If you lose it, should you give it up?

Losing it doesn't mean you have to give up. It depends on what you think, whether it's worth continuing to pursue. Continue to pursue what has been lost, as long as you can really use action and time, it is very likely that you will turn what you have lost into your own hands.

But I suggest that if you really feel physically exhausted, it is better to give up, who has not experienced it a few times, only if you always lose your heart, you will cherish what you have next time.

Do you want to see if what you've lost is important to you? If it's important to you, you should go for it, but he doesn't have feelings for you, and all you have to do is be strong and go on. Believe that you are not bad So, tell if the relationship is worth it for you?

Go down the path you choose!

That is, there is no courage to recover, and there is no courage to give up! It's painful, it's really painful, I don't know what to do, I just want to find a place where no one is around, and I can only stay quietly. Let no one see and see no one.

When true love is lost, it doesn't mean that you can give up! It is also irretrievable! I just feel that everything around me is meaningless!

After the loss, you can see your own shortcomings and the problems that exist in your opinion, calm down and think about it, if it is still worth it, go to redeem it, if there is no worthwhile part in the memory. It's okay to give up such love!

I've lost it, so of course I'm going to have to give up. But the memories that we shared can be preserved. And the only one left for you.

Do you still want to chase it back? That's impossible to strangle. Often lost when you know the cherish!So. I can only give up!

If you lose it, you have to see how you lose it, if you have never got it, give it up, if you have not cherished it, you will work hard!

Losing doesn't mean you have to give up. You can silently bless you! You can keep this longing in your memory.

Sometimes it's only when you decide to give up something that you can't have the happiness you can't have at the same time.

Losing is the beginning of gaining, and since everything has been lost, what else can't you give up!

You can still fight for loss, it depends on how you choose Don't leave yourself with regrets.

??Losing proves that he (she) doesn't love you anymore, and it's useless to keep it.

If you like it, you have to give it up, and you have to regret it!

yes, then give up and face reality.

If you've already lost it, why bother?

When you see the word "abandonment", what is your first feeling?

To give up and to give up, in short, is the meaning of giving up and abandoning. When you see this explanation, do you feel that if you have to throw away something, it will also make you lose something?

It turns out that this is not the case. In fact, in the process of continuous growth, it is also a process of subtracting from oneself. Many times, when you encounter something that is not worth your sadness or is not worth your time, and you exhaust your mind in it, abandon it, in fact, it is also for your own good.

Abandonment, many times, does not mean loss.

A reader once told me about such a thing. She asked me, do you think I should break up with my boyfriend.

Readers, let's call her Xiaoyu for the time being. When Xiaoyu was in college, she chose her boyfriend Xiaoqiang, and the two were not in the same city at that time. In fact, compared with the college couples who are tired of being together every day, Xiaoyu enjoys the state of the two of them more.

Everyone has their own independent space, and they don't have to squeeze out some time to do something they want to do in order to be with each other. In the beginning, love looks good.

Although the two are in a long-distance relationship, they always see each other every three months. Most of the time, it is Xiaoqiang who comes to Xiaoyu, because for girls, it is still a little unsafe to go out. It is precisely because of this that Xiaoyu also understands Xiaoqiang's hard work when he comes to see him, so she will care about him twice as much every time.

However, later, when the two of them gradually stopped talking about so much, and they rarely chatted every day, and they didn't even care about each other's lives, Xiaoyu gradually felt panicked.

What's the matter, could it be that I'm doing something wrong or that he has someone else out there. I don't know when it started, Xiaoqiang no longer took the initiative to chat with himself, and the number of times he came to Xiaoyu's city to find Xiaoyu became less and less. Xiaoyu felt the danger of this relationship, so she thought that before Valentine's Day came, she quietly went to Xiaoqiang to give it to her.

Create a surprise and add some good spice to the relationship. However, what Xiaoyu didn't expect was that this time they broke up.

At that time, when Xiaoqiang saw Xiaoyu, he didn't have much throbbing. Two people went back.

Hello dear. Giving up is not the same as losing, and giving up is likely to be lost. But if you don't give up, you can't get it as soon as you celebrate it. If you don't give up knowing that you won't be able to get around, it's not a wise end.

You may have loved each other, and you may have liked each other, but for what reason have you not been able to get together?

Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends.

Maybe you didn't stay together for the sake of your family's opinions.

Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.

Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other.

Maybe you've met too late, and you've already got another person by your side.

Maybe you're too late to turn around, and the other person is no longer waiting.

Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts.

But even though you're not together, you're still friends. But you know in your hearts that you care more about this person than your friends. Even if you can't hold hands with him and go shopping early, you can still be friends who can talk about everything.

He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't really know if you really want him to chase him.

When he is in trouble, you will do what you can to help him, regardless of who owes him. When your boyfriend and girlfriend are jealous, you will reassure them that you and he are just friends, but there will be a trace of uncertainty in your heart. Everyone has had such a special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behavior.

At first, you were reluctant to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly realized that this is the best.

You'd rather care about him like that than you stay together and one day break up.

You'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so you can really talk about everything.

Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you. can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend? This special friend in your heart ......Who is it?

A lot of feelings, because of wishful thinking, in the end they can't even be friends, and they often feel sorry. It's a pity that some originally good friendships, but in the end because the other party likes you, if you don't react, this friendship seems to be difficult to maintain, and it's no wonder that some people are reluctant to take this step.

Because it's like a bet, after confessing, you either become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you can't even be a friend. Some things are not what you can expect, maybe the other party doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before, it's a pity, it's a pity! But is there another possibility that you may never be reconciled to just being a friend ......

There are many kinds of helplessness in life!It's all about going through.

Life is so cruel.

Giving up does not mean losing, only giving up will have another gain. Giving up is beautiful, and for a person like a draft, this state seems difficult to achieve, but walking with a burden will be even harder! As long as we have a positive and optimistic attitude, we will become beautiful when we lose.

When an old man got on the train, he accidentally lost a new shoe he had just bought, and the people around him felt sorry for him. However, to the surprise of many, the old man immediately threw another shoe out of the window, and no one could understand his behavior. But the old man explained with a smile:

No matter how expensive these shoes are, they are useless to me, and if anyone picks up a pair of shoes, they may be able to wear them! Sometimes when we are faced with something, it is better to give up than to cling to the incompleteness. We've all had the experience of losing something important, and we've all left a shadow on our hearts.

The reason is that we have not adjusted our mentality to face the gains and losses, we have not psychologically admitted the gains and losses, and we always remember those things that no longer exist. In fact, instead of being upset about what you have lost, it is better to face up to reality and think about it from a different perspective: maybe your confession of filial piety is what others have gained.

Therefore, facing gains and losses correctly is also a state of life.

True happiness is a spiritual pleasure, not measured by money and the amount of things you have. Wealthy businessmen and bosses in today's society are drunk with money, spendthrift money, and messy all day long, they drive famous cars and live in luxury houses, but they are not happy. And some celebrities, even ordinary working-class people, are frugal and unpretentious, but they devote themselves to charity and support those in need, although they themselves do not enjoy much, but their hearts are very full and happy.

Losing and giving up seem to have nothing to do with someone or something anymore, but when you look at it, they are fundamentally different. Losing has a hint of passivity, while giving up is more about actively disconnecting. And between this initiative and passivity, there are different consequences.

We all hover between gains and losses, rejoicing when we gain and grieving when we lose. And the loss of grief is most likely when you have to give up. If you take the initiative to choose to give up, it means that you don't need the other party, whether it is a person or a thing, and the resulting loss will only feel relaxed and not sad.

As a result, the mentality of having to do and the passive choice will be the root cause of sadness.

We are born as human beings, and we are full of feelings, and if we can't correct our hearts about gains and losses, how tormenting it will be. Therefore, the Buddha listed "not being able to ask" as one of the eight sufferings. Only by looking down on the gains and losses can we avoid suffering.