Is it because you can t find someone you like because you don t find a discovery?

It may also be that there is not a lack of discovery, but because the goal is too high, so you can't find someone you like.

When some people are looking for a partner, the first thing he thinks about is whether his own conditions are worthy of the person he likes, so many times, it is difficult for him to find the object he likes.

For example, a friend complained to me before, saying that there was a boy in their company, who was thirty-two years old, and he had never made a partner, so everyone was very anxious, and a group of women wanted to introduce him to him, but then they were so scared that they didn't dare to introduce him to him, because people's requirements were too high.

Because it is a third- or fourth-tier city, this boy's salary is less than 5,000 yuan per month, and his family has a house, but it is an old house that has lived for 20 years without an elevator, and it is obvious that he may have to wait for decades and may not be able to demolish it.

He doesn't have a scooter himself, he rides a battery car every day, his own external conditions are, one meter seven is just enough, the weight is about one hundred and fifty, because he is older, so naturally his belly is a little big, and he doesn't know how to dress up, the important thing is that it doesn't look like it's cleaned up very neatly, oh forgot to say that their house is also a collective house, a small second room.

But his requirement is that girls are at least one meter six five, and the following ones are not wanted, and they want to be white-skinned and beautiful and long-legged, preferably an only child, because he himself is, and he requires the other party's parents to have social security, because his parents do not, he will not be able to raise girls' parents in the future, but he requires girls to work well, preferably teachers and other fixed jobs, and if they get married, it is best for girls to be able to accompany a car, so that they do not have to ride a battery car to work.

At that time, no one introduced him to the object, do you say that you don't know what conditions you have, you have to be so demanding, do you think there is a girl with that condition, what can people like about you, so you can't find a favorite object, because you are too demanding.

It's not that there is a lack of discovery, it's just that my vision is too high and too critical, so I can never find someone I like.

It's not because of a lack of discovery. It's because of the reluctance to change yourself. That's why I can't find someone I like.

It's not that there is a lack of discovery, but even if you see a better object, you may be more picky, or the other party will not look down on you.

It should be like this, because when you find that the other person has a lot of advantages, you will slowly like each other, or because you don't know enough about others.

It's not that there is a lack of discovery, it's just that my requirements are too high, or my contact area is too narrow.

Yes, you should have more contact with friends of the opposite sex, pay attention to the people who are suitable for you, pursue boldly, and have courage and wisdom.

If you can't find a person you like, you may not be able to meet someone who is in love with you, so in the end, you haven't met it, and it's not that you lack discovery.

I think that's usually the case, because I think that if you can't find a partner, it's usually because you don't like to socialize, so there are fewer people of the opposite sex around.

If you can't find someone you like, it may be that your vision is too high, or your circle of friends is too narrow, or it may be a lack of discovery.

Yes, you can't find the advantages of those of the opposite sex around you, think they are very ordinary, and don't know how to appreciate their goodness, so you can't find a favorite object.

Nowadays, people always say that they can't find a partner, and there is a reason why they can't find a partner.

Nothing more than these reasons:

Now there are a lot of people looking for a partner.

Those who are unfamiliar feel that they don't understand, those who understand feel unfamiliar, and those who are familiar feel that they don't feel anything.

Those who feel it are too short, those who are tall are too thin and fat are too stupid, those who are not stupid are too shrewd, those who are shrewd are not down-to-earth, those who are practical feel that they are not talented, and those who are talented are ugly.

Those who are not ugly and think they earn less Q, those who earn more Q don't care about their families, and those who care too much about their families feel that they are unproductive.

Those who are promising, but they feel unromantic, those who are romantic feel unreliable, and those who are reliable feel too cowardly.

In the end, I finally fell in love with one, but people haven't taken a fancy to you yet.

You say that you are not single, who is single, there are nearly 1.5 billion people in China, and there are few who meet you, these people are young and weighty, not light, not tall, but very tall.

The long ugly thing to think about is quite beautiful, the main point.

I don't think much about the balance, but it's a lot, in this year.

Love is a luxury, and you can't afford it at all.

That's what it looks like:

So why aren't you single? Love knocks on the door, but you close the door.

If you close the door yourself, others can't get in if they want to, and in the end, finding a partner becomes a kind of handover if it's suitable, and pull it down if it's not suitable.

Some of them you think are suitable, but the other party may not think they are suitable, and they may be suitable to get along, but you don't give the other party a chance, and in the end you have a lot of contact, and there are few really talks.

I am not confident in my appearance, too beautiful to start, and too lazy to pamper myself, can't make up, too lazy to exercise, too lazy to socialize to meet friends, too familiar and not easy to start, too unfamiliar to open my mouth.

There is also a hobby is to eat, you can't control your mouth and can't open your legs, and then you will get fatter and fatter and can't wear good-looking clothes, others put on makeup like a little fairy, you occasionally put on makeup like a flatbread smeared with hot sauce, others lose weight is amazing, and even if you lose weight, you are still not confident.

Then go for plastic surgery, you are afraid of pain, in fact, you are not poor and not motivated. The biggest interest is sleeping, IQ and EQ are not enough, and sending messages is always the sentence Have you eaten?

So your object can only be a mobile phone, these phenomena do not change, you deserve to be single.

Some people say that the circle is too small, you say you want to fall in love, but you don't know who to talk to.

If you have someone you like, you feel that you are unlikely to be together, if you don't fall in love, you envy others for having an object, and if you fall in love, you are afraid of giving the wrong person seriously, so you can talk about a widowed love with it.

How about being a dashing single dog?

Are these the reasons why you are single? What circle is too small? Don't know who to talk to? Forget it, stop deceiving yourself, it's all your lack of confidence.

Why don't these people with high vision, lower their vision, and those who are not confident be more confident, so that they can't find a partner?

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Under the pressure of family, the mood of wanting to find a partner early will backfire.

If you are too anxious in the process of finding a partner, you will behave inappropriately and cause disgust to the woman.

If you keep being rejected by others, do you have some minor problems? If you are a person who is seriously self-centered and has a small temper tantrum at every turn, then it is naturally unlikable. At this time, you can try to change yourself and improve yourself.

In fact, the matter of finding a partner has little to do with whether you are in a big city or a small county, and the real reason why you can't find a partner is that your personal value is not worthy of your own vision. I think it's okay, if your own conditions are better, you can find a partner in **, it's just whether you like it or not.

People who have been living in small counties are more likely to find suitable matches. There is not much cultural difference between them, and the surrounding information is more symmetrical and more suitable for the county, so it should not be difficult to find a partner. And if you live in the county for a long time, some neighbors and relatives around you will also introduce you to some friends of the opposite sex, so I think it should not be difficult to find a partner in a small county.

It also depends on one's own conditions and requirements for the other party.

If the conditions of the man are good, it is still easier to find a young and beautiful one in a small county, and it will be more difficult for a man with bad conditions, whether it is in a small county town or a city.