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It's nothing, I've just fallen out of love, some people take their friends very seriously, some people value their families very seriously, it depends on what you value, you can go to whoever you value, it may not be long before it gets better, and there is what people often say, the release of this relationship is to wait for the arrival of the next relationship. When the mind is opened, happiness comes.
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Women don't just live for men. I know you like him. If you make him like you too. Only by improving one's own conditions and improving one's own abilities. Find something to be proud of.
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1. Learn to let go.
If a relationship makes you cry, it means that it is not suitable for you, or when the other party no longer loves you, you must learn to let go of the fortune. Learning to let go, not only will both sides not suffer, but also have better choices.
2. Learn to transfer mental energy.
The reason why a person can't let go of a relationship is that his heart is all on the other party, and he is missing each other all the time, when the feelings are not there, why not learn to transfer his mental strength, and transfer his mental strength not only to have time to do what he wants to do, but also to let go of the past.
3. Learn to be ruthless.
When a person knows that this feeling does not belong to him, he must learn to be ruthless. No matter how much the other party pursues or retains himself, he must be principled and learn to be ruthless. Not only do you get the respect of the other person, but you don't hurt each other.
4. Learn not to disturb.
When you can't let go of a relationship; There are always ways to contact each other. No matter how snub the other party is, you can understand yourself. In fact, when a relationship does not belong to you, you must learn not to disturb, not only to leave suspense with each other, but also to be okay with each other.
5. Travel appropriately.
Feelings make it confusing or unable to let go when appropriate travel. Traveling properly is not only relaxing, but also feeling the beauty of nature.
6. Let Zihui keep an eye on himself and record it.
If you want to let go of a relationship, you need to keep yourself busy recording. You can spend your time studying or working. Busy recording not only has been improved in study or work, but also unconsciously let go of feelings that do not belong to you.
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It may take a few years, or it may not be able to let go for a lifetime.
After a relationship is over, it is not easy to completely let go of a person, of course, if the relationship is not really invested in it, it is improvised, then it does not belong to this category. Because you are not invested in real feelings, it makes no difference whether you break up or not, there will be no pain, but there will be no happiness.
Notes:Everyone will experience acquaintance, love, and separation, from strangers to familiar to strangers, which is a transformation of feelings and an experience of growth in life. Although love is a beautiful thing, we must also treat love correctly, especially after the loss of love, we must make ourselves come out of the negative state as soon as possible, so as to face a better tomorrow in this world.
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Feelings, how many people can afford to let go, no one said that the end of a relationship, can come out in style, after all, love so will not be able to let go, the following is the analysis of the reasons for this situation.
1. What you can't let go of is a kind of giving, called "I'm too wronged".
When it comes to a breakup, the person who suffers the most is often the one who gives the most. Only with love can there be giving, and if you don't love, the once giving, is a pain, or even a shame. I once thought that I could live a lifetime, but the other party was going to get off halfway, and the desolation of being thrown halfway will make you doubt the past, and the huge grievances will make you doubt the so-called love.
People who give too much are always reluctant and always let down. It's too aggrieved, so I can't let it go.
2. What can't be let go of is a mood called "I'm unwilling".
We have to admit that no one is willing to break up when a relationship comes to an end. Whether it is the one who is disappointed or the one who is disappointed, no matter how many reasons there are, it is inevitable that there will be some unwillingness in the heart. After all, when they were together, they all tried to change each other, even if they didn't get better, at least they made each other improve, even if it was a plaid shirt worn on the body, it could remind people of the scene when they were together.
When a relationship ends, what we can't let go of is a mood. I was unwilling to let go, and I had to let go.
3. What you can't let go of is a kind of memory, called "once too beautiful".
There is a kind of breakup called helplessness. Obviously in love, but because of various lives have to be separated, the beauty of the past has become a shackle of memories, the more I think about it, the more heartache I feel. When love becomes the past and is stationed in the bottom of the heart, the too beautiful past has become a memory that you can't let go, even if it is the tears that you have shed together, it will make you think that it is the most beautiful tears in this life.
Once too beautiful, unforgettable for a lifetime, how can you say that you can let it go? The so-called "can't let go of a relationship" is actually a ...... that I can't bear to let go of the heart that I have loved and hurt
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1. The reason why two people break up must be irreconcilable contradictions. Maybe we're tired of seeing each other, maybe we don't want to see each other in advance or anymore. Even if it is a good gathering and dispersing in the end, it is inevitable that there will be discord in the heart.
When I think of the happy or unhappy past when we were together, it is inevitable that my heart will not be calm. Why bother with your own peaceful life and mood? 2, since you really like each other, how can you see her holding flowers and wearing a white wedding dress to marry someone else.
Thinking of your sweet words and vows, maybe you also fantasized about what it would be like when you married her, but now you don't want to see her marry someone else. Even though you are very uncomfortable, you have to pretend to be generous and send blessings, which is an unnecessary masochistic behavior. 3. A good ex should not disturb each other, forget about each other, and be at peace with each other.
The other person already has a partner, whether you have a new partner or not, I think your partner doesn't want your partner to be related to your ex. Even if you feel that you have let go, but maybe in the eyes of your partner, there is still reluctance. Ex is a thing of the past, and the way forward is to go hand in hand with your current partner, so you need to consider your partner's feelings.
I have the same confusion as you, I think since I know it's impossible, let it go, feelings can't be forced, why bother to make it difficult for the other party? If you really like him, as long as he is happy, you don't want the person you like to be unhappy, right?
Find something to distract yourself, you can find a new boyfriend or work hard or you have a lot of good sisters around you in love, in short, find something to distract you, wait for a new relationship or fight for a new relationship.
I read a book before, and there is such a sentence in it: "The person who tries his best to love, but in the end becomes the person who passes by, you can't let go of him, and you can't let go of the relationship that didn't love until the result, in fact, the more you torture yourself." ” >>>More
Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him. I can't forget if you don't love him. You will forget to find a way to stop loving him or try not to contact and recall the scenes of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss it, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!! >>>More
In fact, as long as you clearly realize that the two of you are not suitable, you will naturally let go. In fact, you have a grudge against her in your heart now, not only that she rejects you, but she also says some false reasons, and on this point, your character is not suitable for her. So don't force it, there are so many people, there will always be something you like and suit you.