What do you think are some things you can t say in the dormitory?

For example, I am your father, I am your father, this paragraph must not be said openly, because it will trigger the other party's response to you, and he will strongly argue about such a fact, in fact, you just know it in your heart, and this thing is also tacit to each other.

I think it's just that I don't like anyone, this type of words, because I think that in the dormitory is a very gossip concentration place, saying this type of words, it will be more like chewing the root of the tongue behind the back, I think this kind of behavior is not good, so in the dormitory, I think this type of words, resolutely can't say.

The dormitory is a communal living environment, and although everyone is very close, there are still some things to say and some things not to say.

Everyone's family background is different, and everyone comes from all over the world. When you live in a dormitory, the last thing you should talk about is to evaluate a person's family and parents because of what they wear. Have you experienced it when you were a child, although we are sometimes ignorant, but when we hear a classmate say how our parents are, I am very annoyed and want to go up and slap him.

Therefore, I think that a person's family environment, whether good or bad, should not be the focus of other people's discussions, because others are not qualified to say it.

I don't think you should elevate yourself by stepping on others in the dormitory. Because I think such people are annoying. And you can't always find fault with a person, often say it, because this will make others think that you are hostile to him.

I think the dormitory should be based on tolerance and understanding.

The relationship is good, you can say anything, the mouth is dirty and it seems to be a good feeling, the relationship is not in place, you ask a hello is a bully, so this problem is still divided. If you have to say things that you can't say, don't say bad things behind your back, don't talk about other people's obvious flaws, and don't hurt your self-esteem.

I just want to do this, what's your business. ”

Although it is said that it is your freedom to do anything, this is not your own home, it is a place where everyone lives together, and you must consider the feelings of others in what you do. At home you can sleep as much as you want, and in the dormitory you have to follow everyone's schedule; You can put it out at home**, and you must wear headphones in the dormitory; You can not clean at home, and you must follow everyone's rules and arrangements in the dormitory.

I think my relationship with my roommate is very good, if I want to say that I am helpless or disgusted, it should be smoking, this can't be helped, I am disgusted with tobacco, I hate others smoking in my space, but smoking is someone else's right, I can't say anything, I can remind, but I can't say that I don't want to smoke, that will be besieged by the whole dormitory.

I don't think you should always belittle someone in the dormitory, saying that she dresses and family matters. Because we know that if you always say this to him, he will definitely feel unhappy, and if you really can't stand it that day, it will definitely hurt you.

I don't think it's okay to say bad things about classmates, because roommates also have good friends, maybe what we say behind our backs will be spread out or even add fuel to the fire, which will affect the friendship between classmates, even a small complaint may cause a big misunderstanding.

DefinitelyExperienced something similarIn fact, this is very normal in the face of such things, you only need to remember one sentence,You are not RMB, how can you make everyone like you

The responsibility for many things may not lie with you, so don't be too yourself, maybe the other person is just someone who likes to speak ill of people behind their backs? This kind of thing is too normal, if you keep it in mind because of this little thing, you will face more than just this trouble when you enter the society in the future. So don't pay too much attention to what others say about you, no matter how good you do, there will always be people who are happy with you, or some people who are not happy with you.

If you want to know if you're doing something wrong, you just need to follow this principle. If someone is behind your back commenting on your shortcomings, or something you've done wrong, you can simply ignore it. If two or three people are commenting on your shortcomings or faults in the same way, then you really should pay attention to it, because you may have done something wrong in this matter.

Everyone has their flaws, after all, no one is perfect. It's not terrible to have shortcomings, as long as you change it, this should be a truth that many elementary school students know. However, it is not necessarily a good habit to speak ill of people behind his back, and in the face of such a roommate, he only needs to laugh it off, and there is no need to have a deep relationship with such a person, because his moral character seems to have some problems.

Maybe he says bad things about you behind your back, just because he doesn't get along with you, but maybe there are more people who can get along with you, there is no need to give up the whole forest for this big tree, try to make more friends, you can find more surprises.

So don't go to your heart, let alone put pressure on yourself because of this matter, and work hard to improve yourself is the most important thing. If you can be a capable person, as long as you have a high status, more people will be willing to communicate with you and like you more.

The classmates in the same dormitory don't say anything about themselves, but they really haven't experienced the experience of saying bad things behind their backs, maybe they said I don't know, or they didn't say it, in short, I haven't encountered this situation, and I'm also a relatively straightforward person, what do I have to say or something I like to solve in person, I don't like to be behind my back, because I can't solve the problem if I discuss it behind my back.

No, but I think that since I have been talked about by others, I must be criticized by others because I am not good enough, if you are a person who is good at correcting, you might as well correct your shortcomings, and then make yourself more perfect.

I experienced it, and when I knew about it, I was very angry, and I wanted to find a theory with the other party, but then I calmed down, and I felt that I couldn't be so impulsive.

I've experienced it, and other people told me about it, and I was really sad when I heard about it, I didn't expect people to do this to me every day.

During the university period, there are many students living in dormitories, and people from all over the world live together, and their living habits are different, so it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts.

As a place where everyone has to stay often, we can only weaken the contradictions in the dormitory, and once we meet a strange roommate, it is estimated that college life will be difficult to survive. If you want to talk about the roommates in the dormitory, all kinds of strange behaviors, there are the following kinds that are unacceptable, especially the fourth one. When I was in college, I couldn't accept the "weird" behaviors of my roommates:

No personal hygiene:

There are always such students in the dormitory, they don't pay attention to personal hygiene, things are thrown around, especially dirty socks are thrown everywhere, clothes are not washed often, and bed sheets are even more reluctant to change. Every time you walk past his bed, you can always smell a strange smell, usually see him go out and clean up, but the personal dormitory area is really not daring to look. Every time he told others that he loved to be clean, but the dormitory arranged daily duty hygiene, but he always found various reasons to avoid cleaning.

Feel free to mess around with other people's stuff:

In the dormitory, it is common for roommates to occasionally borrow other people's things for use, such as clothes racks, combs, etc. If you want to use something else, please let us know, don't take someone else's thing, and don't return it after using it. Some people take borrowing other people's things as a habit, every time they don't have their own things, they use other people's, shampoo is gone, other people's is gone, Zuming laundry detergent is no longer used by others, and they never buy Xinsui to dismantle anything.

We often encounter roommates like this, but there is no way, even if they use someone else's, they won't return it, and when someone else uses it, they can't find it anywhere, and it is estimated that it is unbearable to put this kind of person in anyone's dormitory.

Someone who always disturbs someone else's rest:

There are always some people who like to play ** constantly when others are sleeping, or put the game loud, have no public morality at all, and their minds are full of themselves, and they never think about others. Imagine that you are very sleepy and want to sleep, but others turn on the sound of watching a movie very loudly, do you feel uncomfortable?

Bring your girlfriend to the dorm :

This is the most unacceptable behavior of netizens, it is really strange, there are 6 people living in the dormitory, but he brought his girlfriend to live in the dormitory, and the other boys have no choice but to go to the Internet café all night. The dormitory is a place to live in a group, and you can't influence others for your own selfish desires.