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Two people in love, living together, eating together, living together, living together, are they really together? No, they're just partners! So, what does it mean to be truly together?
1.When each other completely gives their hearts to each other, they (they) are truly together. Why?
When you are thinking about the other person in your heart one day, you put your heart on the other person. For example, if the other party has a fever and you are anxious to find a doctor for medicine, and if the other party comes home drunk from a party, you will not lose your temper again, you will gently help him sober up and help him wash his dirty clothes. At this time, your heart is with the other person!
2.When they have a tacit understanding with each other, they are truly together. For example, if you want to go to your parents' house to see your parents during the holidays, and it happens that he thinks it is time to go, and if you want to buy a car, she says that she is planning to discuss this with you. In general, it can be tacitly understood.
3.When you are dependent on each other and alone, you are really together. For example, if the other party needs to work, or go on a business trip, the other party must be able to handle everything at home and outside the home.
4.When we understand each other and trust each other, we are truly together. 5.When each other thinks that each other and their family are the greatest responsibility of life, they are truly together! In short: the human character needs a support point, and it needs trust and love!
6. Acceptance of character. Because everyone is a unique individual, personality differences are inevitable, there will be conflicts if there are differences, if the personality run-in is not enough, sooner or later there will be problems in the relationship.
7. Acceptance of shortcomings. As the saying goes, no one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings, in the early days of love, each other's eyes are magnified advantages, and the shortcomings are automatically ignored. But after getting along for a long time, the shortcomings will be exposed one by one, and if you can't accept each other's shortcomings, the relationship will naturally not last long.
8. Acceptance of interests. The best preservative of feelings is the same aspirations. With the same interests, there will be enough topics for each other, and with enough topics, there will be enough communication, and communication can make each other understand each other better and let misunderstandings disappear.
Naturally, the relationship has a guarantee of rapid development.
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When in love, the feeling of two people being together, if they are relaxed and very happy to get along, it means that the personalities and hobbies of these two people are basically relatively similar, and one thing that can prove that two people are suitable is that their parents like or want two people to be together.
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It must be mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, so that two people will have a happy time together and will not have any reaction. But it is really very difficult to do this, and it takes two people to work together to be able to do them well. If it's just one person who is giving, then the relationship between the two of you will be very difficult, and there will be a day of separation in the end.
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When you are in love, two people have the same values, and other ideas are very similar. At this time, two people can really communicate with their hearts, and they can really come together, and they are the right people, and I feel that it is appropriate at this time.
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I think that first of all, the three views should be more compatible, and it is normal to have contradictions during the relationship, but there are fewer contradictions between two people, and the big aspects and concepts are similar, which means that two people are more suitable to be together.
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When in love, two people have a common topic, and can make progress together, work together, so it is more appropriate, whether it is age or knowledge, as long as two people walk on the road of progress, there are no regrets.
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In the process of falling in love, many people may have thought about a question, that is, whether he or her is worthy of their own love, and only a person worthy of love can entrust themselves to each other.
However, although we are entangled in this issue, we do not have a standard for judgment. What kind of characteristics does the other person have or what kind of actions do they make to be the one worthy of love?
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Clause. 1. Each other is a good friend of the other, without any conditions, and likes to be with each other. Clause.
Second, it is easy to communicate with each other, and each other can be very open to confessing anything, without worrying about being suspicious or slighted by the other party.
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In fact, there are no two people who are naturally suitable, they are the ones who run in with each other in the process of falling in love and become suitable for each other, and in the process of getting along, two people must maintain mutual trust, mutual understanding, and don't care about many unnecessary things in life, so that they will be very happy to get along.
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Hello, first of all, the two people must have a compatible personality, and secondly, the three views of the two people are also in line. Only two people who get along can go further, feelings need to be managed by each other, if two people manage well, I believe they will also have a bright future.
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When in love, two people must support each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other when they are together, so if there is a problem, it must be solved together, and the other party's problem must be helped to solve, so it is very appropriate.
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The first point, people who can understand each other Falling in love is something that two people are willing to give, and it is not a casual make-do. Therefore, two people must understand each other together, and two people will know a lot of people and experience a lot of things together, so when looking for a other half, it is necessary to find someone who can understand each other.
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When encountering some things, you must consider the other party's thoughts normally, and often prepare some surprises for the other party, if the two have a dispute, the man must apologize to the woman first or retreat. You must know how to respect the other person and listen carefully to whatever the other person says to you. If you can do this, the two are really suitable together.
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When it comes to the question of how two people are suitable, the outstanding thinker Nietzsche once said that "married life is like a long-term conversation, love is very easy and difficult to get along", it is not difficult to see that the emotional communication and communication between two people after dating is very crucial.
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When two people are together, the concept is very same, and what kind of things can be directly discussed with each other, and they can also understand each other and help each other, as long as these two people are together, they are more suitable for this kind of person.
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First of all, two people have a common topic, and the family background of the two people is almost the same, and there is a good match, and then it also includes two people in the process of getting along, they can tolerate each other and understand each other.
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When in love, the right feeling for two people together is that they get along in a harmonious atmosphere, and problems can be solved through discussion and discussion, without affecting the relationship, without discrimination, and insults and indifferent attitudes to treat.
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Men have a sense of responsibility, tolerate girls' little tempers, women are appropriately coquettish, appropriately strong, although two people are noisy together, but in the end they are all aiming for reconciliation.
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I think the appropriate definition, that is, the two people themselves know, if you let outsiders look at it, I think it is the same three views, the attitude towards life and the goal of the future are similar, I think this is appropriate.
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I think that when you are in love, two people can respect each other and understand each other. And when something happens, you can also empathize more. And being able to care about each other and have each other in their hearts, these two people are very suitable.
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When you're in love. As long as the two of them are together, they are very happy. Never quarrel.
And there are also common hobbies, to complete together. This is the only way to do it.
And they don't say anything that hurts each other.
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There is no contradiction when two people are together, or when two people are together, they believe in each other very much, and believe in their own feelings, I think it is very suitable for such two people to be together.
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I think so, if two people in love are more comfortable and suitable together, they must have a common three views, a common life goal, a common discourse, and complementary personalities.
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Two people know each other, or deep down they understand each other's emotions and attitudes, and they can treat each other sincerely and be loyal, this is the best look of love, everything does not need to be words.
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When in love, two people understand each other, tolerate each other, have similar family backgrounds, and have similar jobs, so it is appropriate.
Falling in love is not impulsive, there are many realities to face, if the family conditions are quite different, and the work unit is also much worse, such a relationship will have problems sooner or later.
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When in love, two people together can not only like each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings, Mom, these two people are suitable together.
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It can be said that when two people are in love, if they feel very comfortable together when they are together, and they trust each other very much and rely on each other, then even if it is a very suitable relationship, such a relationship can go on for a long time.
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I think it's appropriate to be able to talk to two people, and when they're together, they feel very comfortable and happy, and there is no generation gap between two people, and they can understand each other when they speak.
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When two people are in love, they can feel suitable together, then it means that two people can get along in a more comfortable state, and can understand each other and solve problems in time!
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If two people are together, can understand each other more, and are attracted to each other, then the two are suitable, so in love, if two people do not have too many contradictions, they will be very happy if they are solved by some of each other's behaviors.
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Love is a beautiful feeling in human emotions, everyone is full of beautiful yearning for love, hoping to harvest a sweet love, but in the process of falling in love, I always can't help but worry about whether the two parties are suitable, whether the relationship can be maintained for a long time, so how to be suitable for both parties in love, let me tell you how to judge whether the two parties are suitable in love.
First of all, a two-way romance is a suitable premise. Trying to impress the other party by relying on the efforts of one party is undoubtedly half the effort, it is difficult to achieve results, and it will take too much time, it is easy to accumulate negative emotions, and cause trauma to one's own psychology. Only when two people go both ways will it have a positive impact, so that both parties in the process of love are full of motivation to overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles encountered in the relationship, and finally support each other and accompany each other to old age.
Secondly, the three views of both parties in the process of falling in love cannot deviate too much. Different views will have different criteria for judging things, which can easily cause friction in life, lead to constant quarrels between the two parties, and it is easy to consume mental energy, consume the enthusiasm of both parties, and finally part ways. The right three views can allow two people to have a common pursuit, make each other feel comfortable in love, and make the relationship last longer.
Finally, a harmonious family relationship is a bridge in a relationship. A harmonious family relationship can build a good bridge for both parties in love, can effectively reduce the family pressure of both parties, can get along with the object more freely, and can get the support of the family is the best accelerant for the relationship, which can greatly reduce the friction between the two parties.
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In love, if two people want to feel suitable, then they must do something that fits, so that both parties feel happy and happy, and can do some actions and happy actions that make each other happy, and two people can make progress together and move in one direction, rather than standing still, which is more appropriate.
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Answering the first point, people who can understand each other fall in love are two people willingly, and it is two people who are willing to pay, not just casually. Therefore, two people must understand each other together, two people will know a lot of people and experience a lot of things together, so when looking for the other half, you must find someone who can understand each other to be appropriate, otherwise there will be disputes in your relationship, and the two people who can't understand each other will definitely not last long. If what one person does in love and marriage is not understood and supported by the other person, then two people who save together lose their original taste, and without mutual understanding and care, there will be no beautiful love, so two people who understand each other are suitable.
The second point is that people who can rely on each other are like two people who have become one, and two people will slowly merge into one person, and they will have a strong sense of dependence on each other. If two people are together without this sense of dependence, but exist independently of each other, then they will gradually drift apart, or even go further and further. Since two people are together, this sense of dependence must be formed, but this sense of dependence is not material dependence, but spiritual dependence.
Two people who depend on each other will coexist peacefully and depend on each other, which will make the relationship between two people better and better, and on the contrary, it will get worse and worse. Two people don't have to rely on each other, so why should they be together? So it's only appropriate for two people who can rely on each other to be together.
Third, people who can give each other space Some people are in love, whether it is a boy or a girl, whether the other party is willing or not, he will want to let the other party focus on himself, not to leave a little personal space for the other party, this approach is wrong, it is selfish, which will cause the other party's disgust, which is not conducive to the development of feelings, so we must give each other space, although you are all he after falling in love, but there should also be a degree, not too much, give each other a certain space is to say a degree of each other, If you don't leave space for each other, it will seem that your love is too narrow, and maybe the other person will leave you! Therefore, whether you can give each other private space is also an important factor in whether two people are suitable. Fourth, it is most important for each other to be self-motivated, which determines the happiness of two people in the future.
In the process of two people falling in love, they must be self-motivated, so it is only appropriate to say that two people who are jointly self-motivated are together. Love is not improvised, two people can only be together if they are suitable, and love needs you and me, not to be together for the sake of interests. Before all feelings begin, you must consider whether two people are suitable in advance, so that you can be more accurate until the other person is suitable for you, otherwise it will be another love tragedy.
And I have always believed that two people can only get along better if they understand each other earlier, and only by relying on each other can they be more conducive to the development of their relationship, and they must learn to leave enough space for each other, and two people must be self-motivated at the same time. Only by abiding by these four points can we know whether it is appropriate or not.
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