know what you want.

I think you have an advantage on the material level. The point is that you can accept that the conditions are poor. Some of the three views will not give much consideration to the material. But I personally can still get by materially, and then I have to combine the three views. Which one the subject pays more attention to, choose which one.

I think it doesn't matter if the life background is different, love should be the right one. However, the difference in the three views will cause contradictions in life and often quarrel. The three views are the same, but they are relative.

I think that two people have different views and different backgrounds, and they have to be together, that is a simple patchwork, this is not a tangram, the background can be different, but the three views, this is the emotional foundation of two people together.

First of all, I will ask whether the conditions are valid, and the different growth backgrounds may not necessarily have different views. secondly, if the three views are really different, the gap is small, and we can work together to adjust; If the gap is large or if two people are unwilling to make concessions for each other, the likelihood of happiness is slim.

I think if it's a wealthy family, then nothing is a problem, but if it's an ordinary family, then you have to think twice, at least the three views should be the same.

I looked at your family background, I think, since you have independent conditions, a car and a house, to tell the truth, don't look for a blind date with debts and poor conditions.

So the specific analysis of specific things, I want to see what kind of person it is, the person who is right but can't give you happiness is not necessarily the right choice, and the wrong person is not necessarily unproductive.

Family background determines the three views.

I think it's very important; Because the family background largely determines the personality, habits, and way of thinking of both parties, it will affect the future relationship.

Personally, I think it's very important; Because of the family background of two people, if they are not the same, there may be a lot of quarrels, and two people are unhappy together.

Personally, I think that family background is indeed very important, because if the family background of two people is different, if the gap is too big, there will be a lot of friction after marriage, and life will be very difficult.

It doesn't matter, because two people can struggle slowly after being together, they can't blindly rely on the family, two people have to learn to be independent, and family background doesn't determine anything.

Very important; Because only two families are the right family, there will be a similar three views, and there will be a lot of common topics, the two families will become harmonious, if the gap between the two families is too large, there will be an unequal relationship, more likely to produce conflicts.

I don't think it matters; As long as the two of you are genuinely in love, there won't be much of a problem.

I thought of this topic because I have observed that there are many people who do not believe in marriage and family in their hearts.

They don't believe that they can fall in love with one person, stay with each other, laugh at their early lives, and create a warm and beautiful family together.

I don't believe that marriage and love can go together, and I don't believe that I can get emotional satisfaction in marriage.

So why even get married?

Most likely, the reason is that hoisting the sails is a social requirement. It is normal for a person to get married and have children, the culture defaults to the rules, and it is not even thought that there is any other choice. Otherwise, it will be an outlier and face tremendous pressure.

So after getting married, when the marriage is different from what they think, many girls put their minds on their children, while boys put all their energy on work, hobbies or others.

So what should a happy family look like?

We grew up in an environment where we could only observe the way our parents got along with each other, and the marital status of few people around us, and the sample size was very small. So, we thought that marriage was what we saw.

In fact, it was only after watching Yongfu Village that I had a perfect marriage in my mind and an understanding of what a happy family should look like.

It turns out that a family can be so loving and warm, the relationship between husband and wife can be so beautiful, and so much love flows in the family.

Yongfu Village believes that a good husband and wife have three layers of relationship.

First of all, friends, you can talk about various problems together, ** all kinds of topics, and get along like friends.

The second layer is the relationship between lovers, who have always maintained the sweetness of being in love, and can treat each other very carefully.

The third layer is the relationship between partners, as a partner, we will build the family well, build the family's financial ability and anti-risk ability together, do a good job in the education of children together, go up with the family, and take the children to the wider world.

There was a ZTE programmer before, because he was fired from the company, so he jumped off the building to commit suicide, in fact, this is because the family's ability to resist risks is not good enough, he is the only economic pillar of the family, and the job is the only income, when he loses, he feels that there is no way to go forward, the family did not give him good support, not a strong backing, he lost the hope of life.

These three-tier relationship is the point of view in Yongfu Village, and they are very, very agreeable, and very envious, and they do just that.

I'm with you, we're two separate individuals, but we're deeply connected. We strive to move forward hand in hand, and we can also learn from each other.

Mr. Song and I are far from being able to do this now, but I believe in marriage and believe that we can do it. Now that we know what the good looks like, and where we should work hard, we can improve and find ways to do better.

If you don't believe in your heart, you will go in the direction of not believing.

So what you can be and what kind of life you can live is ultimately a matter of what you believe.

So, what is your view of marriage and family?

You are a very traditional and conservative girl, you think that marriage is a major event in life, you must be blessed by your parents, you don't want your marriage to be based on money and profit, you think that such a marriage is immoral. Your requirements for marriage are very simple, as long as the other party is good to you and can give you enough security and happiness, this is enough, as for your family, they can't interfere with your marriage, you don't need to interfere with their marriage, you feel that as long as your family is happy, your marriage is happy, so your attitude towards marriage is to go with the flow. "You are a very traditional girl, you think that the family is a very important part, you don't want your parents to interfere too much in your marriage, you think that the interference of your parents will make your marriage unhappy, so your attitude towards marriage is to go with the flow. ”

When you get married, you still have to consider the family background of the other half.

1.If your family conditions are much better than the other party (for example, they are not of the same class), if you really want to live for a long time, you must consider the way to get along in the later stage, and don't give the other party a feeling of arrogance. The other party's family conditions are very poor, and I am working hard, are you willing to help him and the whole family?

2.If your own family conditions are much worse than the other party, can you and your family accept the differences brought about by completely different life experiences, and is there a natural sense of superiority of the other party?

3.If the strength of the two families is equal, and the cultivation of character is also comparable, in fact, they want to compare better, and it is a combination of light travel, so they can work forward without any worries.

As for what kind of family background will make me reconsider marriage, in fact, the wealth value of family background is one thing, and the quality of concept is also very important.

Can two people with different life backgrounds and different views be happy in marriage? Most people believe that it is difficult to achieve happiness in a marriage where the couple's views are not the same. I also admit this phenomenon, but what I want to say today is that the inconsistent views of husband and wife may not be the cause of unhappy marriage, but it must be a manifestation of unhappy husband and wife.

Today we are going to discuss this issue together. If you can be happy, you will be very happy. That's the case in our family.

I married the teacher's daughter, and the teacher recognized me at that time. We got married, and then we fell in love. After getting married, I found out that my three views were completely inconsistent with my daughter-in-law.

My wife likes to dress up, she is cheerful, virtuous and hardworking. And I'm relatively dull, old-fashioned, and a bit machismo.

<>I'm a person who doesn't support oil bottles. But after living with my daughter-in-law, I found that my daughter-in-law is a very simple person. I remember that shortly after I got married, my daughter-in-law didn't make dumplings.

I was downstairs playing chess. My daughter-in-law asked me to go home and make dumplings. I don't eat dumplings anymore.

My daughter-in-law got angry and quarreled with me. She was beating her daughter-in-law and suddenly stopped. She touched her ears and the earrings disappeared.

I found the earrings, and my daughter-in-law went home to make dumplings. Slowly, one of my rural children got used to his wife's red and green clothes. The daughter-in-law lives carefully, and I believe in living in the present, so the economic power of the family is handed over to the daughter-in-law.

As far as I'm concerned, I can't say I'm unhappy, I can only say I'm tired, because two people who grew up in different families, two people who grew up in different educational environments, two people with different personalities, two people who were originally unfamiliar with their fates came together and became husbands and wives themselves, and it took time to run in and fail. There will be a lot of disagreements in the course of life. Then this disagreement may involve the divergence of these three views.

What should I do when this kind of acorn situation happens!?

Either quarrel, fight to win, or one side compromises. At most, it's a few days of cold war, sulking, and then life has to go on. So in my opinion, the discord between the three views is not a big deal.

It's all gone, after all, happiness is the majority. There are two outcomes for the husband and wife to be inconsistent with each other. One is unhappiness, stubbornness and non-integration, which hurts both husband and wife.

Over time, the rift between each other will get deeper and deeper. The original three views are inconsistent, and there are two forms of a family. It is not conducive to marriage itself, nor is it conducive to family education, and may affect the future and character of children.

Yes, there will be a clear understanding, these are what you should really consider, you can judge to look at the other party's family relationship, you can also argue to see the other party's personality three views. There is also character.

Before getting married, I don't think about any family background, nor do I consider cultural background, as long as the two of them really love each other and really go to Blind Congratulations together. If you say this, you can be very happy, and this marriage will be very happy.

Before getting married, you also need to consider the family background and cultural background, after all, the gap between the two people is too big, and the family background and cultural background are too different, then there will be contradictions in the future when the marriage is envy.

It should be considered, especially when there is a conflict of interest between the two parties, the level of family culture and brotherhood is more important.

Yes, because these things will determine a person's character, and the harmony of two people's personalities is more important in marriage.

Family background and cultural background are indeed real things to consider before marriage. Because in this way, you can fully understand the situation of the other party.

Nowadays, family factors are one of the important considerations for young people when they fall in love. With the rapid development of society, more and more young people are concerned about their partner's family background and economic strength. However, family background and economic strength, as an important factor in a relationship, will have a certain impact on young people's love.

1.It is more difficult to get along.

When two people with a large gap in family background and economic strength are in a relationship, it is easy to have some obstacles, such as communication difficulties, different values, and so on. This will affect the relationship between the two, making it more difficult for the two to interact with each other, and they will not be able to deal with emotional problems well.

2.Different lifestyles.

People with different family backgrounds and economic power often have different lifestyles. This could include different hobbies, entertainment options, travel plans, and even different expectations for holidays and celebrations. As a result, it can sometimes be difficult to reach a common opinion and agreement.

3.Affect each other's psychological and self-worth.

Some people with family background and economic strength advantages are prone to feelings of vanity, superiority, and arrogance as a result of these advantages, and sometimes this emotion can have a bad impact on a romantic relationship. On the other hand, if the other partner feels inferior and uneasy, it may lead to an increase in psychological burden and a decrease in the ability to deal with a failed relationship.

4.The problem of money perception.

The gap in family background and financial economic power will definitely have a big impact on the concept of money. When a person's economic environment at home is different, they cannot have the same way of thinking about money and how they use it. If in a relationship, both parties have different ideas about money, there will be more conflicts and disputes.

To sum up, family background and economic power disparities can have a variety of effects in a relationship. However, it is important to note that these effects are not absolute, and everyone should treat the relationship partner equally. Only by being open and honest with each other and establishing shared values can we truly address these challenges and build a healthy relationship.