I m sad now, I suspect I m dying, I hate the world. 20

Young man, read your text and know that you are a good young man, decent, sincere, sympathetic to you!

The situation you are talking about is, from a macro point of view, the result of "marketization". If you go back a few decades, when the people of the whole country are all suffering from poverty, you may not have such a experience. "I'd rather be a third wife than marry a poor man", this saying has its own background.

Don't hate your ex-girlfriend too much, she can't resist the pressure of the family. In fact, if you are of a certain age and you have a daughter who wants to fall in love,—— you will not agree. What about Marx?

He also asked about her daughter's boyfriend's income. I have had a similar experience to you, and now that I am old, I look back: the parents of the other woman are right!

I think: your problem is that your hands are too high (forgive me for saying that). For people my age, it is easier to have a daughter, and generally there is no need to think about buying a house for a child.

But if you have a son, then you have to buy a house for your son when you are tired, otherwise you won't be able to close your eyes when you die. - You said that you can rent a house in the future, but this is just your idea, how can the woman's parents let their daughter suffer such a sin? Don't think of other girls' parents as disliking the poor and loving the rich, they just don't want their children to suffer.

Poor couples mourn everything, and the old man will look at the pickled heart.

I used to be a love supremacist, but now I've changed my mind. I think what is really valuable is the loyalty that will not be abandoned for decades to come, and the so-called love is a beautiful lie.

Don't think about it, your original choice itself lacks a solid foundation, and a breakup is almost inevitable. ——Looking for one, find someone who can work hard with you and is under you in all aspects.

Since it can't stand the test, it's not worth your pain. Besides, men can't live only for women! Cheer up a little and start all over again!

A poignant love!

After reading your article, the heart is heavy.

The first half: in order to build a love nest together, the male bird does not work hard, and gets up early to touch the dark; The female bird is eager, living and flying, and the warbler cherishes and depends on each other.

The second half: (pen stroke) There are unforeseen storms and clouds in the sky, the dawn has not yet arrived, lightning and thunder rise first, the wind is raging, and the torrential rain is combined, and it is finally "East Flying Shrike West Feiyan". Sigh! Sigh! Sigh!

First of all, cherish!

Creation makes people. The reality is that it is so cruel that you can't look back. Maybe you can't blame your girlfriend too much, family factors, the foundation of marriage, these are indisputable facts. Winter in Beijing is so cold that it makes people shudder.

Again, cherish!

Distant relatives are still thinking about you, and the wrinkles of your father and mother are getting deeper and deeper. Winter in my hometown is not much warmer than in Beijing. Please don't forget the nurturing of your parents, don't forget the pure teachings of your parents when you were a child, and don't forget the expectations of your parents.

Take care of yourself, don't let the two elders worry about their children.

The sun will come out eventually, brother, continue to use your industrious hands to build your future. Happiness will come to you after all.

Before I finished replying to your post, I was in tears. Silent nights can be fraughty, and your essay reminds me of my past, and of my parents. ）

Finally, I would like to cherish it again! Peace be upon you throughout your life!

People are not unintentional You are good to her She will never forget the bits and pieces of your 6 years together Her decision is just forced by the pressure of her family I don't believe she is willing You can also understand her.

Your situation is very similar to that of a friend of mine in the United States, the girl also married someone else according to the wishes of the family, and the final outcome is that the two divorced in less than 1 year, and the child belongs to the woman, and now the girl wants to turn back, but my friend no longer has any illusions about love, and his heart is dead.

How to say it, what should be faced is still to be faced Even if you die, it will not prevent them from getting married in the slightest For her parents, your stumbling block is finally gone, maybe it is still good news I don't know how to persuade you.

Just hope you can see a little bit more.

Have a nice day.

Having money can make them feel at ease, and without money, they will feel that their children's lives are not secure. Besides, you want to live in Beijing, and you calculate the consumption level and housing prices there. You only have a small salary a month, not to mention in Beijing, but in a medium-sized city, the cost of a month plus renting a house can be said to be almost gone.

There are more places to spend money after getting married. True love doesn't mean everything, it's just a part of happiness, and if you add money, it's happiness in this era, and money is much heavier than true love. She also has her own difficulties when she leaves you, and it is also a very helpless choice.

You can't just feel like life doesn't make sense. That's because you are in pain now, and when you are no longer in pain, you will feel that in fact, a person is not only living for a true love, but for the purpose of forming a happy family. So from now on, you should focus on your career, work better and earn more money, so that you can appreciate how beautiful it is to be alive!!

Your life is made up of many parts, love, family, friendship, career, etc. are just some of them, live for yourself.

I can only say that I sympathize with you, I think it should be more than her family's reasons, six years of affection, how can it be calculated only by money.

When the frog stayed in the well, he thought it was so good...When one day the well dried up, and he could not survive in the well, he jumped out of the well in a sad heart, and he found that the world was so beautiful, and he traveled all over the world, and finally settled in a beautiful lake....Think about it, brother!

Is mutual suspicion of love true love? Love is about mutual trust and mutual tolerance. Doubtful love never lasts.

Don't believe me? Because of suspicion, there will be quarrels, because of quarrels, there will be estrangement, and I believe that what is behind the estrangement should be understood! Love, of course, is selfish.

But selfishness looks at the degree. A person who is too selfish in love, I don't think it's worth loving. You didn't live for him alone.

Isn't it?

You must know how to love someone instead of having her, you do love her, but in the future, can you give her happiness with your meager income, love her must respect her choice, time is the best medicine.

I think it's interesting to be alive.

No matter how good you are to her, after all, you are not married, and breaking up is just a choice for one party. You have no right to interfere. From a rational point of view, you should understand this.

As for the future, I think men should focus on their careers, or they will repeat the mistakes of the past.

But it's impossible without money. Everyone lives in reality.

Even if she marries you, what are you going to do, especially after you have children.

I've got an incurable disease, it's so painful, I want to die too, let's choose a time together.

Meaningful, live for yourself.

The day before yesterday, I didn't know how to talk about death, probably because I always felt that the age gap between you and me made me unsure.

No taboos, I said I would definitely die in front of you, what would you do if I died? Yours makes me feel naughty when I hear it, but when I think about it, there is a lot of helplessness. You were your signature smile and said to me in your crisp voice

Then I'll grab half of your ashes and erect another monument for it. Because I know that my name will not be on the tablet in your house. But how do I pay for it?

I was shocked by your words, but I didn't see anything wrong with your face. You always have the ability to make people think a lot in understatements. You've put Lala in such a difficult state from birth to death in front of us, whether you do it or not, I think at least you dare to think about it.

There are no taboos, and you ask, "If I die before you first, what will you do?" "Mine is a joke, but I'm so cowardly—" I will weep and pour water on your grave. ”

Thou hast said unto me, Thou hast been sent by Heaven to receive my heart and save my love. This sentence makes me sweet and sorry. Why didn't I get to know you earlier?

But thankfully, at least I didn't know you later. It's good to be alive and know you. I will cherish it!

If there is an afterlife, I will choose not to forget this life, because I am afraid that I will miss you again.