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In the workplace, each of us is playing our own role, and socializing with colleagues and others becomes our work social circle. In this circle, there are all kinds of characters, some are workaholics, some are gossip freaks, some are upright, and some are on both sides of the wall. People who fall on both sides of the wall are the most unassertive, and they are also the easiest to betray others, so in the workplace, they may become unflattering and extremely poor in the workplace, and even be excluded by everyone.
1. Both sides are not pleased. For a person who is a grass on the wall, first of all, it is a kind of uncertainty in the attitude, both sides are afraid of offending people, and in one is what is said to both sides, a bit of talking about people, talking nonsense, and even a little bit of telling right and wrong. It is precisely because of this that for the wall grass, both sides will feel particularly disgusted, and both sides will express bad feelings to this person, which is naturally a displeasure, and the bamboo basket is empty.
2. Extremely poor popularity. For a wallhead, it is unlikely that each of us can say that he is a true friend, and in the workplace, I agree that the heart of defense is indispensable, and the heart of harm is indispensable. In the workplace, the relationship of interests is very clear, if you don't offend me, I won't offend you, and you, as a wallhead, are extremely easy to betray others, so your popularity will be very poor.
3. Exclusion. As I just said, as a wall grass, it is easy to cause the pump to violate others in the workplace, and even talk about others behind your back, make small reports, etc., such words come and go, when everyone knows who you are, do you still expect them to be good to you? It's also normal to crowd out the wallgrass.
4. Liked by superiors. Of course, one thing that cannot be ruled out is that the most successful as a wall grass: the good old man! Both sides are not offended, and both sides are flattered, in the eyes of the boss, the relationship between colleagues is harmonious, in the eyes of colleagues is harmless, and it may be liked by the boss.
In any case, in the workplace as a wall grass is definitely more harmful than good, we should be in the workplace to complete the job as the premise, some other interests, relationships, etc., vary from person to person, weigh it yourself.
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Colleagues will gradually distance themselves from him and ostracize him. He was not promoted at work, and no one wanted to help him.
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In the end, both sides will not be trusted, and in the end, they will not be able to handle the relationship with their colleagues at work.
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Those who fall on both sides often fall into nothing, but will be spurned by people on both sides. Therefore, it is necessary to be honest and down-to-earth in work.
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These people will rise step by step in their work, because such people will be considered to be left and right in the workplace, and no one will be offended.
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That is to say, a person has no opinion! Listen to this and think this is right, listen to that and think that is right! Another is flattery!
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Don't offend or have a deep friendship, and be separated from him! Don't believe in this kind of person, but it's best not to mess with him, they are too scheming, and ordinary people can't fight.
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Maintain a certain degree of interaction with such people, and do not have deep friendships.
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Don't deal with it, treat it.
It is not that the man who falls on both sides is without principles, but that the cruel reality has made him temporarily abandon his principles. Therefore, as long as this person is okay with you, there is no need to worry. If such a person is not good for you, it means that you are in an extremely disadvantageous position and you need to change places.
In the future, treat such a person in moderation, that is, respect him, otherwise you will be unlucky, but do not approach him, it will also make him uneasy.
It's important that you have people who can support you in any environment.
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Ignore this kind of person, don't see him, and sometimes you can take advantage of him, and he should be cruel and not merciful to this kind of person.
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Do your part, the so-called out of the mud without staining, can't you afford to provoke it, can't you hide it?
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Lee is the social river crab.
The downside is that there are fewer and fewer principles.
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No assertiveness, blind obedience.
It is easy to be misled.
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That's a natural landscape! Spectacular! Can you say that one side of the wall is not society? Then again, why turn a blind eye to the living environment of the wallgrass? In addition, [Fronckley] said that it would cause social tragedy.
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It's not terrible, this kind of person can know each other, but can't intersect, and if you leave a little bit of everything, you will definitely be safe. Anyone can know each other, and the key to whether to make friends or not lies in themselves.
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The wind blows the grass on the wall, and the people who fall on both sides are not worthy of deep friendship, they can be friends.
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Of course, it's not worth having a deep relationship, this kind of person can just get by on the surface, don't believe him too much, and don't make too many remarks in front of this kind of person, just perfunctory.
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This kind of person has no backbone, has an unstable position, it is difficult to do things well, it is difficult for him to be entrusted with heavy responsibilities, and it is not worth your deep friendship, so as not to waste time and energy.
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It is two-faced to describe people who have no opinions and will only fall with the wind.
From: 1, Chapter 23 of Feng Zhi's "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines": "A person should rather bend for the country, and don't be a grass on the wall." ”
2, Chapter 26 of Mo Yingfeng's "The General's Yin": "You young people are all grass on the wall, and the wind blows on both sides. ”
Duplicity refers to people who are inconsistent with each other and have a purpose and an intention to do it deliberately. implying that the actions carried out are incompatible or contradictory to the public appearance; Sometimes it indicates an act of betrayal.
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The grass on the wall, on both sides, describes people as having no opinions and falling down.
Source: Feng Zhi's "Behind the Enemy Lines" Chapter 23: "A person should rather bend for the country, and don't be a wall grass." ”
Example: Chapter 26 of Mo Yingfeng's "The General's Yin": "You young people are all grass on the wall, and the wind blows on both sides. ”
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There is a saying that the wall grass is poured on both sides. Describe a person who has no assertiveness and sees the wind as the rudder.
Wall grass: Whichever side has the advantage, which side is stronger, he will fall to whichever side.
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Half describe people who have no position, perfunctory trends, and like to stammer with others.
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Go with the flow, bully the soft and fear the hard, be two-faced, and be able to see the form clearly.
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The position is not firm, drifting with the tide, seeing the wind and steering the rudder, whoever is strong will mix with whom.
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There is no positioning of its own! Whoever is strong gives whom! Be a good person left and right.
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