What should my boyfriend and I do! I don t want to hurt him!

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Nowadays, the old people are for the good of their children, and they all hope that their children are happier than any other child's children, if you and your boyfriend are now in the time to talk about marriage, you can calmly talk to your boyfriend and tell him what your parents really think. In fact, some old people just love face, which requires the two of you to be good. Bless you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Some people think that being rich is happiness, some people think that being free is happiness, some people think that doing what they like and being with the people they like is happiness, what about you?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This can't be helped.,If your boyfriend has the ability to give you a house in the future, you have to explain it to your parents, maybe you can be together.,Of course, it depends on your attitude.,Your tough attitude and parents can't help it.。。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The two of you work together to earn money to buy your own house, if you really love him. In fact, I used to buy lottery tickets every day for this, and finally won more than 1.3 million, so work hard.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hitting women is not human trash.

    Hello, if the relationship between the husband and wife breaks down, it can be resolved by agreement divorce or litigation divorce, and now it is a society under the rule of law, once there is a criminal act, immediately report to the police. Hope.

    Do you want this kind of scumbag too? Explain it directly to your family, what kind of person is he, and you don't owe him, why should you be at his mercy?

    How do you not love him and be friends with him? How can friends break up without friends? Since he is a friend, it means that he still has advantages, is it because you can't bear to be lonely for a while to find him?

    Then I'll tell you to leave him quickly, otherwise it will be troublesome for everyone in the future, and the best way to break up is to be cold to each other! If you ignore what he says, he will leave with interest, and no one can stand the "coldness"!

    Hello, you can persuade him not to drink, this is one of them; The second thing is to persuade him not to drink too much, which is also the most effective way. If it doesn't work, it can prove two things: 1. If he doesn't love you enough, if it were me, I would be willing to break some bad habits or avoid getting drunk for the person I love.

    2Generally speaking, no matter how bad your temper is, you won't beat a girl, and you also said that you are just his girlfriend and not married. Try to walk as slowly as possible and observe his reactions. If you haven't broken up with advice, there is nothing to be nostalgic for such a man.

    I wish you happiness There must be a reason for you to break up, love him and get along well, and share any difficulties together. Think about the breakup.

    But if you really think that you don't feel anything together, just bring it up directly, don't drag your feelings, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

    Tell him directly, the age gap between you is too big. Square peg. And your parents won't agree, if he really loves you, he will think about it for you, don't hesitate to ......

    Since he wants to break up with you, instead of wasting his mind on him, it is better to study hard. Maybe you're from two worlds.

    Feelings are selfish, and so are people! The two of them hope to be happier together, but if there is a person who is unhappy, he has to reluctantly pretend, or suppress himself to fulfill the other party, I think in the end, both of them will be more painful and unhappy! Long pain is better than short pain, we don't need to suppress ourselves for the sake of others or to fulfill others!

    Feelings can't be improvised! Like is like, dislike is not like, if the heart is not there, even we can't barely come! Tell him now that maybe he'll hate you and be hard, but it's better than telling him when he's sinking deeper!

    Because then, he will be more miserable! Moreover, if you tell him now, it is also for his good, I hope he can be happy, he can find someone he loves more, and he can be happier together! So, I think, it's better to tell him earlier!

    If you want to break up, be decisive, there will always be someone who will get hurt.

    Don't think of the other party as too vulnerable, it's not who will be inseparable from whom.

    If you really want to hurt yourself or end yourself for breaking up, you can only say that you are too fragile.

    Procrastinating a life without feelings is actually meaningless.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Anyone can lose their temper. Everyone has different weaknesses.

    But if you cook with him and get so angry, you can only say that his weakness is really special.

    It can also be thought of that when it comes to doing one thing, you can do a good job alone, but you don't do anything good when you come up to stir up trouble. It will feel a little bad.

    It's a good thing to keep anything delicious for you, and you can't afford to eat it. It's also a bad thing, which means that this person is very poor and a bit of a housewife.

    In the end, if you reason logically, there is only one thing that he will do. It's like a housewife. If you watch your man's career outside the home getting bigger and bigger day by day, I'm a little worried.

    Isn't there some female pull outside? Or don't you want to be yourself? Besides, I heard you say that maybe your work is not so thriving.

    But compared to him, you are much better than him.

    So he would complain, and in the end, because of this little thing, the small universe exploded.

    Hehe, think about it the other way around. One is more or less a good thing, it proves that your boyfriend thinks about you all the time and doesn't want to be separated from you. If you get angry, don't you still follow you all the time, this is also a kind of psychology of people who have done wrong, and they feel that they don't speak and silently follow and beg for your forgiveness.

    But no matter how you should not be angry, if in the future. My object is always happy if he rushes to cook every day. In the end, you should consider the whole picture, after all, what you said is very one-sided.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Should such a boyfriend break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.Anyone will lose his temper, the rich will do it, the poor will lose it, even the best tempered person is no exception;

    2.There are not too many good-tempered people, but there are also a lot, and what your parents introduce does not necessarily meet your requirements;

    3.Such a rational analysis shows that you do not love him more than you love yourself, so that every time he loses his temper he sows a grain of sand of pain in you, until you think that he has nothing to offer;

    To accept a person, you must be prepared to accept everything from him, including family conditions, but also his mood and temper. In short, only if you love him enough, you will have the courage to go with him for the rest of your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Let's talk about people with his personality first, introverts generally have few friends, and they may have the most contact with you in his life, and now society can't eat people like this, he may be in school, I hope he can get better after entering society. But in any case, personality is very difficult to change.

    It is estimated that it is difficult for him to live well, so you should also think about your future life, and you should not only think about feelings.

    2.It's normal for your family to oppose you, and they all hope that you can live happily in the future, but what you only care about is whether the other party is good to you, you are just with him, and you can only feel that he is good to you, but how do you know that you are with other people, and other people are not good to you! There are many men who are good to you in good conditions, and saying this is also a reminder to you that feelings are not the whole of life, and it is also important to have a certain material foundation.

    3.Do you think your boyfriend can give you a good future? Do you have confidence in him? The fact that he can be so angry with you and follow you all the time shows that he is too dependent on you! A man who can't be independent and has no self-confidence is unreliable!

    4.In the end, I can only say my advice: seriously consider what your family thinks! Because they are all from the past, they have more experience than you, and there are many good men in the world, but you haven't met a better one, so you will always feel as if he is the only one in the world who is good to you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Seriously, my gut makes me feel like he's not someone I can trust for life. I know that the four-year relationship is not something that can be let go. Generally speaking, introverts have low self-esteem, he doesn't have a good job, can't afford to buy a house, and his family conditions are not as good as yours, he must have low self-esteem, and then there are, men can't bear to be humbled by women, especially in terms of economy, maybe they don't show it now, but after getting married, it's so long for a lifetime.

    I think that the person who will accompany him in the future must love himself, and a good temper is a must, besides, maybe it's because he has low self-esteem, so he is very tolerant of you, and these are places where friction will occur after marriage, and after entering the marriage, it will become trivial, and it will be too late to regret it. Yao Chen and her husband have been divorced for seven years. I mean, if you don't give up, you don't get it.

    Decide for yourself, I hope you don't choose the path of being miserable alone. I think that it is not terrible for a man to be poor, the key is to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, because he has a good temper, he is ready to marry him, so how hot is the landlord's temper.

    Be cautious about marriage. If you make a choice, be firm, don't give up, and don't let yourself regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Indeed, the more honest the person initiates his temper, the more terrifying it is, this kind of person often suppresses a lot of things in his heart, it is good not to break out, if it breaks out, the consequences may be very serious, and it may also cause his temper to become bad from now on, because there is a first time and it is very likely that there will be a second time. If you observe for a while, if he doesn't get addicted to temper because of that outburst, you can talk to him first, and if you find that he has changed, you have to reconsider your affairs, after all, it's a lifelong thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your thoughts are quite normal, I think you already have the answer, but you don't have the courage to accept it yourself. Do it according to your own wishes, after all, marriage is a large group of people's business, and there is still a long way to go in the future, I wish you happiness

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no perfect man in this world, your man is already very good, you can think about it, you can find such a good man is your luck, cherish it, and sometimes understand your man. Such a man ** finds. Don't be foolish, go and coax him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The bad temper has been exposed, can you bear that he will always be angry at you suddenly and inexplicably in the future? The character is innate, and it is almost difficult to change, and it can only be disguised in front of an object of admiration for a short time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe he has been suppressed for too long and too long, and if you really can't untie the knot in his heart, you have to give up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People who don't lose their temper are scary to start their temper, especially Taurus. That's it, gone

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