I m tired of chatting with netizens, I m really tired of chatting online

Now it's difficult to soak mm on the Internet, unlike before, the Internet is still a new thing, it is very novel to meet strangers on the Internet and talk to yourself, and talk to you very seriously, now the chat mm is mostly 80, 90, the Internet is not surprising to them, just like eating every day, there are a lot of people chatting with them on QQ, if you don't have a special place to attract them, of course, you will be perfunctory.

1。Ignore them and play the game by yourself.

2.She gives you an "oh" and you send her two more "ohs".

Actually, if the other party says oh......

It means that the other party doesn't want to talk about it, or doesn't know how to go on.

So you have to look at your chat history, and if there's nothing embarrassing about the other person, it must be that he doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

Many netizens will have this problem.

It's just that there's nothing to mention.,If 2 people don't find a topic.,Isn't it just after a few greetings.,Well,Oh?。

Girls love to be beautiful, like perfumes, horoscopes, clothes, handsome guys, stars, etc.

You can find topics from these to pique his interest.

When he is interested, he will naturally be able to open the conversation.

Teach you a way!

You use their words to talk to the robot, and then you copy what the robot says to them, and they don't get tired!

Then don't talk about it, what are you doing when you're embarrassed, are you helpless, do you have something to talk about? Say it.

I didn't go out all day, I nested in my own nest, maybe because I was alone, I was a little depressed, you can say I'm cranky, you can say I'm sentimental, or it's because I listened to a few songs, as if the lyrics are singing myself.

A friend told me before that when I was busy, I wouldn't think about what I didn't have, but sometimes my emotions came up and it was difficult for me to control it.

In the past, because of my introverted personality, I had fewer friends, but later I got a mobile phone and slowly became obsessed with chatting online to "make friends". On the Internet, I pretend to be very lively and cheerful, chatting with others, and I have some social phobia because I don't have to communicate with others face-to-face on the Internet, and I don't meet in reality, I can say what I want to say, and I have gradually become "cheerful", but in reality I am still the introverted me.

Of course, I didn't completely dismiss online chatting, and I also met some friends through online chat. But slowly, there will always be a moment when I feel tired of chatting online, and I can only use cold texts, I can't hear the other party's tone, I can't see the other party's expression, and everyone's understanding of the text is different, and naturally there will be some unnecessary misunderstandings. After getting acquainted, although there is a voice, ** call, but the distance has become a problem, two people and more people separated by two places can express their thoughts about each other through voice, **, why the breakup rate of long-distance relationships is so high, part of the reason is because the two sides did not do face-to-face communication and exchange when they had conflicts, and the misunderstanding will become deeper and deeper; When the other party is sick, in addition to saying "take good medicine", "rest well", "take care of yourself", ......It seems that it is difficult to put into action, and some feelings need communication to maintain, and some feelings need action to maintain.

When it's cold, even if you don't say it, I'll remember to dress more; If my stomach hurts, even if you don't say it, I will remember to buy medicine; ......There are many, many things, even if you don't say it, I know it, and all I want is an attitude in action.

Of course, long-distance relationships are not all sad endings, and there are lovers who eventually become married, but in my opinion, they are all based on deep feelings.

In recent days, the chat box has not been lit up except for WeChat sports and group messages, and I suddenly found out that the reason why I was chatting every day before was because I started the daily chat, and the chat box was much quieter after I didn't take the initiative to send a message. Some people may not have any intersection if they don't chat one day, but compared to the written chat on the Internet, I still prefer face-to-face communication in reality.

Maybe I won't think that way tomorrow, but that's what I'm thinking at the moment).

August 22, 2021.

The answer to the question of whether someone will feel the same way if they are having a good time with each other depends on each person's personality and experience. But generally speaking, when you feel comfortable and relaxed with someone, the other person will feel similar.

Psychological research has shown that when people are in a comfortable, safe social environment, they tend to feel more relaxed, at ease, and more likely to build good interpersonal relationships. In this case, the other person may also feel relaxed, comfortable, and willing to build a deeper relationship with you.

However, it is important to note that everyone's personality and experience are different, so this phenomenon is not fixed. Some people may be more sensitive or nervous easily, and may feel uncomfortable even in a comfortable environment. In addition, there may be some communication issues or misunderstandings that lead to inconsistent feelings about the relationship.