How much have you achieved in life?

If I were to count my life dream as 10 points, I would only be able to achieve 1 point at most.

But I didn't put too much pressure on myself, and the realization of the ideal requires a step-by-step process. If you're 20 years old, don't expect yourself to accomplish what you should have done when you're 30.

Such a rush will only backfire.

Take myself as an example, I have been inspired to be a writer since I was a child, and I regard this as all my life ideals, if it is not completed in the end, then I will feel that this life is in vain, and there is no gold in life.

I'm 24 years old this year, just graduated a year, probably because I caught up with a good era, and founded my own namesake *** in a daze, and then wrote explosive articles, and there were publishers to find it one after another, at the end of 2017, I signed the first book in my life, although it is not on the market yet, but for me, it has taken a big step in my life.

In fact, for many of my self-authors, if it is not a best-selling million, I can't make much money at all, but it doesn't matter, for every person who loves words, publishing a book is a symbolic feeling, even if it has no substantive meaning, for myself, it is the greatest satisfaction.

In this life, it is long or short, and it depends mainly on how we look at it.

But one thing can be confirmed is that no matter how much our life ideals are realized, we should choose to go on unswervingly, because choosing to persist for the sake of our ideals is beautiful enough in itself.

Some things don't need an ending and no purpose, but as long as they are done, they are very at ease.

The ideal is probably like this, I hope that even if you and I are gray-haired, we will still be like a child, and we will not forget the original ideal.

I think that my life dream has been achieved by one-third of the time, and there is still more than half way to go before I can fully realize my ideal, so let's talk about my life ideal first.

To put it simply, my life dream is divided into three steps.

The first step is to study hard from an early age, be worthy of yourself in terms of grades, and be able to exert your full strength in the college entrance examination to take a university that satisfies you, I think a good university is the best cornerstone of an ideal life, especially for children like me who were born in rural areas, being admitted to a good university means a new beginning in life.

The second step is to find a job that suits me after graduation, my dream is to go to a large company as a manager, whether it is human resource management or business management, I can accept, I want to work hard, and then I want to buy a house and a car of my own in a big city.

The third step is to enrich my life, I hope that in the future I will not be so busy, and I can find my beloved to be the other half, have more time to spend with my wife and children, and travel everywhere in my free time.

So far, my life dream has been realized in the first step, I have been admitted to a good university - Anhui University through my own efforts, and I feel that such a university can satisfy me and help me a lot in my future career. Since the day I went to university, I am no longer the person who lives in the countryside every day, I can say that I have been reborn, and now I am about to graduate from university, I hope that in the future, step by step, through my own struggle to achieve the second and third steps, because I know that the double success of career and family is the ultimate result of my life ideals.

If you want to talk about life ideals, it is really very ashamed. In fact, when I was in junior high school, my dream was to be a TV worker, both in front of and behind the scenes. At first, I just enjoyed the feeling of being satisfied on stage, but as I got older, I liked this profession not only because I liked its glamour, but also because I was curious.

I wondered what the studio looked like, why users all over the country could see the same program on TV, and I was curious about ......

But in fact, I know very well in my heart that 99% of the time I will not be able to engage in this profession in the future. If I want to pass the college entrance examination to realize my dream, I must not be able to. Because first of all, Mom and Dad wouldn't agree, no one in the family had ever been in a similar industry, and they didn't want me to take the risk.

In addition, if I want to pursue the path of art, the cost must be huge, and I know how much burden it will cause to my parents if I insist on going down. In addition, when I was in high school, I also got good grades and entered the so-called "key class", so it was even more impossible to take this path.

When I finally applied for the volunteer, I listened to my parents' advice and applied for the clinical medicine major. I was not very excited, and of course I didn't resist, I felt that this doctor's profession was still good, with high social recognition, stable work, and good salary. But after I really came into contact with medicine, I realized how sacred and great this profession is.

There are hospitals all around our school, so we often see ambulances around. The ambulances I saw at home before were empty and would never carry a lot of people in them as they were on TV, but I saw them in the ambulances around the school. When I saw it for the first time, I didn't know why I was so moved, and my eyes turned red.

It's also shocking, the profession I chose is to save lives in the future, patients give us their lives, and we must be responsible to the end.

So from that moment I decided, since I chose this profession, I should be responsible for myself and my patients, and stick to the end. As we all know, the amount of manpower, energy, and time spent on training a medical student is enormous. First of all, you have to study for five years for undergraduate, then you have to study for three years for graduate school, and two or three years for regular training, and if you go up to the doctorate, you have to go up for another two years, adding up to more than 10 years.

So, medical students really dedicate their most precious time to their careers, and I have just finished my freshman year, and I still have a long, long way to go.

But no matter what, as long as you identify this path and don't give up, everything is worth it.

Everyone's life ideals are different, some will be great, some will be small, and the difficulty of realizing them is also different, I feel that my own life ideals have only been achieved a little bit.

My life dream is still being realized step by step, and now it is in progress, half of it has been achieved, and in 2019 I set a goal, hoping to achieve my ideal.

1. The ideal must be feasible.

Ideals are not utopian, let alone fantasies. Ideal is people's rational pursuit of a better future.

2. Ideals must be realized by action.

Ideals need to be practiced in a down-to-earth way to become a reality.

3. The ideal must be corrected in time.

If the distance between the ideal and the reality is too great, we might as well abandon the original ideal and establish a new ideal that is easy to realize. Or they can adhere to lofty ideals and adjust specific goals, strive to achieve short-term ideals, and lay a solid foundation for the realization of lofty ideals.

1. We must strengthen our ideals and beliefs.

Once people have established their ideals, they should be firm in their beliefs. Eliminate all difficulties and even interference, and unswervingly strive towards the ideal goal. We should not lose faith because of difficulties and patience. Take a break.

2. We must overcome difficulties and move forward.

On the ideal road, there are always difficulties and obstacles. It includes objective, subjective, external, and internal difficulties and problems from all sides. It is necessary to grasp the key points, difficulties and doubts, and with the help of wisdom and strength in various aspects, Changchen step by step, and take the initiative to gradually overcome difficulties.

Strive to achieve your desired goals.

The ideals of life are not static. Many people find out what they like and what their ideals are in the process of moving forward in life and work. A rational life will not subvert the rise and fall of life and pursue an ethereal ideal.

If a high-paying job is to compress your interests and hobbies, or even violate your sense of morality, which round of rush will not be because of ideals, it is often discouraged by many people. Because the pursuit of life is not just because of money. But for those who are eager for money and success, a high salary is undoubtedly an incentive and motivation.

I think first of all, I personally have to define my own ideals. If this dream is related to a high-paying job, I'm happy. Because ideals are linked to the economy, the more you do it, the more fun it becomes.

But if you're going to ask me to give up a job I'm doing and focus on my ideals, I'll have to see how much I've accumulated in my purse. Usually, the accumulation of young people is not very thick, and it is impossible to chase the so-called dreams on an empty stomach.

Ideals and high-paying jobs are sometimes not incompatible, unless a high-tech job takes up all the time and is under unbearable pressure, then the meaning of the existence of this high-paying job is very worrying.

I usually make a trade-off between my ideals and my job, that is, a job can satisfy my survival, and the rest of my time is contrary to my ideals. I don't give up my job because I pursue my ideals. In today's world, a job means survival and dignity.

Career is more important because career is how you realize your personal value.

Saying that career is more important is not to say that family is not important, but that real family will let you fly without pressure, family is the harbor when you are tired, you have to be good to that kind of family.

But only through your career can you prove your worth, and we have been studying hard for more than ten years, but we are just looking for and creating a way to prove our worth;

No one wants to find a wife or husband who doesn't support their work, because we subconsciously think that career is more important;

We can give up our own pursuits for the sake of our family, but as the family of someone who wants to have a career, we must hope that he will stick to his career, because in the family is serious, only by realizing your dreams and ambitions can you be happy, in the family is serious, career is also the most important;

Without a career as the economic foundation of the family, there would be no superstructure of a happy family. The so-called poor couples mourn everything.

Ideal and reality, in fact, to put it bluntly, is the boundary between spirit and reality!

I'm afraid there are very few ideals and realities that can be taken care of at the same time? There is only reality and no ideals, as if a person only has a shell and loses that "heart"? Only "ideals" and "reality"?

Is that also a kind of eternal "childishness"? Even the "survival" of the penitential group has become a problem? That kind of result, or become a big thing?

Or destruction? Just like Van Gogh, he eventually starved to death on the streets for painting, but he created an immortal legend, and his paintings have become priceless treasures today! It should be said that in the end, he was still successful!

And the hazy poet Gu Leadcheng was finally destroyed in his "hazy poems", because the "hazy poems" limited his life, and finally created the tragedy of his life!

I'm not Van Gogh, I'm not Gu Cheng, I'm just an ordinary layman! So, the first thing I have to face is my reality, which is life. Although I also have my ideals in life, I can only secretly "idealize" ...... in the "cracks" of life

I believe that as a college student, how to realize your life dreams should do the following.

First of all, determine your life ideals. As a college student, the most important thing in thinking about how to realize your life ideal is to determine your life ideal first, which is not a nonsense, first set an accurate life ideal or a general ideal direction for yourself in order to work better in the next stage.

Secondly, you should see whether your life ideals are related to the major you studied in college. If you choose your favorite major and related to your life ideals, then you will be much more convenient in realizing your own life ideals, of course, this situation is rare, more people choose their own not very much major, in this case you should make a choice, whether to adjust your life ideals according to your own major, or use your own training and professional training to better serve your life ideals. In short, you have to follow your own choice, after all, your own worthiness refers to your own choice in life.

In the end, your life ideals are your own, and your future depends on your own choices, and the advice of others may be useful but cannot be fully followed.

Then, I wish you all the way to the wind and waves, and hang on the clouds and sail to the sea.

The ideal of life is the goal of life, and it is a possible imagination of people in the future

1. Your life ideals must be long-term.

Without a long-term ideal, you may be overwhelmed by short-term setbacks. Once you've set long-term goals, don't try to overcome all the obstacles at first. Just like you can't leave home in the morning until all the traffic lights are green before you go out, you go through the traffic lights one by one, and not only can you go as far as your eyes can see, but when you get there, you can often see farther away.

2. Your life ideals must be specific.

A hunter, when he faces a flock of birds in a tree, if he can shoot down a few birds, then he is certainly not shooting at this flock of birds, and the harvest of a few birds must be the result of the hunter aiming at a specific target.

3. Your life ideals must be ambitious.

Once you've decided on a goal of only 1 kilometre, you'll probably feel tired and slack off when you're less than 1 kilometre away, because you're almost there. However, if your goal is to walk 10 kilometers, you will be prepared with your mind and all the necessary preparations, and you will be able to mobilize the potential of all sides, and you may be able to relax a little after you have walked the kilometers in one go.

4. You must practice your life ideals.

5. Your life ideals don't have to be detailed and precise.

As long as there is a clear direction and general requirements, such as aspiring to be an outstanding scientist, aspiring to be a big entrepreneur, or aspiring to be a politician who changes the world, etc.