How to make a smooth transition from love to marriage?

Because two people wearing one outfit will attract the attention of others.

That is, two people cherish each other.

Two people must go through a period of long-distance life.

Conduct a deeper understanding of the character.

Slowly the two people get to know each other.

I think you can get married by paying attention to the following things:In the stage of choosing love, it is necessary to pay attention to moderation。Choosing a mate is like coming to a wheat field and picking an ear of wheat from beginning to end.

It's not an easy thing to do, of course you want to choose the biggest and the best, but you never know which is the biggest and the best until you reach the end of the earth.

This leads to confusion in the selection process: choosing too early may result in losing the opportunity to choose better; If you choose too late, you may miss out on the best. Since scales are difficult to master, I can give you a guide in this regardThat is, in the process of choosing (blind date), you should first evaluate yourself.

Because who knows what level, who knows, if you want to wait with you for a medium-sized combination, he she can balance it in his mind. What about imbalance? You have to compensate somehow.

If you can't, he or she will seek compensation from someone else. From the point of view of academic qualifications and abilities, it is better that the two of you are at the same level, otherwise you will not understand why the other person will do this or that one day.

Because who knows what level, who knows, if you want to wait with you for a medium-sized combination, he she can balance it in his mind. What about imbalance? You have to compensate somehow.

If you can't, he or she will seek compensation from someone else. From the point of view of academic qualifications and abilities, it is better that the two of you are at the same level, otherwise you will not understand why the other person will do this or that one day.

In terms of the age of mate selection, try not to exceed 30 years old。In general, the best partners for men and women are between the ages of 20 and 30. If you miss out on this age, you don't have to say that it's very good to find a good partner.

From an economic point of view, love and marriage are like selling yourself out in the market, and age determines your rate of depreciation. Generally speaking, after the age of 30, your depreciation rate will increase significantly. If you want to market yourself with a good **, it takes a lot of effort to package it, and it will also be very beautiful.

So this is the way to smoothly transition from love to marriage.

Hello, I have the following point of view for overcoming this overwhelm,:

If you want to go from a smooth relationship to a marriage, you have to start with yourself:

1.Perfect your personality.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

Therefore, in marriage, you need to improve each other's personality, one person is stubborn, and the other person will learn to tolerate it in a timely manner, even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;

One person is sensitive and fragile, and the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other party Qitong feel a sufficient sense of security.

However, if the personalities of both parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with conflicts or encountering problems, it is equivalent to missing a solution, or even-for-tat.

2.Adapt to each other.

After marriage, the couple needs to adapt to each other, in addition to trying to reform each other's flaws.

Therefore, before marriage, you must understand each other, familiarize yourself, learn from each other, and adapt to each other's habits

such as the height of cultural literacy;

differences in family cultures;

Differences in clothing, food, housing and transportation, etc., all need to adapt to each other in the change, change in the adaptation, only frequent adjustment, can you enter the married life, a little psychological preparation, will not be because of the difference and contradictions and disagreements.

3.Be sure to do it with love.

It's lucky to get married for love!

When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.

If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.

If you get married, I don't love you in the first place, and I got married when the time came. At that time, I really didn't know if you were wrong, or if you hurt yourself.

Never marry for the sake of getting married, take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.

At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.

Therefore, there must be love in marriage.

4.Don't think of marriage as your only sustenance for the future.

Don't regard feelings as the only sustenance in life, and don't regard the other party as your own happy attachment, so as to be able to let go of excessive attachment and anxiety.

You have to understand that marriage is the icing on the cake, not a gift in disguise.

Don't always think that getting married can make your future life worry-free, and regard marriage as the sustenance and destination of your life;

Don't even think that marriage is the second reincarnation of self-centeredness, which can change your fate.

Don't have high expectations and requirements for your married partner;

Looking at marriage and oneself with a normal heart, the relationship of dynamic balance can last for a long time, and the marriage of equal strength can come to the end.

If you want to overcome the fear of falling in love and getting married, you have to work together with two people!

I hope mine can help you and have a great day.