After breaking up for ten years, we met again, she was not married and I was not married, what shoul

Updated on society 2024-04-23
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <> meet again ten years after breaking up, she is not married and I am not married, what should I do? If it were me, I would have chosen to continue to be friends without further development.

    Good horses don't eat back grass, the two have been together ten years ago, and it is very likely that the two fell in love during school. The love when I was a student was hazy and beautiful, but I chose to break up later, and it must have been because something was not suitable or there was some obstacle that hindered our love. After a breakup, we will not let go of each other for a while, and we will even have the urge to get back together with each other many times.

    When we meet again ten years later, although I don't have the feeling of blushing and heartbeat like I did when we met, my heart will still fluctuate a little. Some people mistakenly think that those are still love, and they still like each other, so they will consider whether to get back together. In fact, that feeling is not liking, just an emotion of seeing the old people miss the old feelings.

    As the saying goes, it's better to miss each other than to miss each other, since they were together and broke up before, why should they be together again now? After ten years, the vicissitudes of life. You are not the same you used to be, and he will not be the same person you used to be.

    Two people being together again means having to run in again. People who love need the run-in of two people for a long time, and no matter how vigorous love is, they also need to go through the baptism of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, most of the love ten years ago did not involve economic problems, and two people can not be together. When the time comes, quarreling and separating over trivial matters in life will destroy the good feeling I had about him ten years ago.

    So if it were me and I met him again after a breakup, I wouldn't be with him again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <>If those two words hadn't trembled, I wouldn't have found me uncomfortable, and no matter how I said it, it would have been just a breakup. If there is no requirement for tomorrow, holding hands is like a tourist ......Ten years later, when we met again at a street corner at a certain intersection, we could only smile and never find a reason to hug again.

    Broke up for ten years, even if she is not married and you are not married, and each other is not what they were at the beginning, I am not in favor of getting back together, the most suitable thing is to treat each other as old friends who have not seen each other for many years, and occasionally contact, but not deep friendship. Ten years is not ten days, during this period when two people are also single, but they have not thought about contact, if two people still have each other in their hearts during the ten years, they will not meet after ten years, just because they suddenly remembered the past after a long absence, so their hearts were flooded again, and they were entangled in what to do, and it was only a temporary heartbeat, and it did not mean that there was still love. Ten years later, you should know better that love can no longer be casual, there was still youth to squander, and now it is time to think about the future.

    In fact, when I saw this question, I suddenly thought of Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong, they were lovers decades ago, and the two fell in love again after going around and around, in the eyes of outsiders, it is very wonderful, and they may also understand that today's happiness is not easy to come by. It takes a lot of courage for two people to fall in love again, the distractions of the world, the messages of the public, I think they don't care anymore. It's just that there are very few like them, and if it were me, I don't think I would choose to be together again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Quietly, I remembered Eason Chan's ten years, ten years later, we are still friends, and we can still greet each other, but that gentleness can no longer find a reason to ......

    I met you again. If you still can't let go of each other after ten years of breakup, get to know each other again and be lovers again. Maybe two people can't always open their mouths or they may be difficult to speak, but if you feel like you missed it back then, don't miss it now, just like why Sheng Xiaomo, for many years it was because they couldn't let go of each other so they didn't get married, and later found out that it was a misunderstanding that caused the two to break up, and after the breakup, they missed each other very much, I don't know if you are in this situation?

    However, there are also lovers who can't be lovers back after breaking up, because it's impossible, but don't force this situation, then be friends again, that kind of ordinary friend is also very good, after all, many things are not understandable to outsiders. Ten years later, you are still friends, and you can still greet them, but that kind of tenderness can no longer find a reason to hug, and lovers will inevitably become friends in the end, how many people's hearts are sung in this song. Ten years is not ten days, I haven't seen you for so long, and my feelings have deteriorated a little bit, don't tell me that you miss a person for ten years, scared.

    If two people meet, they can still get together well, get together and disperse, don't act like enemies. Many lovers are like that, they love each other very much and then break up, but after all, they also love each other, but there are some reasons why they can't be together, so it can only be said that your fate is not enough. Cousin, she just broke up with her first love for five years, and then they met, and they still liked it a little, but they really won't be together, some things are over, and they can't go back, although they still have feelings, they still have to convince themselves to find a more suitable person, but it's up to you what you decide in the end.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He is unmarried, you are not married, the two of you are actually still together, it may just be to see if there are any obvious changes in the ten years that you have not met, whether your three views are compatible, if you say that all aspects are very tacit, you must be combined, otherwise I am sorry for your encounter this time. <>

    Everyone actually has different feelings about first love, and first love is like white moonlight, which has been deeply buried in our hearts. Even if we break up, we can still think of them. Some people say that they and their first girlfriend have been separated for 10 years, and this time they suddenly met, the other party is not married, and they have not married a wife, I want to ask if you can still be together I want to say whether you can be together, in fact, it depends on yourself, if the other party still likes you, you also like each other, you can give it a try, but what the final outcome is, none of us can be sure.

    When we get along, we can look at each other, or not the way we liked it at the beginning, is there a big gap between your current identities, if the three views are more similar, and the family background is more consistent, you must develop it. After 10 years, you can still meet each other, which shows that this is also a great fate, which is equivalent to an opportunity, so you must seize this opportunity and don't let the person you like disappear from your face. <>

    As long as there is a chance, we have to fight for it, after all, no one knows what the ending will look like, as long as we fight for it, then we can accept the ending, after all, we have a lot of regrets. But if the first love you meet is the kind that is already in love, or engaged, or married, let's stay away from him and get along with each other from the position of friends, so that no one will be embarrassed. But 10 years can really change too many things, when we see our first love, don't blindly surprise, blindly shock, we have to observe whether this person is suitable or not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To be together, because it is really fate for such a situation, and it is really destined for God to be able to meet again in such a situation, so you must try to seize the opportunity.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's necessarily going to be together. Because ten years have passed, the two people must have changed, no matter in which aspects, there may have been a lot of changes in their personalities, and the two people may no longer be suitable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's okay to be together, as long as the two of you are still interesting to each other, and both of you haven't forgotten each other, being together is the most appropriate ending.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you like her, you can try it, but you have to understand what her situation is and see what kind of attitude she has. What is the reason that I haven't gotten married yet, and I can't blindly ask for a reunion, after all, I haven't been in contact for so many years, and anything can happen, my personal opinion is for reference. Please do not delete.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Organizing a family is not an easy thing, it should be cherished, if you can, try to fall in love, the important thing is that both parties have this heart, and you can't help it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ten years later, when you meet your first love, she is not married, you are not married, which shows that the two of you have fate, get along well, don't waste your youth.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If this is the case, we will be together when we meet your first love again and make up for the shortcomings of the two of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then it depends on whether you still have such thoughts. You can try together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It requires patience, as well as the ability and determination to solve the other party's doubts in all aspects.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, you can continue, this may be your fate.

    First love always leaves a deep mark on our lives, bringing us many changes and influences, but the end of first love is often bitter. When going around and around and meeting again, two people can certainly start a new relationship again.

    A man is unmarried and a woman is unmarried, and no one will stop two people from having a relationship. When I was single, all my friends and relatives were urging me to find a partner, and I think this is true in everyone's life, and before you even stepped into marriage, falling in love was something that everyone was urging you to do.

    When you meet a heart-warming person of the opposite sex, you start a relationship after pursuing it, which is a normal life trajectory that everyone supports, and I don't think it's necessary to think about it at all.

    First love is always unforgettable, and restarting after meeting again may bring happiness to two people. My first love and I have been separated for 10 years, but we have both started our own families. But your current situation is not the same, the two of you are separated in the sea of people, and you meet in the sea of people, and you are unmarried men and unmarried women, of course this kind of relationship can continue.

    has many good memories, if two people can get back together, their emotional development will be faster, and both people will know how to cherish it. I think that's a good thing, after going around and around, life seems to be back to square one.

    Love is so interesting, the loss of the past makes you sad, since you have the opportunity to grasp it again, why not hold on to this happiness and come back to your side?

    Now the road ahead is actually obvious, two people may not be able to move towards happiness in love, but if they pass by like this, both of them will regret it in their hearts.

    When you meet again with your first love and in the vast sea of people, I think this is what God is destined to bring you together. Since you don't want to give up like this, don't hesitate to pursue the happiness you want.

    Life will always move forward, and missing out may be a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, two people can continue, such a relationship may be a match made in heaven, going around and coming together again, isn't it a pity not to continue?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If there is still a feeling between two people, I personally think that it is okay to try it and not go against your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, you can continue, if the old relationship between the two people is rekindled, and they feel that the other party is still relatively good, and the other party is still their own dish, then the two of them will continue to date.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think it can continue, after all, it's been so many years of separation, and the two definitely don't have the previous relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    OK. If you think you can still be together, then you can move on.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's also up to two people to get along together, after all, it's been 10 years of separation, and a lot can happen in this time, maybe each other has changed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be brave, work hard, go and chase it back, and don't let yourself regret it

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ten years later, if you don't marry her, you can be together, but you don't know what happened to her in ten years. It's best to talk about the relationship experience of the past ten years before deciding to get together again. After all, ten years is not a short time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Absolutely! Besides, you also have a foundation, it should be no problem to try, although it can't be said that the mirror is reunited, but this is also a lover who finally becomes a family, which is worth celebrating!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Ten years later, you meet your first love again. She's not married, you're not. You didn't marry, maybe you didn't meet a more suitable person and didn't want to settle.

    She's not married, maybe she's waiting for you. Since you still love her, let's confess boldly and bravely. If you have a lover, you will eventually become a family.

    Bless you, lad.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can't see what you're posting.

    If she added you, you still love him, there may be drama.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Forget it, a lot of things have changed, it's okay to be a friend, after so many years, your three views may not be compatible, and what you want and expect is difficult to communicate.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't mention anything about getting back together, just have a good chat, have more company, have your tacit understanding of each other, and don't necessarily have to get married to be happy, just be patient.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you like it, try hard again, and give yourself and the other party a clear result! Confess it!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As long as you are both single, as long as you work hard, I believe there is hope between you. The important thing is that you chase her sincerely, and you also work hard to improve yourself, make yourself better, and sincerely go to the golden stone for the open, I believe you will hold the beauty.

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