How to grasp a fate, what is a good fate?

Let's be blunt, don't worry about that much!!

It depends on the situation!!

Just don't let yourself regret it!

Love just say it out loud "If you say it, there is half hope, if you don't say it, then you don't have to look forward to it, hurry up and forget her."

A mistake is a temporary regret, while a miss is an eternal regret!

01: If there is fate, there is no need to flatter the ingredient of a truly good friendship, it must be equal to each other, and there is no such thing as who looks up to whom and who looks down on whom. The two sides stand in the same position, treat each other honestly, and give to each other, only in this way can this relationship go further and further.

Jia Pingwa once said: "Friends are iron pieces, nails, screw caps and small pins attracted by magnets, as long as you want, you can always suck them from any dust in the world." This passage of his, which corresponds to the law of attraction in psychology, tells us:

The kind of person you are, the kind of person you meet. If there is really a fate between each other, you don't need to deliberately please, please Cong Ru and cater to each other, everything will go naturally, and you will not be easily separated. This fate, although it is determined by heaven, but whether it can last for a long time depends on the daily operation, and the real fate of people is inseparable from each other's cherishing and intentions, as long as both parties have been honest, this type of Zheng fate will not be dispersed.

02: If there is no fate, there is no need to go against your will, people who are reluctant to have a real fate with each other, go around all the way, and eventually they will meet again, while people without fate, even if they walk face to face, they are still indifferent in their hearts. So many times, many relationships don't have to be forced, if there is no fate between the two, you might as well choose to go with the flow, otherwise the more reluctant, the deeper the hurt In Zhang Ailing's long story ** "Half Life", the hero and heroine are typical cases, when they were young, they loved each other deeply and made a private decision for life, and then went around and around because of various misunderstandings and got separated.

In addition to objective reasons, the main reason for the breakdown of their relationship is that they do not trust each other, and each has its own wariness. And a really good relationship cannot be calculated, if you only think about yourself in everything, then this relationship cannot be maintained. They are in deep love, and they can't escape the ending of separation, which also warns us that if there is no fate between the two, there is no need to go against their will and reluctantly be with each other, so that they can get together and disperse It can better highlight the pattern.

03: Everything goes with fate, look at it openly, respect every encounter and leave If there is fate, if you are separated, you will still meet again, if you don't have a fate, even if you are inseparable every day, you still can't go to the end. Living in this world, as long as you look at everything a little bit and look down on it, you won't be so tired.

The relationship between people is not as complicated as we imagined, this life seems to be long, but there are very few people who really intersect with us. Those who deserve our care, may wish to work hard to give, work hard to manage, and our lives will become more fulfilling and more abundant because of their existence. And those who are not worthy of our association, there is no need to spend so much energy and patience, learn to say goodbye, learn to let go, the burden on our shoulders, in order to lighten the road back, in order to go a little smoother.

For the rest of your life, learn to follow fate in everything, look down on it, respect every encounter and parting, cherish what is worth cherishing, and give up what is not worth interacting with. Only by finding the center of gravity of life can we divide every point.

Fate is destined.

Who you will be with is actually predestined for a long time.

It is often said that it is not a family that does not enter the door.

That's what I'm saying.

Many people have been moved by Faye Wong's song "Passing Years", which has a lyric that sings: "In your lifetime, you will not be spared when you meet on a narrow road." ”

Fate, this thing, is really indescribable.

But it's also real.

If there is fate, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can meet each other.

If you don't have a chance, you don't know each other.

Of course, fate is also deep and shallow.

People who are not related to you can only become passers-by in your life, and will only stay in your life for a short time.

Perhaps, we have known each other and loved each other, but in the end, we will also separate.

Because of this fate, it can only end here.

When the fate is over, it will be dispersed.

Therefore, for this kind of fate, we should not have resentment, nor regret, but should be grateful.

I am grateful to have met each other, and I have had such a good experience with each other.

I thought that this encounter made our life more exciting, and it would not be too dull.

And some people have a deep fate with us, even if there is a misunderstanding in the middle and there is an excessive reunion, but in the end they can still come together and stay together for a lifetime.

Fate is full of variables.

It's the same with fate.

We can't be sure who will end up with us for a long time.

We also can't be sure who is only a short-lived resident.

But whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness.

Whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness.

As long as we cherish every fate we encounter, our lives will become wonderful enough.

Cherish every encounter, and when you are old, you will not leave regrets and regrets.

Only when you can afford it and let it go can you usher in a better future and usher in the next beauty.

In this life, I am worthy of myself, worthy of every encounter, worthy of every fate, and have a clear conscience, which is enough.

In fact, to tell the truth, we should believe that fate is a vast world, the vast sea of people, to be able to meet is a kind of fate, meeting is fate, meeting is fate, acquaintance is also fate, some loss is doomed, some fate will never have results, believe in fate and believe that fate is also a kind of confusion and relief for us, some fate is something we can't explain clearly, sometimes fate seems to be playing tricks on us, some things are fixed in the dark. It's yours after all, it's not that you can't force it to come, fate and fate are destined by God, and they have been arranged since we came to the world. The Buddha said:

The one you marry in this life is the one who buried you in the previous life. "The cause of the past life is the fruit of this life, the love of the past life is the debt of this life. There are times in life that you have to have, and there are times when you have to ask for things in life.

Life is a kind of fate between people in the world, fate comes and goes, fate rises and falls, fate gathers and scatters, and fate ends with fate, all of which are a fate word. There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet and do not know. Some people have fate but no part, some people have a part but no fate, some people don't necessarily stay too long because of the encounter even if they pass by, because they have no fate and no part, some people even if they have a fate to meet, but the stay time may be very short, because they have no point, and they are just a hurried passer-by in life, some people have waited for a long time and even pay a lifetime and a heavy price for seeking fate, but they still have no fate, and what they have experienced along the way is only a lonely long journey, and the scars all over the body, this is the result of the lack of chance.

A person from meeting, acquaintance to acquaintance is fate, fate is not to be resisted, forced not to come, life in the world depends on a fate word, everything is still fate. At the very least, you won't get hurt.

Since it's fate, it's not like you can find it.

Although it is said that fate is destined by God, but in the final analysis, it depends on whether you believe or not, if you believe, then fate is destined by God and arranged by God.

When you meet fate, it may be a long time, or it may just be a passing moment.

So, if you find that you meet your fate, please cherish it.

If you haven't met it yet, please don't give up, because everyone is destined to have his or her own around him.

In the vast sea of people, two people from meet, acquaintance, acquaintance, or love each other, this is fate, fate does not need to wait, fate is fought for, is created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate, is the most rational, but how many people, when fate comes, can grasp it, cherish it! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well.

Don't wait for the loss of empty hatred...

Fate is a mysterious force that is sometimes difficult to ** and control. However, there are ways to help you earn your own destiny and increase your chances of connecting and socializing with others. Here are some suggestions:

1.Participate in social activities: Increase your chances of reaching out and socializing with others by participating in various social activities, such as parties, social clubs, interest groups, etc.

2.Boost self-confidence: Self-confidence can make you more attractive and give you more courage to reach out to strangers. Rolling can boost your self-confidence by exercising, learning new skills, trying new things, and more.

3.Establish your own hobbies: In your own field of interest, it will be easier to find like-minded people and build relationships by participating in activities together.

4.Improve your communication skills: be proactive in relating to others, learn to communicate with others, express your thoughts and emotions, and better connect with others.

7.Slowly develop a relationship: Don't rush to find a love partner, you can find your fate by gradually building friendships, slowly developing relationships, and increasing understanding of each other.

The most important thing is to keep an open mind and a positive attitude, believe that fate exists, believe that you will meet the right person, and at the same time respect your own and others' feelings, and work hard to fight for fate within the scope of your own willingness.