Should I be honest with my current boyfriend, and what should I do if my boyfriend is dishonest with

Of course, don't say it, let it be a secret forever.

As a lover, it is impossible not to care about the past of your woman. In fact, not to mention this matter is not only good for the progress of your relationship, but also a kind of protection for your man.

Besides, you once had an abortion, which was also your mistake at the time, and your man should not have a psychological burden for this. If you cherish him, don't tell him.

Even if you are the closest relative, not everything has to be honest, and some things are very hurtful and hurtful when you are honest, so you have to bear these alone, and it is also your responsibility.

And I feel that you should never talk about your past relationship again, let him know that you are happy with him, and that you should plan for the future, not dwell on the troubles of the past.

After all, the past has passed, you should also be relieved, when you were young, who didn't have a frivolous age, now mature, for the sake of a happy family in the future, bury the mistakes in your heart, try to make your relationship simple, not mixed with any "ex-girlfriend" or "ex-boyfriend" problems, which is good for both of you

I think I should be honest.

It takes ten lies to tell a lie to make up for it. Why bother?

An uncomfortable secret. I want you to keep it for the rest of your life. Can it be done?

Even if it did. And what is the pain? In case it really happens to be one day**. Then he would mind. The same would mind.

will also think that the relationship that has been in love for decades is cheated.

So I think. You should be honest.

If a guy can't accept this. That's really not worth anything to love.

If a man knows you've done this. He tolerates you. Take care of you more carefully.

If you don't suffer another such injury. That's a man like that. It's really worth your love. It's worth marrying him.

Because of a man. Love a woman. Not love her money. Love her character. Or something that loves her unilaterally. It's all love. Able to be inclusive of everything.

If you don't mind, it's fake. Anyone will be a little bit mindful.

Therefore you need to give him time. Give him space. Let him figure these things out. Oblivion.

Trust you so. You'll definitely get the happiness you want.!...

When two people are together, they should confess and discuss any difficulties they encounter.

I think you should be honest with him, if he gives up on you because of this, it means that he doesn't really like you.

If you really love someone, you won't care about his past, the most important thing is the present.

Who hasn't been in the past???

No matter how much he loves you, no matter how much you love him. It's better not to tell him about this kind of thing, men are very sensitive to it! You have to know that people change. Don't spoil your perfect image in his mind.

Fainting. Let's talk about it. Otherwise, if you two really get married.

You're miserable... It's much better to say it earlier...

It's me, I'll say.

You have to bear the mistakes you have made, otherwise, even if you want him to bear it with you, it will be if he is willing.

Say, I really love you, I won't care about this, just be nice to him, sooner or later it will be known, and then he will ask you why you are hiding it from him, and it will be even harder to say.

Love should be honest, don't want to cheat just tell him, if he loves you, he will only love you better

It's better not to say it, it's going to be risky for your current relationship!!

Yes, I'm in favor of it being a secret.

Honesty is very important, do you want to have to guess what is true and what is false every day if you are willing to have a relationship in the future, will you feel safe?

And his actual salary is only 5,000 yuan, but he pretends to be so generous in front of you, which shows that he is really very face-saving, and extremely unconfident, thinking that this way can he catch a woman!

And to be realistic, he spends money so big and big I am sure he has absolutely no savings, usually when this man is not his own man, he can spend money for himself Women will definitely be very happy, but when they really come together, he is still so big, and it is women who suffer!

Does someone tell you that he is dishonest, that the person who says this is an irrelevant person, or that several people around him say so? You should measure it yourself.

If it's a person who says it, then I don't think I need to pay too much attention to it. It is impossible for one person to be praised by everyone. But 2 or more people say you have to pay attention. Personally, I think we should get to know him better.

As for spending money, I don't think it's a problem. After many men get married and have children, they will naturally retreat. As long as the essence is fine. Besides, he also spent such a large amount of money for you.

Two people associate on the premise of honesty. A man cannot stand without faith.

I think it's more important to be honest.

It's better to believe in your own feelings

In fact, don't forget that being smart is mistaken by being smart, we all want to be smart people, but we don't like shrewd people, because too shrewd is annoying, it's better to be an ordinary person, don't think too much, live happily and freely, how short life is, happy day is a day, fools are blessed.

Have a good talk with him and tell him that he can't do this to you again.

Loyalty requires an emotional foundation on both sides.

Don't understand? What do you mean???

What kind of friendship??

Of course, otherwise it's called a flowery carrot.

Yes, but mutual trust is important.

As long as your boyfriend doesn't go to talk to her.

You can act as if she doesn't exist.

She's a thing of the past, and you're your boyfriend's future.

Don't go to trouble and make your boyfriend think you don't know the general situation.

Ask your boyfriend clearly, boyfriend and girlfriend should be honest and trusting with each other.

Treat it with a normal heart, and if you can't, reduce the chance of meeting up.

There is no need for you to contact.

points, if such a man lives together in the future and always hides things, life will definitely not be good.

Whether to break up or not still needs to be decided by yourself in the end, as long as you think about it carefully, if you leave him, will you regret it, if you leave him, will your life be better, and then integrate the opinions of your parents and family! Be decisive!

Let's ask what happened first, it's not easy to be together. If your boyfriend is really in love, he won't hide anything from you, and even if he does, he won't hide it from you, because you are his girlfriend, and a boy who really loves his girlfriend wants to kill only her, not lie to her.

That's it without getting married! Or points.

I want to ask you.,My girlfriend also created a QQ trumpet.,Full of me 22.,During this period I asked her many times.,She said no.,I haven't looked at her QQ until now and there's nothing to betray me.,Did I think about it more? Why did he hide it? Has he ever done anything to be sorry for you?

You don't have to think about it.

Once this kind of person has something, he will definitely not give up. But if you like flamboyant tongues, surely this kind of person is not good, they will not deceive, they will not be romantic, they will not lie to make you happy.

In fact, women need to be coaxed.

So it's okay to find someone who will trick you into being happy, but you'll be worried about him tricking you into doing something you don't like out there.

There are two sides to everything.

It's the same with my boyfriend. At first, I was not used to him treating me like this, and I didn't think he loved me very much. But through contact, he slowly discovered that this is how he loves someone.

He should belong to the person who is not good at expressing himself, but loves you and will prove it with his actions, and you can observe him again. I now think that this kind of love is actually very good and more mature. Loved it.

Wishing you happiness!

Haha, you think it's honest, it can be counted, but I think it's his low emotional intelligence, in fact, the answer to many questions is nothing more than the real meaning of that kind, but different people can answer to make people feel different effects, if I answer I will say, I can't guarantee that I will always be by your side, but my heart will always be with you, but you can rest assured, there is nothing wrong with an upright man, it is true that straight words in love hurt girls, girls are sentimental, but since you understand him, you can get used to it.

A particularly honest person, who makes people feel wooden, is called inactive in Nanjing, but this kind of person is a very real person, he will not have too much thought, he only knows that you are good to him, he will be better to you, although there is less romance, but he is indeed a person who lives a life. The premise is that you can't put your own ideas into it, and you want him to do and say it according to your ideas, after a long time, there will inevitably be a gap.

There is nothing wrong with an honest man, at least not pretentious! I sometimes quarrel with my husband because he is dishonest. There are many ways to deceive yourself, and you must not let the person you love blindfold you, in case one day when you need to face reality, you will be hurt!

This is not called honesty, this is called not being able to speak, let alone friends, if you talk like this, it will not be much better in the unit and in society!

You're asking questions in the wrong way. No one can guarantee how long they will live. You are transferring your helplessness to your significant other. Love is not absolute. It's relative.

Congratulations, no one is perfect, when you meet this kind of person, although it is not as beautiful as sweet words, but it is true.

Why don't you change your way, knowing that he has this kind of character, you still can't be happy.

Maybe it's fun to change the way you ask questions?

Husbands and wives should be honest, although sometimes it is very angry to speak, but if you have to choose, will you choose an honest one or a frequent liar?

A very honest man, looking for a job, an independent woman is the most attractive.

My boyfriend is like that too, and I choose not to ask this kind of question, just knowing that he's been there.

You think less, just look at the opening point.

This brute is honest and will not coax you because of his character.

It's best to find a lawyer to ask.

It's hard if you express it when the other person doesn't have it yet. It's not too late at all. If the other party already has it at the time of the war. You're a little late.

You should tell your boyfriend to be honest! Your boyfriend will forgive you.

Let's say it sooner....So as not to trouble in the future.

You don't have to blame yourself!

The current respect understands you and doesn't care about your past, which shows that he is willing to accept everything from you!

Don't think too much about it, be good to your current boyfriend, and you will be happy!

It doesn't matter, since he loves you, he won't care so much. Relax your mind.

I've had this happen to me as well, I'm a man.

If you can't get over it with your conscience, then cherish the moment, right?

In the future, just love him more, let him feel the warmth of love, and let him know that he is the only one for you.

He can respect your own choice, and the child is also ready to carry this black pot, feel uncomfortable, just love him, such a man is also worthy of love.

Then you can be kind to him in the future.

From now on, it's good to be single-minded about the incumbent.

It was an accident, and your boyfriend understands you.