What would you do if someone you respect said something unexpected?

I am a very civilized person, I respect the person must be the kind of person who usually pays great attention to his words and deeds, if he suddenly swears, it must be in the case of extreme anger in the heart can't help but burst into foul language, I will show understanding, and will also pick a time when he is in a better mood, euphemistically remind him that he has said swear words before, and he will pay attention in the future.

Then I will change from the original respect to spit, because I think this kind of person is not worthy of my respect, I imagined in my heart that he was perfect, she was flawless, I didn't expect him to be so poor, and he swore dirty, causing me to lose my fans, and I would not continue to be his fan.

I would tell him, it's not right for you to say that, because I'm a more direct person, and if he says a dirty thing that I don't like, I'll go back to him on the spot and tell him it's not right. I think he's going to correct himself because of the advice I said.

Nowadays, the pressure of society is relatively high, and people have to deal with many problems every day. If he really swears because of some special problems, I don't think it's a big deal.

Talking dirty doesn't mean there's something wrong with his character. Speaking, just a casual thing, is also an expression of emotions in the moment.

A person I respect very much said an unexpected swear word, I should have been very confused, I won't do anything, the whole person is in a very surprised state, but I will quickly adjust, if this matter, the person I respect is indeed very wronged or hurt, I don't think there is anything after all.

When someone I thought I respected very much suddenly said something I didn't expect, I would first be very surprised, after all, swearing is uncivilized, and for a moment I would even think that he was not worthy of my respect, because to say to others, swearing is a sign of disrespect for others, and people who do not respect others are not worthy of my respect.

If I respect someone very much and say something unexpected, I will not express my surprise and dissatisfaction on the spot, I will just look at her quietly, and then think to myself that we want him to be such a person, and my impression of him has changed a lot, and I feel that he is not a person worthy of my respect.

In fact, I can understand that after all, no one is a saint, and there are times when I can't control my emotions, and it is not wrong to release stress through this method once in a while, and it will not affect his image in my heart.

Because respect is given to him by me, he can make mistakes once in a while, and it shouldn't be exactly the way I imagined.

I think this has to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, if it is really some, it is particularly uncomfortable. Or in a particularly infuriating situation, I think that's acceptable. But if it's a very common scene of swearing, I don't think it's acceptable.

Because she's someone I respect after all.