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The rewards are so many, okay. First of all, you study hard, you are an excellent student in the eyes of the teacher, and then your classmates will envy you, your parents will be happy because of your good grades, and you will agree to your requests if they are not excessive, and you will be admitted to a good school and find a good job because of your hard study in the future!
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Material rewards can sometimes dampen a child's curiosity, so it's better to praise them. If you're a student asking for yourself, it's up to you.
One is learning in school, as above, if you only study for the reward, then what happens when there is no reward? Will you still learn?
The other is non-book learning, like this....Usually no one will give you a reward, but learning itself is a reward (of course, it refers to the good aspects of learning).
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If you don't study hard, punishment is indispensable...
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First of all, let's figure out a problem, learning is your own business, and learning well is for your own good. In addition, you may find that the good students around you are not only praised by teachers and parents, but also that you can do a lot of things you want to do in addition to studying, and generally no one will say anything about you, so as to cultivate your own interests. Hehe.
Just a suggestion,...It's up to you to decide.
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The reward for doing well is a good life in the future.
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Study well, report the motherland, and get a good job.
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A certificate of merit. If you study hard and win an award, it will be a certificate of honor.
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Spiritually praised. Materially on the RMB
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Good grades are the best reward.
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It is very good practice to motivate children to learn appropriately with material things. However, you can't use this method every time, you can use it with other reward methods.
One. The positive effect of material rewards.
It can effectively stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning.
Material rewards are undoubtedly the best way for children to reward them. In this way, children can naturally get what they want and enjoy themselves physically and mentally. It is more effective to devote itself to learning.
It can deepen the parent-child relationship.
Good academic performance and buying gifts for children is the most direct way for parents to express their love for their children, and it is also the most intuitive way for children to feel their parents' love for them.
Two. Drawbacks of material rewards.
It can develop a bad habit that your child likes to ask for things.
Long-term use of material rewards can lead to severe dependence in children. If you think you will do well in the exam, you must buy things and gifts. If he doesn't fulfill it, he will blame his parents, whether he doesn't love him anymore, whether he forgets him. This is very detrimental to a child's mental health.
(2) It can distort children's view of money.
As long as the grades are good, there will be gifts. Will the gift become the child's goal in learning? Over time, you will forget the original motivation and ultimate goal of learning to be good.
Resolution
Mix and match different forms of rewards
A hug, a light kiss. A phrase of "you are awesome".
This is the simplest, but the truest love. Proper physical contact and heartfelt praise will make children truly feel the charm of love.
(2) Take time to spend more time with your children.
Make time to play with your children. Participate in outdoor activities, play badminton, play football, plant flowers, pick fruits and vegetables, etc. Even if you bring it to home and do your homework with your child, your child will be very happy.
There are many ways to reward your child, and there are many ways to love your child, so please don't be stingy and give it to your child!
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