Fall in love with someone who is married! What should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-10
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is a normal thing. Most women who fall in love with married men repeat the same path. At the beginning, both people love each other and think that this is enough, however, when men don't have the freshness they had before, or when they are tired, they still want to go back to their own home, a home with a wife, and they don't want to divorce because of others, because they think that if they divorce because of you today, will they divorce you again tomorrow because of others?

    Why go down the same path and go through the same troubles. He has loved you before, or still loves you, but there are times when they are tired, or they have neglected their wife emotionally for too long, and now they feel guilty, tired, and want to go home and rest. Maybe it won't be long before they come out looking for a new target, either you or not.

    Take a bearish view. I don't know whether to say that you are being fostered (I hope you don't mind), in fact, at the very beginning you have to think of such an ending, your love is simply powerless, and you don't even have the ability to support yourself, a man, when he needs you, but also pays a lot for you, such as money, as well as time and energy, in their hearts, maybe they feel that he is not sorry for you, so they don't even have a trace of apology, and they leave. If you want to open up a little, he can't divorce for you, would you rather live a life like this for the rest of your life?

    Now you are still young, you still have the capital and energy to make money, work hard to live, find someone who loves each other and can get married, live together, this relationship, bury it, although the person who loves you may not care about your past, but, from now on, what you need is a happy life that can be grasped!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should think clearly for yourself, forget the past, and start a new life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just one sentence It is difficult to fall in love with a married man with good results.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Another infatuated one, persuade you to leave him, long pain is better than short pain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't ruin a family because of one's feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is better to give up, liking someone is not possession.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't read it carefully if you write it too long, but you must be wrong with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are practicing yourself and loving someone who deserves your love. People are equal. True happiness can only be achieved by establishing equal love.

    Do you feel that the more people who hurt you, the more you pay attention to them? Why bother... You are living for yourself.

    Not to live for someone else.

    Addendum: Get out of that city! Change to a new environment. You will find that there are still many good men in the world.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After playing and wanting to get rid of it, and giving you a store of hundreds of thousands, it is worthy of you, this is what he thinks.

    Hundreds of thousands of unrequited love and an identity that does not see the light of day, do you think it is worth it? While you are still young, even if you don't want his shop, you can still find a job and find a husband who loves you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, it is to withdraw as soon as possible to prevent yourself from falling into this extramarital affair, I believe you don't want to be the third party of the person you like, and you don't want to break up a happy family! The reason why we are adults can no longer be as headstrong as children, saying things like "I just like him, so I just want to get him".

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Feelings can't be controlled, so there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone, but how to do it after falling in love, if there is a problem with the way you deal with it, it is wrong. When you choose to fall in love with a married person, you are burdened with moral condemnation. Some feelings are destined to be fruitless.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should take back your feelings, leave each other decisively, and don't delay yourself for a love that hurts both yourself and other people's families.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Feelings for him should be abandoned, and contact with him should be reduced or even severed. You can go out for a trip or immerse yourself in work.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hehe. It's up to you what you think. However, I don't feel worth it for you.

    Not to mention, are you willing to live in a place where others can't see it all your life, hiding and being a careful third party. It also depends on whether he is willing to divorce her wife for your sake. Even if he is willing, will you still feel safe in the future?

    In the future, you won't worry about whether there will be a second person like you? He can do this for you now, and he can do it for others in the future. Just click on it.

    Whether you know how to look at yourself. There is no discrimination in mind. Satisfied.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you fall in love with someone who is married, you should give it up yourself. Because he is already married, it is impossible for your love with him to come to fruition, so don't waste time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you fall in love with someone who is married, you should give up, and if you continue to be obsessed, it will only hurt both his family and you, and it will not be good for your reputation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should stop your losses in time and don't continue. The other party is a person with a family, and if you continue to be with him, you will hurt the people of the other family, which is immoral.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you fall in love with someone who is married, I think you should give it up, because this kind of love does not mean that you can have it if you want to have it, but also that you need to pay the price of fame.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is recommended that you have a long pain rather than a short pain, and it is better to break it clean at once, so that you will not always think about it in your heart, and it is better than regretting it later.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should let go of this relationship as soon as possible, because if you continue like this, you will destroy the harmony of a family, which will be unfortunate for everyone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When a woman falls in love with a married man, it will only hurt herself, and these must be understood.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Such a price is very high, can you bear it, after all, the marriage is broken, no matter which party is responsible, as a junior, he will be the first person to be dragged out and beaten and scolded.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What to do if a woman falls in love with a married man? Think about these questions first, and you'll have the answers in your heart.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As long as two people love each other, all problems are not problems.

    Do you want to ask yourself if you talk to him, do you love him? How much love? Wouldn't it hurt to leave him?

    Does he love you? Is it good enough for you? Do you really feel sorry for you and take care of you?

    If you're sure, then there's nothing to hesitate about. Marry him, and you will be happy.

    My husband is also divorced and has a 5-year-old boy. But we lived happily and sweetly.

    Therefore, it has nothing to do with his divorce, the important thing is whether the two people really love each other and cherish each other.

    Didn't someone say that? A man who has been divorced once is a treasure (because he knows how to cherish it), and a man who has been divorced twice is a root grass. So your current boyfriend should be a baby.

    Therefore, divorce is not a clear question, on the contrary, he will think that he has wronged you, and will be more kind to you and compensate you. But the disease that made him live to be 40 years old, you have to think about it (because I don't know what the disease is, so it's inconvenient) However, true love is not easy. Some people will never meet true love in their lifetime.

    It's a shame to miss out.

    In short, believe in yourself and follow your feelings, and you can't go wrong.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't know where you so-called love came from!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, to tell the truth, falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, it's not your fault, it's all trapped by love, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, this kind of love that no one blesses is to play the role of a third party, this happiness is based on the pain of others, and it should be given up, because the lowest bottom line of our life is conscience, don't do things that violate conscience, so I feel very guilty and uneasy. Being a third party is also a very worrying thing, although I feel ashamed, but after all, I am also a victim of side grinding, and it is difficult to choose between love. The status of the third party is not favored by the world, it is a person who specializes in destroying other people's families, this kind of person is very immoral, will be condemned by society, will be abused and exhaled by people, the appearance of the third party will make the family crack tragedy staged, this kind of life will not have any happiness and joy, always avoid people's sight, dare not be an upright person, will always let the trivial affairs of the family trouble, so that in the end only themselves will be hurt, will live in pain, why so persistent?

    If you go the wrong way, you should turn back, and if you go hard, you will be even more wrong. Actually, isn't this kind of love worth the price? Will it be very inferior, meaningless, wake up the person in the dream with a word, don't be stupid anymore?

    Otherwise, you can only hover on the edge of pain, ta will not bring you much happiness and joy, do you think about it, will he give up his family easily for you, will he live up to the responsibility and burden of his family, if so, he is a negative person, will you not doubt that there will be the same tragedy and end? The end of the third party will end in failure, you will pay a heavy price, and you will regret it for a lifetime, why regret your life? Not worth it?

    Do you know how many people have paid the price of suffering to lift up the sky of those who have no pain? Maybe one day you suddenly realize that life is a dream, but you find that there is very little life left. Maybe one day you suddenly realize the mistake you have made, but you find that there is no time to make amends.

    You should step out of the role of a third person, get out of the shadows, get out of the predicament, get out of the sea of suffering, give up what you should give up, pursue what you should pursue, go the way you want to go, and don't get caught in the happiness of others.

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