I want to give my girlfriend a book to change her thinking personality

A book? Then I ask you: when you are very hungry. Can you eat half a steamed bun?

Actually, the truth is pretty much the same.

It's impossible to change a person's personality just because you want to use a book.

I don't think you're doing your boyfriend's job either. It seems that your charisma has not infected your girlfriend. She still goes her own way. When you want to change others, you should change yourself first.

No one can be changed by a book, a word. The so-called change is just a node reached after the accumulation of previous life experiences. The change of thinking personality is even more complicated.

In addition, I gave her books about gratitude and cherishing... IMHO, not only useless, but probably disgusting her. The correct solution is to tolerate her like a man, and slowly change her in the relationship between two people.

In fact, the landlord you don't necessarily have how mature you are, since the two of them love each other, let's grow together.

In other words, Zhang Ailing and Zhang Xiaoxian have nothing to do with gratitude or anything... I'm starting to wonder what you want, landlord.。。。 If it's just good literature, I can still recommend some to you)

Guide her, she doesn't pick up when she goes out with you, and says to her afterwards that you have something very important and doesn't look at her**. Admit your mistake to her. At this time, you can talk about how tired you are as a man, and you have to understand.

Like a person is not required to change, only adaptation.

First say it directly, it doesn't work, and then it goes roundabout.

This kind of person has a very tensile personality and can only use gentle methods. In the evening, whisper.

You make an agreement with her, for example, if she doesn't pick you up ** once, you don't pick up once, just like that, she can feel it

Chicken soup for the soul may be able to warm the hearts of both of you and make up for some of the scars! But you have to buy two sets, study them together, feel them, and most importantly share them in each other's lives, communicate them, and then you will understand!

I don't know what your girlfriend's personality looks like, but I think you have a lot of pressure at work, so you can buy her a joke book to relieve stress and relax

Anything to give is judged according to the recipient's personality preferences, and if you don't know what she likes, it proves that you don't know her!

Send a book based on your shared hobby,。。 It's up to you to decide for yourself. But don't send books on love and marriage.

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Recommend an American writer Mitchell's [Drift], it is a ** describing the American Revolutionary War, the classic movie [Gone with the Wind] is based on this**, I hope she can like it.

Looking at her preferences and personality, the literary and artistic type is still a female man.

Send a sweeter and more beautiful **, which will be of great help to your future development. This trick is my stunt, see if I pass it on to you, give me a look.

Strong thinking and debating skills?

I also love to read, and I recommend you a copy of "Strategic Thinking", this book is very famous, I have read it, it is very suitable, and it should be very attractive to her.

I'll give you a good recommendation.

Dialogue with God series.

Definitely perfect for your girlfriend

It should be a girlfriend, so let's call it that

There was no war in Beiping, and the sorrow of August (author Lin Huiyin) caused the oak tree.

Give her a set of books about detectives....

Hilarious campus, comic books, hahaha.

Give her an original copy of "Critical Thinking" in English

Recommend inspirational stories. Dream of Red Mansions, Jinghua Yanyun, Lin Huiyin. I've seen them all, and they're all good.

Since it's a friend, I gave Zhang Jiajia's "Let Me Be in Your Body" written from the perspective of a dog, which is good. Joy and warmth.

The English name of the book "Love is the Answer" is "The Secert About Life Every Woman Should Konw" "Re-encounter the Position of Self" Zhang Defen's new book, the previous book Zhang Defen is also recommended, all of Zhang Defen's books are worth reading.

The secret "Power" teaches you to change your fate.

The Power of the Moment to know your own thoughts.

The book "Zero Limit" is amazing, and it is a little difficult for ordinary people to accept.

The Four Disciplines of Fan are the same as the zero limit, the wisdom of the ancients is too strong, and I bought it to be explained by the Pure Space Mage.

The above books are all about teaching you to cultivate your mind, and only when you are rich in your heart can you be perfect on the outside.

Agree to go upstairs, especially The Secret, and the Enneagram.

"Love in the World" is a semi-autobiographical and semi-fictional ** written by Su Xiaolan (real name Su Shanshan), which tells all kinds of interesting things that happen to a couple and the management of a happy life before and after marriage. Each story is an independent piece, completely life-like language, the sentences are simple and brisk, without too much ornate embellishment, and it is easy and witty to read, which makes people laugh. The author Su Xiaolazy is the writer of "The Most **" and has written for many domestic newspapers and magazines.

Lejia's FPA personality colorology, there are a total of four books.

Love still has to be cultivated by itself, but you can take a look at the book "Love in the World". It is written about some ordinary life, in the form of dialogue, but between the lines "interprets love".

Take a look at "Interview with Cupid".

Communicate more directly.

In this era, if she can read a few books with peace of mind, she will not be boring.

In the fast-paced era, it seems that reading is too slow.