How to live the most ordinary life?

After reading what you wrote, I don't know what to say, because I had such a classmate in high school. We all had high expectations for him, but in the end we were all disappointed. It's similar to yours, we really hoped, we really hoped that he would come back, but in the end he didn't come back.

Think about your own bright future, you should have a good future, why can't you make it happen. It's up to you! Set yourself a goal, give yourself confidence, (because you're smart) so you can achieve it.

Can you do it? Have confidence in yourself?

It's not too late to make amends.

Hope it helps you. Go for it! There are a lot of people watching you next to you, for yourself and for your family. Believe in yourself! It can be done.

The knot still needs to be solved by yourself.

Your problem is that you are too empty to find what you want to do, no purpose, no direction in life.

Goal doesn't mean you have to study hard, at least find what you love to do and strive for it. You can like to draw, or work hard for a girl you really like, anything, as long as you don't hurt others. Instead of wasting his youth in blindness as he is now.

You have a good advantage, but you can't use it well, you are good at drawing, you should be interested in drawing, then you can draw what you think, paint to have a sense of art, let everyone agree with you, make achievements in art, and become an artist is also very good.

Young people need to learn to restrain themselves! You have to have your own direction in life and live a meaningful life.

Minimalist life doesn't just mean that we have fewer things in life. In the same way, we need to constantly empty our minds of the clutter. If you can't cut off those boring thoughts, you can't really live a minimalist life.

When you start subtracting from your life, it will naturally free up more free time. You can accompany your parents, you can also read books, play sports. In short, this way will give you more options, rather than spinning like a spinning top all the time.

Article **4 III. Reduction of article requirements.

To put it simply, everything in your room is necessary, not redundant. If you've ever seen the homes of some celebrities in South Korea, they have a lot of space in their rooms and only have one bed. It's a bit like a deliberate blank space in Japanese art and culture.

Seriously, there is a limit to what we can really use, but there is no limit to what we want. Only by taking your real needs seriously can you find your own comfortable minimalist life.

Without desires, life will be much simpler.

Put personnel aside, focus on your own interests, shop without paying attention to face, do not extravagant, do not compare, do not spend money indiscriminately, ......etc

Live the life you can live?!

Or do you want to live the life you want?!

Is the former better or the latter?!

Living the life you can be content with may be happy! Maybe happier! It looks conservative, but it is more based on its own objective reality, and its earning ability and living standards are consistent! Your own virtue can match your own power and responsibility!

To live the life you want, first of all, you are not satisfied with your current life or state of existence, and there is nothing wrong with having good wishes! But if you don't have the ability, don't learn, and don't work hard, then it's far from realistic! The most taboo is not worthy, it's lazy to eat, it's so high, it's a great achievement!

Live the life you can live, and maybe you can play the bad cards imposed on you in life smoothly and wonderfully!

Live the life you want, maybe you can achieve it by working hard! even broke the backwater and became a reformer or pioneer in a certain field!

Therefore, living the life you can live and living the life you want are not a problem for both types of people! It's also the kind of positive people in the crowd! To put it bigger: the former stabilizes society, and the latter transforms society!

I'm afraid of breaking jars, breaking people's hearts higher than the sky, and those whose lives are thinner than paper! They are very different from the first two kinds of people!

Life is not easy, live the life you can live, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and the flowers bloom before the court! Don't be surprised, watch the people around you come and go! It's also a wise choice.

Life is short, live the life you want, and look far away from suffering! Down-to-earth, forge ahead, although tired and potential explodes, although hard but successful! If you enrich yourself materially and spiritually, and enjoy your health and longevity, you will undoubtedly win in life!

If you can inspire others and benefit others, you will become famous in history!

It is said: Yan has left a voice, and people have left a name! But don't be yourself!

Do what you do today, and it will be easy today. Because there is no accumulation of arguments, tomorrow will be easy. Simple things will accumulate and become troublesome and complicated, and simple things will become easier and easier when they are done today.

Books that are no longer needed can be donated to the library, or they can be resold on the details page of Douban's book and socks shooting. The clothes that are no longer worn can be given away or donated to the old clothes ** downstairs in the community.

Do your best to minimise the impact of discarded items on the surrounding environment.

When buying something, you don't need to choose fancy and impractical items, be clear about your real needs, and choose those items with simple appearance and high usage rate; Just like a minimalist life toothbrush that subtracts all unnecessary processing processes and only retains the material and function itself, the bristles of the toothbrush are very soft and dense, and the experience is very good, which also brings a more refined life to yourself.

Clear the distractions in your mind, reduce the time that negative emotions stay in your heart, and don't bother with unnecessary things.

Learn to "throw" materially, "reject" spiritually, and "tidy up" in life. The items you pick up are often used, and the thoughts that come to mind at any time are long-term thoughts. You can give yourself some alone time every day for meditation, chanting, and meditation.