My boyfriend s behavior has put me in a dilemma, and I should change what to do

Updated on society 2024-04-04
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't know if you like to hear it? I don't think you guys have a deep relationship, he seems to have a personality problem. People think differently.,My boyfriend is the same age as me 87 years old.,He never likes to play.,From the beginning of the acquaintance.,His QQ is all I'm on.,Of course, the above is his friend and colleague.,,Everyone knows.,It doesn't matter.。。

    Your boyfriend is the extroverted kind, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, but if you want him to focus on you wholeheartedly, you still have to work hard and catch your love... I don't know if you understand, hehe, I wish you a happy day...

    Also, don't be careful, hehe, a girl chats with my boyfriend, and I stand behind him and teach him... Great support... In fact, men are very realistic.,Distinguish the Internet and reality very clearly.,You're his closest person.。。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Cut, be careful.

    Do you like that your boyfriend is an old master? It's normal for men to have this preference.

    If not, it means that he still cares about you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Beauty is the highest state of human pursuit. Everybody likes it. It's a really good feeling to talk to girls.

    Have you ever heard of "being affectionate and stopping at courtesy"? As long as you can do that, I think you'll be perfectly okay with that. And if he goes beyond that, you'll have to think about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are online dating, from the beginning of the starting point is too avant-garde, the impression of online dating boys will be very frivolous, girls are very naïve, hehe, when your boyfriend chats with you, he must also chat with other beauties at the same time, and finally you take the bait, hehe, he won't stop, this is the nature of men, the nature of love and crush chat can't be changed, what you see is there, what you don't see is not necessarily what it looks like, if it's love, you can get along, if you want to get married, pull it down as soon as possible, This kind of man is a hundred unreliable, and there are few online dating killings, you are careful that you take more and more care of him, he turns his face with you, and pays attention to his personal safety, you don't know his --- at all

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Talk to him and make your mind clear. He'll take into account your feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is the nature of boys, you don't have to go to your heart, men are general, and they see beautiful women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe. Most of us men are like this, sweat, and sometimes we just talk about what we have nothing to do. Just kidding. You don't have to think too much about it. As long as he's nice to you! Hee-hee !

    I have the impression that most of the boys in online dating will be very frivolous, and the girls are very naïve, and I think the sentence upstairs is the opposite. It should be that the boy is very naïve, right? A girl born in the 90s. It's not easy! Played the boy like a log.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Have you ever thought about it, haven't you talked to a male netizen... Right... You are my first person ... Thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should talk to him first, because I don't know how you met, so I can't talk about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is it just a serious conversation in the group?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel uncomfortable, ask him about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Mom just feels sorry for her daughter, boyfriend just wants to be with you more, no one is wrong, and you shouldn't take it too seriously. When you encounter such a thing, you can be coquettish at them, and they will not take it seriously.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Wear multiple pieces of clothing and hold your boyfriend tight.

    Change the subject with your mom and be coquettish.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The date time must be limited, just take a taxi! Each of them has its own reasoning!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The relationship between parents and boyfriends should be handled well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend and I are a type of person in this regard, and I would love to change her.

    If he's psychologically similar to me, he's actually very, very concerned about you, that's why he's so nice to you. It's right to say that he's careful, and it's right to care about you, but in fact, many guys want to change their girlfriends, which can be a manifestation of possessiveness, because making others change can bring a sense of accomplishment to themselves to some extent. He doesn't want you to give you so much that he doesn't need you in return.

    He wants you to give more, he wants you to do more for him, so he wants to see you change.

    Some things don't necessarily mean that he really thinks you're doing badly, maybe it's just a psychological trick. But please be more tolerant of him, and make some changes so that he can see it.

    Give him more surprises and romance, just like he gave you.

    A guy who often feels romantic and surprised, will definitely not lose his temper unnecessarily, he will only be better and better to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Caring for you and careful eyes are both! If you want to start a family, you have to compromise on both sides. There will be quarrels, pay attention to the grasp, and over time you will gradually get used to it.

    Sometimes the guy's opinion is more rational, he thinks that some of your friends may not bring you benefits, but he won't say it explicitly, and he is a bit machismo. In short, this matter still has to be slowly run in over time, don't worry! This is my personal experience, he really loves you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I also have similarities with you, sometimes I am really cautious, I have also thought about whose problem it is, but at best he solves the problem with silence, my own analysis is that they are a little machismo and very dominant, they want their girlfriends to listen to them in everything, can not be a little different from them, there are many times when what they do is clearly wrong and you are not allowed to have something to say, these performances have the component of caring about you and the shortcomings of being cautious.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think love is a matter of two people, when both parties are together, more or less will change a little for each other, or tolerate each other, you can try to change yourself, and at the same time communicate with him, let him also make changes for you, if you can't do it, I think it's better for two people to separate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be careful, have a bad personality, dump him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think he really loves you He loves the ideal lover in his heart Change your personality Change your hobbies In my opinion, it's not worth losing so much for love You two are still divided It's better to be in pain for a while than in a lifetime (it's not too much to change anything for a small life For the sake of love, you still don't have to make such a big move).

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forehead. I'm a lot like your boyfriend. But I'm sure to tell you that I love my girlfriend very much, quite a lot. I believe your boyfriend loves you too.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I'm not mistaken, you all have different hobbies, maybe sometimes you feel like you don't have a common language? Forehead. This relationship problem is so complicated How did he treat you very well Do you love him very much If you love him very much You should be willing to change for him But now.

    Personally, I think you're still very much divided (in the case that you don't love him very much).

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Just because he's nice to you doesn't mean he loves you.

    For this kind of man, you have to jump out of his world first, no matter what he is angry or something, you have to tell him your own thoughts, you can't accommodate him, you have to let him accommodate you, otherwise you will not have a good time together in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe it's a little too much, it's that character, you try to communicate with him and try to see if it works.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He was quite possessive. He loves you, cares about you, and is afraid of losing you. You have low self-esteem but self-confidence.

    Low self-esteem is afraid that one day he will not be able to control you, and confident that he believes that he can change you. Your boyfriend is a smart guy. Such people can achieve great things.

    Communicate with him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This shows that he loves you too much, and a little too much

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You will be particularly unfortunate if your choice is not separation.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    All he cares about is his ideal girlfriend, so he's trying to build you. Girl, don't hesitate, it's painful to be separated, let's be separated for a while and think calmly with each other, and give him time to think about it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do you call this a friend?

    Compare your boyfriend to your own boyfriend.

    Is it for you?

    Emotional things are still pointing fingers at you for being filial.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Love or not is not decided by how much money you spend! Of course, it's normal to ask for money to spend once in a while!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Friends are also for your good, people who fall in love are often blind, Kaibei, you can try Yu Sun Fan to try. However, even if he buys you this and that, it doesn't fully show that he is sincere. What the relationship needs is the joint management of two people.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't listen to your so-called friend!!

    I don't think she deserves to be your friend at all!!

    If you ask your boyfriend for this, it will make your boyfriend doubt the purpose of your relationship with him, and even make Potato Sakura look down on you and hate you.

    So don't listen to your friends anymore.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    How old are you this year, I'm 23 years old this year, almost 24 people, I sometimes want to find someone to marry, but I can't do it if I ask me to marry someone casually, hehe, don't rush, take your time, marriage is to have feelings, otherwise it's not interesting to get married and leave that, it's best to find a suitable one, don't worry, there are too many older unmarried girls now.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't think most of the men who are constantly on the Internet will be good, after all, men's careers are important.

    I'm almost 25 years old, and I don't have a suitable marriage partner, if it's just to get married and find someone to marry, then I'd rather not get married.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The younger brother is 22 years old this year.

    Never marry before the age of 28.

    Career is the most important thing to make money.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    My husband and I met through games, and now it's a reality. And we're in a good relationship right now. We're getting married.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    e-Net Affection Deep" mixed test,

    Every night I sit before you.

    Although you and I have never met.

    A net binds you and me together.

    I know I can't live without this every single day.

    When I gently tap on the keyboard every time.

    You've had crying and smiling over there.

    Listening to your voice softens my heart.

    I know if it's online dating.

    You can see that you click on my name.

    I know that you click on my heart.

    The moon bends outside the window is proof of you and me.

    Every time I refresh my screen.

    Every time it refreshes my heart.

    I just wish you knew my screen name.

    You can see that you click on my name.

    I know that you click on my heart.

    I know I have a different kind of feeling.

    Every time I refresh my screen.

    Every time it refreshes my heart.

    It was the night breeze that blew my soul up.

    Ah, the e-network is deep.

    Ah, the e-network is deep.

    I believe it's fate.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's better not to, the luck index is pitiful. But it's just as hurtful as reality, and even more painful ......

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    A word of advice for you. Don't look online.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There is a lower chance of success. But don't have any illusions, it's better to look in reality.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    What's the use of you wandering, but if you really like him, go after him....But the Internet deceives people.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Listen to your parents ... I've seen a lot of things like yours, and most of them have developed into cups!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's a really hard situation, I guess you're a relatively young girl now. Because only when you are young, will your feelings follow your feelings. But I think if your boyfriend really loves you, he will respect your ideas and care about your feelings.

    Feelings and reality are often difficult to choose. Many people will choose a boyfriend at this time, because you know, when you choose a boyfriend, your parents will never turn their backs on you, and once you choose your family, your boyfriend will always turn their backs on you. Child, if you don't want to take a detour, and your boyfriend is unwilling to compromise, you still choose to listen to your parents' opinions, it can only show that you have no fate.

    Or you can discuss which side is better. Then take your parents to you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's a bit far, but doing business is definitely going to run around, you can go to his house to meet his parents, in fact, the parents' side is very important, it's not easy to find someone to love, and the money is not easy to earn, or take your parents over, so you won't be alone.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Ask yourself, do you love his mother, want to marry him, are you willing to wash his stinky clothes, and like to cook him fragrant meals? If the answer is yes, then !

    Don't ask him again, just tell him, "No matter what you decide, I have no complaints, you are my man, I don't believe who you believe" I can't think of 3 days, he will give you a satisfactory answer, because I used to say this to my husband!

    Bless you. Growing old together, good things happen one after another.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    The bottom of the kettle is drawn. What are the reasons for your family's disagreement? Do you think it makes sense? Is it ridiculous? If it's ridiculous, you can refute it.

    If you really shake up your boyfriend, just let it go, there are already flaws and cracks.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The principle I advocate is that big things are not confused, and small things are not taken into account.

    If you disagree on something very important and you are right, then you should insist that maybe this is a disadvantage for you to get started!

    If it's not a big problem, just accommodate it, listen to your mother, you think, his mother loves him, you love him, two women come together because they love a man, so why be unhappy? ?

    I'm sure your boyfriend isn't an opinionated person.

    It's just that he loves these two most important people to him, he hesitated, he didn't want to hurt anyone, so it's embarrassing, understand more, it's easy to fall in love, and it will take more tests to stay together in the future.

    I wish you all happiness!

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