The girl in the same class I like wants to go abroad, is it right for me to do this?

Updated on society 2024-04-01
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Number one, you're a student now, you're a high school student, right? You may not believe it now, but I'm from here, and that's how I came here, and you in high school are like a frog at the bottom of a well, and when you go to college and enter society, you will find that there is a whole world and everyone has it, and you may not like to hear it, but I think you should first lay out the facts.

    And secondly, I think that if you really like her and love her, you don't have to do those things, I mean, "try to be with her every minute." On the day she goes abroad, I might go to the airport to see her off, confess to her for the second and last time, and then give her a gift and a hug. "Because love is a psychological manifestation, and it's not like you're going to get something in return, and I know you're not trying to reciprocate, but I think maybe that will only make a bad impression on her, but it's good to give a gift.

    Third, whether she accepts it or not, you love her back Love is not a result, but a process, it is a memory, so the most important thing is not that you have her, but that you love her, I used to have a girl I liked when I was in high school, because I was in the third year of high school, I didn't say it, and it just passed, so I felt very relaxed, and we are still good friends, and we have a good relationship, I think that's actually enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Landlord, you really love her. Spent the middle of the night brushing up on questions, and I'm seeing you for the second time. I'm still supporting you as before.

    As long as you think she is worth your waiting, you will wait, no matter how many years you have to wait. She will be touched by keeping in touch with her after she goes abroad and caring for her more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Learning to let go is a kind of luck, there is no right or wrong, only the difference between doing and not doing, as long as you don't regret it, do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Feelings cannot be forced.

    I support you in fighting for it again, maybe there is a little hope. It can be seen that you really like her, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, no matter how you do it, you will not regret it.

    But she's going abroad, even if she accepts you. Your love will also endure the pain of separation. This is a long pain, so the long pain is better than the short pain, and the feelings between you are treasured. Be good friends with her forever. Sincere wishes she may be the best.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are wrong, fate is not in our hands, if you want to resist, you have to hurt a lot of people, fight with conscience, and then you will reflect on whether it is worth it, whether it should be... But you're right to do it, because you can like her, but don't keep hope. A person wants to change, so fast that you don't believe it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a sign of loving someone who will give a lot for him and her.

    You don't have to copy so many questions to ask. As long as you think it's worth it, then you have a reason to do it. Don't care if it's right or not, just whether it's worth it or not

    After all, everyone's outlook on life will be different.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Fight for it, and if it doesn't work, give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wait quietly, if you have you in your heart, it is yours to go as far as you go.

    Study hard and make progress every day.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Time changes everything, you're still young, and if you have the heart, you wait for her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're a good friend, but you're not a good student!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm very touched by what you said.

    But I still have to say. You're stupid.

    She said she was just friends with you. No matter what happens in the future, at least for now, we can only be friends.

    You know the truth that unripe melons are not sweet...

    You love her so much, she should know it. She didn't show any further affection for you, which should be her reason. Maybe that's what you're talking about. She's going abroad and doesn't want to delay you.

    I advise you to take care of yourself now. Otherwise, when she goes abroad, you won't have to go crazy?

    Love cannot be forced. Sometimes letting go is also a form of love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wait, wait for her to come back, and if you can't develop by then, then you'll have to find another goal.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After a long time, you will find that you are very simple.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hits sometimes have to happen, and hits don't force them all the time.

    I am compassionate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's right that you continue to love her, and don't always think about getting something in return, such as being your girlfriend. If you don't, it might turn out better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then you should also go abroad with her I really want to say that you are still just impulsive, and when you are a little more mature, you will think that you are very naïve now

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are many things that we think are worthwhile, and we do them, as long as they don't violate reason and morality, and it's a wonderful thing for ourselves.

    You're still happy, although you're a little troubled, because you don't have any requirements for the other person, so no matter what, you won't be miserable.

    But, brother, to be honest, although romance is good, but you also have to be temperate, after all, life is very realistic, now in school, you may not feel it, you will know it later. So, in closing, I'd like to say, do it for yourself!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At present, this is the only way to do it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then you all know she's going abroad! Nor was it her idea! There are very few opportunities to change your mind! Then do as you wish! Now it's only time to prove your love for her! When you confess, it's when you send her away, and it's also the answer she gives you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why wait for you to wait for her to be in a relationship? Does this count as love? There is also the fact that even if she wants to accept you, but she thinks of separating from you, she will control herself, because this is a test for both parties, and the future is unknown, she definitely doesn't want her future to be settled like this, your separation is destined to be an unrealistic love at least for now.

    People will change because of the changes in time and place environment, maybe her current thinking is that she is going to leave anyway, if two people are destined to come together, it depends on how the future develops.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't wait for no results

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Another infatuated boy, just like I did at the beginning, if you think she is worthy of your love and pay, then what's right or wrong, I used to like that girl, and in the end it hurt me deeply, but I still forgave her, and I didn't regret loving her and paying for her, because I really loved and hurt at that time, and gave up a lot for her. Let it be.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you're not 20 yet, I don't think you need to think about these things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Agree with the first floor Who is not like this I have also given and been hurt But I don't regret it It's me who didn't grasp it well If she really doesn't love you Give up What is persistent is not necessarily love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let it be. You have to be prepared for "bad", the result of this long-term breakup is likely to be blown, maybe your feelings can bear it. But if she doesn't pursue her ideals for your sake, she will have resentment if she stays, and maybe it's easier to blow.

    So it's quite a helpless thing, so I have to go with the flow.

    Hong Huang said.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Halo

    All I can say is that I envy that girl

    This kind of thing can only be done by chance

    I'm sure you know it very well in your own heart

    But it was fought

    After trying hard, there is no regret about failure

    In fact, liking someone doesn't have to be with her

    As long as you see her happy, I think you will be happy too

    I wish you happiness

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    How old are you? It's more appropriate to say it directly, otherwise, she will leave. Cherish your love. Bless you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hehe, in fact, when you like someone very much, you should consider two questions, even if you are together, must it be suitable? When you like someone so much, you may overlook the many very suitable opportunities around you ...

    Anyway, bless you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Work hard, I'm just like you, I like someone very much, for various reasons, she just has a good impression of me, and I'm also treating him with sincerity, if you really love him, then care about her silently Until the day he goes abroad, cherish what you have now

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I've copied another problem, and I've seen it again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Friends, love, no matter whose love it is, is as worrying as you at first, and it feels like he's all. Slowly you go with the flow. At that time, you will suddenly realize that you have to love more than her.

    You will love more than just her. If necessary, love to love a few times, although you don't admit it now, I was also like this at the beginning, others persuaded me, I don't believe it, but now I have to believe that love is really just a part of life, sometimes it's still a small part. Hope you can see it.

    Bless you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Are you wishful thinking, or do you want to focus on your studies first? If she loves you, she'll contact you when she goes abroad!

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