What s it like to chat with someone you like?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-01
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What else can I experience, of course, it's fun. If someone I like can reply to me, I can be happy all day. Because she deleted all my chat tools, there is no crush now.

    However, when I chatted with the girl I had a crush on, there were two kinds of chats, one was face-to-face and the other was online. When chatting face-to-face, I feel very nervous, so nervous that my palms are sweaty, at first you may have prepared a stomach of words to say, but when you see her, you seem to have forgotten everything, just look at her, and then it will be a little embarrassing to chat, why always staring, because the crush is so beautiful, when talking about a relatively controversial topic, I don't know whether it is light, or it is better to say a little heavier, it seems that I have no principles when I say it is light, and I am afraid of hurting her if it is heavy. The crush is like that, you don't say a word you like to her, but you can feel that love in your eyes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The fawn bumps, the feeling of first love, chatting with the person you like, you will feel that you have always had a fawn bumping in your heart. Both of them have heart-warming feelings, as if they are first love. Most of this kind of love is very beautiful, because everyone has not been in love many times, and they are still very young, so the appearance of a person they like again will make them love so much that they can't extricate themselves.

    This feeling will be given different meanings over time and age, but it is a sign of liking someone. If you feel that way about a woman, then congratulations.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The first time I chatted with someone I liked, I was definitely very nervous and didn't know what to say. The two of them sat opposite, their eyes kept dodging, and their speech was intermittent, the man took the initiative to speak, wanting to relieve the awkward atmosphere, but often doing self-defeating things, making the woman secretly laugh in her heart, thinking that this man was stupid, but a little cute, and the woman would give you a second date and wanted to continue to get to know you. However, whether it is a man or a woman, you must let yourself relax, if both of you are nervous, it is very detrimental to the conversation between you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Completely fascinated, as if there are only two of them left in the world Talking to the person you like, feeling that everything she says is right, her voice is gentle, her eyes are big, ** is very white, her hair is very long, etc., everything is the way she likes, and men are completely obsessed with such a woman. In the process of chatting, the two of them were so engaged in the conversation that they didn't know what was going on around them, as if there were only two of us left in the world.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I talk to the people I like every day, even though I'm the only one to talk to them, and the mood is the same every day. Because he can't hear, he can see occasionally, but he doesn't talk to me, he has to go to a lot of places every day at work, and he is very busy! The most enviable thing is that there are so many people who love him, all of them know him, but he doesn't know the people he chats with.

    I like people with clear eyebrows, versatile, low-key and modest, noble character, connotation, cultivation, excellent and perfect, if I can, I hope that one day I can sit next to him and chat with him, then I don't know how beautiful my mood is, how happy! Anyway, that's okay! I'll keep talking about it myself, because I like it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, I'm happy, and there are fewer than a thousand glasses of wine for a confidant! Because they can chat, they can talk about work, life, hobbies, and share with each other when they are happy; If you are depressed, you can also say it, the other party will help you solve it, help you come up with ideas, and suddenly the clouds will disperse, and you will be in a good mood!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Time flies and I am reluctant to stop Chatting with the person I like, I feel that time flies very quickly, and before I know it, it is time to leave, so men will show reluctance at this time. For this situation, it can only mean that everyone is very engaged in chatting and feels that everything is very suitable, so there is a lot to say, just understand each other a little more, and let each other's hearts get closer.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, when chatting with someone you like, I think the other party must be very happy if you reply in seconds, after all, you can feel that the other person sees yourself as very important. My previous boyfriend was like that, and I really feel very happy, and now I think about it and it feels pretty sweet.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I used to like someone, I'm the kind of passive type, crush on someone else, and finally as expected, I became someone else's best man, I still remember when I chatted with him, I liked to make him laugh, as long as he was happy, I would be happy, a wonderful feeling, slowly he had his family, I also occasionally went to the door, mainly to see how he was doing, after all, we were impossible, my mother also worked hard to introduce me to a girlfriend, I also tried to contact, but I just didn't feel it, and I didn't want to delay other girls, I have had a crush on him for seven years, and now he doesn't know it, and now he has a one-year-old daughter, and he is very happy, and he is more mature than before as a father, bless him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that long-term companionship is a silent confession, and long-term companionship and chatting can show that a person is willing to pay for you.

    I think if I chat for a long time, I feel a little bit like it, and I will have the illusion of being in love, that is, I feel that the other party seems to like me a little, or even a bit like a couple chatting, but then I still think that I may be a little bit not very good, even if the other party does like me, but I'm not sure that I generally don't have this kind of thought.

    It's just that some people around me will feel this way, and communication is easy to become dependent. The longer and more often the two people chat, the easier it is to be tempted.

    In reality, most of the opposite sex, from familiarity to love, have to go through a process of frequent chatting, and even sleepless, the more they talk, the more energetic they become.

    From unfamiliarity to later acquaintance to later feeling, this is a kind of emotional dependence, but also a sense of trust, and there is a spiritual exchange between each other, which is beyond the affection of friendship.

    Therefore, if you talk to someone you like, you will be more happy. And the more we communicate with each other, the more happy thoughts I will have in my heart.

    However, chatting can give you a feeling of confidante, but you should still know how to distinguish between friendship and love, let yourself understand mentally, and don't be affected by a little favor and your judgment.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, how can you chat every day without feeling that this is how you have a long-term relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know if it will make you feel like you're in love with him, it's really a bit scary, so you still have to control it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm already a favorite person.,Chat every day.,There's a feeling.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ambiguous relationship. 1. If you chat with a man at the beginning to eliminate loneliness, but people will slowly get along with each other. Therefore, after chatting with men for a long time, they will consciously think about each other for a long time, and they will share anything with each other.

    If the other party insists on chatting with you, then he must have an idea in his heart, or he likes to chat with you, and slowly the two of them may have real feelings.

    2. In the process of chatting, you should pay attention to the topic of talking to the other party, which is related to the purpose of the other party chatting with you. If a guy is talking to you with a purposeful purpose, then it's best not to get caught up in it. If you are a person who really regards you as a friend, two people will feel comforted and confided in chatting together, so chatting with such a man for a long time will definitely produce a kind of dependence.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Many people have doubts about this question. People of the opposite sex who often chat may not feel anything every day, and sometimes even feel that if the other party keeps sending messages, they are still a little bored, and why do I have to reply? The other party's constant contact is Teqin Chi pretending to be a special person, or is it originally such a person?

    But if you don't chat, there will be a kind of loss, as if you have suddenly lost something, but is this really like? Here are my personal views and experiences.

    First: it must be divided, if the other party is very good, and he is a very talkative person, then the comfort of chatting may be due to the other party's accommodation, so we are easy to like each other, because not everyone can get along, if you can chat often, there must be a certain reason. If the other party often shares their lives, and they are not tired of finding topics for the sake of finding topics, it is very likely that the other party is because they like themselves, then if they feel that the person they are chatting with is also very suitable, it is easy to like it, after all, the desire to share is the greatest romance.

    In the end, if you take the initiative to chat, and the other party doesn't respond very much, you need to pay attention, maybe you have a good feeling, but the other party doesn't feel so much, just politely reply.

    Second: I think it has a lot to do with myself, some people can restrain their emotions and have a clear understanding of the type they like, even if they chat, they won't have much feelings, but if they are a sensitive and loveless person, they may be easy to have a sense of dependence, and over time they can't tell whether they like it or get used to it. But I like this kind of thing, if you can't tell the difference, don't chat for the time being, see if the other party will take the initiative, and whether you can't help but want to chat.

    If you can restrain yourself, then it proves that you are just getting used to it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Quite simply, feel satisfied, happy, and happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People are sentient creatures, but it's a very troublesome thing to talk about and chat with the people you like in daily life! Because you can't judge a lot of things through online chatting, after all, you don't know what the other party really thinks on the other side, and you can't judge the real emotions through chatting! For example, chatting with a boy he likes, he has been back in seconds, but he never takes the initiative to practice, in fact, such pictures can be divided into two kinds, and I will analyze it for you below!

    First of all, the biggest possibility is that this boy is a shy boy, and he usually doesn't have too many topics, but once he is accosted to find a topic, he is very pleasant, so this kind of person is not good at chatting, which is also the reason why he never takes the initiative to contact others! However, being able to reply to other people's messages at any time is also a person who cares about other people's feelings very much, if you meet at this time, the boy chats with himself without too many perfunctory words, you can test his attitude, so that both parties will make certain progress!

    Another reason is that this boy is a very boring person who doesn't know what to do, and at this time he sends him a message, he will reply to his message in seconds, maybe it is not the goddess in his heart who sends him a message at this time, but at this time he is accompanied by the person who is chatting with him, so at this time you can continue to understand him with the help of your own topic, so as to increase the relationship between the two parties, so that there will be a lot of good results in the follow-up!

    However, some boys reply to their messages in seconds does not mean that they like themselves, because many times some boys are just bored, but when they receive their own messages, they are not embarrassed to reply, so there is a phenomenon of seconds back! And at this time, if you want to continue chatting with him, once there is a perfunctory phenomenon, then you can experience his emotional problems, after all, it is just a politeness at the beginning, and the follow-up chat can see how many problems!

    In fact, the second back is also divided into situations, in many cases the second back is not important, the important thing is whether the follow-up chat is perfunctory!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Chatting with people you like will be very comfortable and happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Understand each other and find out each other's interests.

    As the saying goes, "know yourself and know your opponent, you will not be defeated in a hundred battles", and when chatting with the person you like, you must first understand where the other party's interests are?

    Understand what the other person likes, what kind of person they are, what their personality looks like, lively, quiet, and cold.

    You must first learn to label the other person, and when chatting, you can be sure to be in a good sense of proportion.

    2. Know how to be proportionate, and don't touch on topics that the other party dislikes.

    When you chat with someone you like, of course, you want to express your love and make each other happy.

    What if in the process of chatting, I don't know where the other party's reverse scales are? Once you accidentally touch it, let alone chatting, it is likely to block you.

    Therefore, when chatting, get to know the other party first, and know how to handle the balance when you speak, which will make the other party feel your politeness and cultivation, and will increase your influence points.

    3. Make it clear the purpose of talking about the sky, don't always say something that Sakura doesn't have.

    When chatting, we must not only know how to grasp the proportion, but also clarify the purpose of chatting, what is the purpose of chatting, and people are not talking aimlessly.

    If you speak unscrupulously, it is easy to offend the other party and make the other party disgusted.

    With a clear purpose, it will bring the relationship between the two people closer, for example, chatting is to catch her, so how to catch her? Then say more words of concern, words of praise.

    4. Know how to chat humorously, praise and encourage each other in a timely manner.

    A lifeless way of chatting, no matter how capable you are, is the terminator of the topic, and no one wants to chat in a static, old-fashioned, and unfunny way.

    If you want to chat freely with the person you like, then, you must learn a humorous way of chatting, speaking with a sense of joy, and the other party has a smile on his face when he listens, that is a successful way to chat.

    However, you must know how to praise and encourage the other person in the chat, when the other party shows you his skills, you should think of praise, and when the other party fails, you think of comfort and encouragement.

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